Why do women talk to men on dating apps when they have no interest in them? Why bother responding and wasting their time
>>84758456Women are juggling 100 men at any time. Several of those men are statistically going to be 6'5 male models with perfect abs saying that they have cocaine and a mansion in the hills she can stay at while they have wild porn sex for hours every day. And that's just on dating apps, women receive endless praise and dopamine via Instagram and Snapchat.
>>84758474FPBPif a woman isn't enthusiastically messaging you first, move on
>>84758456all women in general do this
She's fugly too, that's how you know she's probably talking to like 20 chads at the same time
>>84758456I don't know how this idea that men are bad at texting started. A lot of women text like they're medically braindead most of the time, only to cover themselves later by saying they were sending "signals".
>>84758505been talking to her for months... at some point she showed "aggressive interest" and i thought that was it but shortly after she stopped and it's been a slow crawl since with sometimes a week of no contact. she has messaged me back when i'd be the one not messaging. i know i should end it but it's hard.
>>84758869Man you have to stop"Texting" is unnaturalThis shit is a humiliation ritual
>>84758869You fucked up. That period where she was into you was the time frame you need to meet in person. If you miss that window it's over, the spark blew out. As soon as you get to that peak next time you invite them to meet in person and you say as little as possible online until you meet in person at that moment.
>>84758869>months>week of no contactBrother you can do better than that... just move on man...
>>84758456>Why do women talk to men on dating apps when they have no interest in them?tomorrow on mars: you need to send her a notification
>>84758869>been talking to her for monthsHow do you even do that knowing the same woman most likely had a one night stand with a man she met at the bar?Seriously should I gaslight myself and think this shit doesn't happen?
>>84758456Men simply need to stop giving social engagement to women for free, even if it comes at the cost of not getting any pussy (You're not going to get it anyway)Society would instantly get better and we'd se more women having meltdowns on news and social media about not getting enough attention
>>84758879sorry didn't mean to imply i was op. in my situation it was someone on discord.
>>84758936no one ever because who cares: you need to telegraph all your moves
>>84758942don't understand what you meant here
>>84758972it's a discord cope where you speak when someone posts in a different channel so whatever and when the person says whatever in that channel is stored in your message
>>84758456>Why do women talk to men on dating apps when they have no interest in them? Why bother responding and wasting their timeUnless they're at work they have nothing better to do. Get it through your head - women don't do anything.
>>84758869>been talking to her for monthsAnd you are conversating with her like you just met her still? Have you even fucking met up? Even here, it is common knowledge you are supposed to get off the app and meet irl as fast as possible because they will get bored and move on extremely fast
>>84758456the better question is why are men on dating apps if they claim to be interested in women? is goy slop not enough distraction for you already? some dork itt mentions statistics, while ignoring the fact you are statistically never going to find anyone on a dating app, it's less than 2% chance that you actually go on a date in the next year using cucking apps. go outside.
>>84759640Where did you even get that statistic from you ignominious cunt? I have seen other people parrot statistics that say a lot of people in relationships these days met on apps. So what the fuck is it you ineffable clown demon? Loathsome harlotry experiencer?
>>84759536sorry i wasn't op >>84758936
>>84759775They might "meet" on social media apps or group chat apps, but usually it's people in their own communities already. The 2% statistic is specific to dating apps. There is no "what the fuck" you dumb piece of garbage, the OP is literally an example of what this statistic represents. He's not going on any dates any time soon.
>>84758474This. Women are there to be impressed by you, they don't care about your personality questions or whatever. If you don't understand that, you're wasting your time on dating sites to begin with.
>>84759818where are you supposed to find a woman who acts like a human being and who's interested in mutual understanding and getting to know each other etc
>>84759794You have filled me with doubt you fucking... you fucking... clitoral hood enclosed shadow shape. It doesn't even make any fucking sense. Oh ok so 2% of people will actually have a fucking date from these apps. That doesn't make any fucking sense. Explain yourself if you please or I'll piss on your soul.
>>84758456They usually don't. You just found some randoms screenshot.This one is probably just trying to be polite and not blocking hoping the other one is getting the hint.>>84758505Yeah, but for these losers just talking to a foid alone is basically the highlight of their year so it's a chance they can't afford to miss.
>>84759832>it doesn't make any senseHow so? Do you think most guys have an easy time meeting women from dating apps?
>>84759835>for these losers just talking to a foid alone is basically the highlight of their yearWhy do you have to look down on people? I doubt you're a very good person
>>84759868No, not in the slightest, but this 2% sounds completely implausible. Just my intuition and not backed by any research. Take it as you will.
>>84759893Most single people stay single and don't go on any dates. The 2% is part of something like 20-30% of a group of single, heterosexual men who end up going on any dates. And yes, a big portion of those still use group chats or social media to meet girls, I'll admit instagram is a much easier way to meet people than going out generally, but if you are interested in girls then you would never be on a dating app and you would spend most of your time socializing in the real world. This text bullshit exchange in the OP maybe took 30 seconds of his life and he's making a big deal of it. GO OUTSIDE
>>84759835>getting the hint>on an app where you have to match each otherThe projection is off the charts
>>84758670Every accusation is a projection. There's a reason why men used to never listen to women
>>84758456>>84758670They literally view you as a Tamagotchi. They're just fiddling with their Nintendogs on their attention generator app.
>>84759924Ok well here's the thing: this go outside touch grass mentality only makes sense if you, yourself, have never actually done this. Because if you had, you would realise how hard it is to actually socialise, compete with people in a group dynamic with everyone employing their own subtle manipulation tactics, and from this situation, actually achieve any kind of meaningful connection. More to the point if you don't have people to go out with in the first place then you are just some desperate cunt awkwardly interposing yourself into the path of people who wouldn't spare an ounce of piss were you on fire and screaming. So meet people to go out with? Which people? The same competitive cunts who will tear you down for their own crumb of pussy and laugh while doing so, all while saying the exact things you and others are saying, the same platitudes. Yeah sure when I was on drugs all the time I met people at clubs but it was all superficial. At least I got some sex out of it, hey maybe I should just become a drug addict again. Better yet maybe I should just completely focus on acquiring wealth whatever the cost to my wellbeing and moral compass because I sure as shit would prefer fucking sex workers ad nauseam over the emotional minefield and ego flaying that is modern dating.
>>84758456most women only use dating apps for attention and validation to reassure themselves that they are desirable. i wouldnt be surprised that 95% of the women who constantly use dating apps are either total losers irl and no men talk to them, they get rejected irl constantly, or they are social media junkies who need a constant stream of validation because they have rewired their brain to be in a dopamine validation high 24/7. most actual attractive women on dating apps are probably the last one
>>84759885Because I find them paradoxical. They hate foids so but they're simultaneously so weirdly interested in talking to them. They bitch a lot about female privilege while simultaneously being the ones that provide it.>>84759944Yeah, so they initially matched and then they changed their mind. It's really simple anon.You don't know what happened before in that conversation. And maybe that person just has a low standard for matching and it's more like "okay, let's see how this goes" and then decides it's not all that interesting a person and tries to get that person to stop politely.
>>84760000It's not touch grass mentality, it's don't be a fucking retard mentality. You're not avoiding some meme competition if you use a dating app, those are still mainly humans who exist in the same competitive world, and some fake accounts. You're just adding extra steps and restrictions to something that is fundamentally natural, only for the sake of convenience and safety. The problem is that the costs severely outweigh the benefits unless you instantly move every conversation to a phone call or in-person meet. Matchmaking never works the way people oofy doofy about it, there's no amount of algorithm or astrology that can shape relationships the way humans have evolved for ten morbillion years to do in person and in a community and with people they ALREADY TRUST
>>84758869>Talking to her for monthsDude I fucked my current gf after the 3rd date when we had known one another for less than one month. Grow some balls and self-respect, holy shit. IMAGINE talking to a bitch for MONTHS and you get NOTHING. Fucking waste of time.
>>84758456>>84759835most women are brainless losers
>>84760105The sex is fun though. It just makes no sense that some guys are single
>>84760105And yet this post alone is enough to make it quite clear to me that you desire nothing more than their love and affection, and yet, you shall never obtain it.
>>84760122(nta) i bet you're >>84760049projector and assooomer of things
>>84760122Bigger leap than niel armstrong goddamn
>>84760065Well you have cut through the haze of my inebriation with a ray of wisdom so despite my obviously irascible disposition I will say to YOU anon, thank you and you are probably a decent person. I still fucking hate this world and myself most of all but here have an Andariel.
>>84758456Because it's really funny whe they try to make small talk when it's obvious they only care about having sex LOLYou can literally write "k." to them, and they'll keep replying like a chatbot.
>>84760163What game is the gif from
>>84760203Lol ididnt read >>84760163WnrirelyIt is diabloI ahould sleep now
>>84760203Diablo 2 one of the best games ever made>>84760214Yeah lol.
>>84760080He's gotta be under 21 this is crazy. I fucked my bf on the first date after talking online for a couple weeks (2 years together)
>>84758456>I don't knowI don't know
>>84760240it was ld
