>>84761376
ima paranoid person so I try and read their patterns

typically for me unforch love bombing is followed by some abusive annoying person trying to groom me

no in all cases I have found but they're out there

I have never been love bombed

Groom them into adopting all of my fetishes

>>84761376
Slowly cut myself off from them because I don't trust that

"Love bombing" isn't really a thing anymore. It was always a manipulation tactic and women don't need to resort to doing it anymore because they have more autonomy than ever before. The few women who decide to use it can't be arsed to make an effort.

>>84761376
why don't you try squishing their little arm flab?

>>84761387
>Groom them into adopting all of my fetishes
ill try
>>84761412
yes, but youre focusing on women only. this is not the case over here

>>84761376
My radar goes full alert and I take off my BPD, NPD and HPD cheat sheets and try to check what matches. Generally something does. Then I break contact.

>B...but Anon it feels so good
I know, but when they break you and you're stuck in anhedonia for years it will all seem not worth it. Undoing the damage wasn't worth the infatuation, magical moments and crazy sex.

>>84761376
What do you call it when you want to love bomb someone and also want them to love bomb you, but in a non-manipulative way? Instead you're just both really in to each other and lovey dovey.
I want a whole lot of whatever that is.

>>84761456
What do people mean when they say crazy sex (about bpd etc people)?

>>84761472
Well the sex with the BPD was awesome, passionate, kinky, we did it drunk, on drugs, it was just very dirty and exciting. But outside of just being desinhibited sex there was also that feeling of really bonding together. Sex felt like a complete union of our bodies and soul, abandoning yourself to that intense feelings. To the point I still think about it today, but again, that isn't really worth the damage this relationship did to me.

>>84761376
are you male or female?
this is vital info
>>84761412
women absolutely do lovebomb lol

>>84761625
female. i thought it was obvious because whos going to love bomb incels lmao