>>84761584
if i had a sex bomb gf i'd let her blow other guys. watch the harmony suck it dry video

>>84761584
>had sex with
ngmi should have waited till marriage
>i just don't know how to explain it to her without sounding insane.
obviously her having oral sex with another man would be similarly an issue. it is degrading and she literally used the mouth you kiss to pleasure some penis. it might not be as intimate but still.

ok you can leave the board now sex-haver

>>84761584
you sound insanely insecure. ewww. disgusting!

>>84761618
this. do you think her abusive toxic ex acted like that? yeah he was a piece of shit but he knew how to make her feel....loved. do better, op.

>>84761618
>>84761628
tuff to get followed up by two of the most foid coded posts i've ever read
notop

>>84761584
She betrayed you before she met you, is what you're implying? Well that goes both ways, you know.

You betrayed your future girlfriend by being an incel. Even if you stop being an incel that doesn't mean those years you wasted away just disappear. Everybody has regrets.

>>84761717
im struggling to believe that someone unironically wrote this out and thought it made sense

Felt the same way about robot bf, some people are just too sensitive for this world

>>84761724
If it didn't make sense, you'd refute it. If you don't refute it, then it's just because you disagree with a statement that makes you feel bad. Ironically, that's how women dodge accountability lol

>>84761744
it's just retarded. what does incel mean to you? involuntary celibate, no? how can one "choose" to be involuntarily celibate? and if one cannot, how can being one be a betrayal?

>>84761778
Same amount of betrayal as a young girl being tricked into sex or raped. Just because your intentions are one thing, doesn't mean your actions and results are blameless. A good person would forgive a girl for making the mistake of falling in love too fast. A good person would forgive a guy for making the mistake of falling in love too slow.

>>84761802
no, betrayal requires intentionality. a young girl being raped is not betraying her future husband or something, wtf? she is having what is hers forcefully and traumatically taken away from her, it is not a choice, it is not a "betrayal." now some woman CHOOSING to have sex could very well be seen as betrayal. a guy being INCAPABLE of finding a gf, of finding love, romance, sex, affection from women whether due to social awkwardness or unattractiveness or lack of height out of his control is not betraying anyone.

>>84761584
>i'm willing to end our relationship over this. i just don't know how to explain it to her without sounding insane.
ok lets say you do. then what? you find a new girl and now she has to deal with the fact that you've pentrated other women in the past as well.

theres no logic in what your feeling and you shouldnt act out on this insecure emotions because it wont net you anything. every woman you get with the rest of your life will have a body count, just like you do now. you have a body count too

>>84761847
Women make choices that make rape more likely all the time. They refuse to learn from those choices. Men make choices that make being an incel more likely all the time. They refuse to learn from those choices.

I feel sorry for them, and I'd forgive someone for trying to improve and move on. But that doesn't change the fact that people allow a little bad luck to define themselves. That's not an excuse. You can't just be forgiven for being a nigger because you were raised around niggers. That's not how responsibility works.

At a certain point, you choose to be the person you are.

>>84761717
How do you betray someone before you know that person exist or have any kind of connection, at least indirect one (like you snitch on unknown individual who you get to know latter).

Its the same shit like claiming you ripped off the next owner of something (house, car, computer...) by not taking good care of it, although you told him/her before buying it.

>>84761906
i mean sure, there are times where someone who has been raped or might be considered "incel" made some decisions that caused their issues. but i do not see why we should assume op is one of those cases especially considering your first post literally referred to him as "incel" (before he got sex) which he would not fall into should he have had the ability to get laid had he put in the work.

i don't think OP having incelibacy define him is a necessary assumption, not least because he literally didn't even use the word.

>>84761584
This is worse than actual sex. I thought I was the only one who felt this way.

>>84761584
Lol you kissed her after she sucked another mans dick

>>84762404
the thing is knowing she trusted and thought someone else was worth enough for her to act that way. she told another man she loves him and probably had genuine hope of things going further. it just makes me sick to think about it.

i feel bad i wasted my first romance with someone like this, after years of not engaging in anything, waiting for someone to be truly worth it. she probably is, though, i'm too paranoid maybe.i don't know.

Anybody bugging about this is deeply insecure and needs to help themselves not be. No relationship will survive otherwise.
To be in a healthy, longterm relationship, you're going to have to accept that whoever you're with is not perfect. It's just the way it is.

>>84761584
Lets hope your next gf won't care that you kissed and stuck your dick inside another women

>>84762496
She won't. Male virginity is an anti-feature.

>>84762472
thank you. i think this is true and what i need to internalise. i'm just afraid i will not be able to fully realise it until it's too late and things between us have already degraded. i love her and she loves me, but i get really psychotic about this and our connection not being strong enough.

>>84762472
Not perfect means having weird hobbies, being annoying sometimes, making you do things you don't want to, not having a perfect body, having a shit job, etc. Her pleasuring another guy is a whole different thing.