I moved my location to London and got somewhere around 80 matches in one afternoon, but I also ask for my data before and after my experiment, my profile was shown to around 2000 women and only around 160 of them right swipped me.Thats a right swipe rate of 8%, 92% of women still find me unattractive.I think Im above average, I'm fit, I'm white, and I still only attract 8% of women on dating apps.Hypergamy is real.I cannot imagine what an actual Chad's experience on Bumble is like, I'm like a 7.5/10, 8 if you add the fact I have a good profile, I'm white and fit.I used to get 3-4 matches a week, since turning 30, I get dozens a day in well populated areas, Im not unhappy, but I didnt realize I still had a sub 10% match rate, its just that Im shown to 100s of women.
>>84763986This was before I moved my location
>>84764000And After, have gotten 15 potential matches since, but I assume my profile must have been shown another 200 times in that time and left swiped nearly 200 times as well.Why are women so hyper selective?
>>84763986Duuuude im 22 and just got hinge and got fuck all in the week of having it. Is that normal or is it over. Nice stats nonetheless anon
>>84763986all those women are uglywhy are bongistani women so ugly?
>>84764020If it makes you feel better I had dating applications in my 20s and got 0 matches or dates.Things turned around in my late 20s when I lost weight and got fit.I have a double digit body count at 30 now, but I was a virgin until 26, and Im afraid the chance of ever fucking prime girl is past me, fucked a 23 yr old Argentinian girl thats the lowest, and she asked me if I had kids or was married on our date, comes with the territory of being 30 I guess.Either way things might still get better for you
>>84764036He said his location was London. None of the women are English.
>>84763986Did bumble ask you to send a video or photo of your face or identity confirmation via cards?
>>84764036Nah not all of my matches are ugly, but yeah theres a lot of Indian and black girls.I actually had 160 potential matches but I left swipped most of the black and indian ones.Some of them are cute, not like 10/10s but cute
I don't like these threads.. it's not fair you are sharing these pics of them, they literally liked YOU and men that they wouldn't swipe on are gonna call them ugly now. That's why I never used a pic with my face directly in it
>>84764081And a lot of women in their 30s or late 20s.Matches this 22 yr old and an 18 yr old asian girl, the rest were above 26, and thats out of 80 women
>>84763986be grateful that you are whiteat least you get more opportunities than men of other races
>>84764111Sucks I guess, OP here, I got bullied as a teenager in my awkward phase.1. Its not getting back to any of them.2. A lot of them wouldnt bat an eye for most men on r9k or on bumbleWho cares, why do you care? Im not posting any information that might doxx them, London has a population of millions
>>84763986You are Chad if you get constant matches without doing shit
>>84764115Happy for you anon. Also charge your shit nigga
>>84764115lol, that girl is using a digital camera that's older than she is.
>>84764132I think being white helps, but then again I've been white my whole life and things only turned around after I religiously started obsessing about my physical health, fitness and what I ate.Reality is humans are fickle and shallow creatures, we will show a disproportionate amount of empathy towards people we find physically appealing.If you look better you get treated better, sad fact of life.Being white helps, but I got zero attention for 80% of my life until my late 20s, so I am a firm believer in self improvement (physically) regardless of race
>>84764162Without showing us for obvious reasons what does your profile convey? Like do you have you doing activities, a frame photo, social proof stuff?
>>84763986Anyway I am slightly humble bragging, but also keep in mind my rejection rate statistically is still 92%, and I am on average matching below average looking women, if I was very selective swipping 8s and 9s I might have gotten 4-5 matches today.Somehow every ugly girl thinks Im free real estate tho, thats disheartening.9 more right swipes, since I started this thread, but its turning midnight in the UK so I guess its ramping down
>>84764188London is a large sample size tbf. Not to take away from your success but London + whatever you have going on has min-maxxed the thing
>>84764167One facial pic, one photo of me at a pool party, you can only see my upper arms it doesnt come off as outwardly narcicistic but you can tell I have some muscle on me and Im lean, a photo of me hitchhiking in Argentina, a photo of me in front of some obscure communist landmarks that look pretty sick, a photo of me in full ski gear, nice lighting and photography and some photos of me in nature
>>84764195Yes of course, I live in an area with a few 10,000 people, in MY area, I get 5 matches a week.I spent a few weeks in Buenos Aires in January... I had more sex in 1 month of Argentina than all of my life put together before that. I remade my profile before I went to Argentina.I thought women in Argentina were just especially horny, but I've been hopping through various multimillion population cities and I get dozens sometimes 100s of matches in all of them a day, more than Buenos Aires actually.I slept with 10 Argentinian girls 2 Venezuelan and 1 Columbian in Argentina... I got addicted to it desu
>>84764188>every ugly girl thinks Im free real estate thoThey are some of the most sluttiest ran through girls out there. When they finally see a guy who might not seem like Chad or that he just wants one thing. They think that you must therefore be down bad and that gives them permission to take you for all you're worth.
>>84764162>things only turned around after I religiously started obsessing about my physical health, fitness and what I ate.But that's only half the story. Without surveying your competition, you can't say the effect isn't mostly from other men getting fat.
>>84764238True.This is my average match
>>84764255Dude Im down 30kg, I'm incredibly lean and I have a 6 pack, not that you can tell in my photos, but you can tell Im atheltic build.I would argue if I looked the way I do now 30 yrs ago Id do better because of all the physique inflation, if you put my photos next to an instagram influencer I look like trash.>>84764268
>>84764234Have you have a sti/std check up
>>84764290Im probably fine
>>84764111no one gives a fuck what you care about even if you get digits, grow the fuck up roast.>>84763986once you start getting primo 18-21 pussy consistently, then you will be chad. you aren't far from that line, but 25+ yr old roasts is chad-lite at best. I believe you can do it before you lose your sex drive, anon-kun.
>>84763986I live in a relatively small city (fewer than a million people) and in my early to mid twenties I got extremely fit and sociable. Abs, nice haircut, laid back attitude, et cetera. I typically managed at least one date per week, sometimes I would be dating several women at once. My friends told me this was a high amount, especially for where I live. Anyway, I think that the problem is genuinely just with Western women, because I also had the experience of going overseas and just being swamped with positive attention. In Asia and Europe, I had heaps of attractive, friendly women matching with me and having conversations that went beyond:>Hey>Idk>U got weed?None of my dates felt like I was being interviewed for a job, they felt like actual... Dates. Chicks would message me afterwards asking when I was free and I never got openly insulted to my face and told to kill myself.
this one time, someone on r9k took my pictures i posted and made a fake tinderthen chadfished a bunch of girlsso i made a real tinder with the exact account and said the exact things he didand got no fucking matches/luckseriously its a luck based game. Dude got a bunch of nudes doing it and I just got bored and demotivated
>>84764478Thats incredibly improbable. Your profile is shown to enough people that the algorithm basically figures out how attractive you are.1/3 girls on bumble in London are Indian or Paki, I find that really funny
>>84764520this was in like 2011? I dont know how it works
>>84763986>How many matches do you need to be an actual Chad?Matches are a terrible metric. How msny dates, that lead to something do you get? That is the only thing that matters. You can get houndreds pf matches, but if they lead to nowhere, what is the point? First dates are a bit better, but if you get ghosted after one meeting, again, whats the point? How many of those matches lead to anything?
>>84764554Idk then get those photos ans catfish with your own old photos and you will know.These dating algos have been so optimized over the years.You know each dating profile has an assigned MMR, aka you only get shown to people within a certain MMR bracket, I might get matches but only within my MMR, Im not even being shown to 10/10s on this ap, sometimes the algo feeds me crums and shows me to an 8 or maybe a 9, but even if I were hypothetically attractive to a 10/10 Id never be shown because the algo calculated that it would likely disincentivise that profile from swipping more.I imagine some hideously disfigured girls are possibly being baited by guys like me that are somewhat above average, but they dont show me their profiles.All of these apps are built around engagement. And its been perfected over the years.Take your old photos make a new profile and you will see how attractive you werr, and make a new onr to see how you rank now that'd be an interesting experiment.Then ask for your data and report the results like so: >>84764000>>84764015
>>84764000~10% yes rate so you're top 10%, Not quite CHAD though.
>>84764582These NONE because Im on passport, but anecdotally I got a few dates around where I live (I spent a year travelling have been back home for 4 months), I have gotten maybe 50-60 matches, but I live in a VERY VERY low population area, so its impossible.In the first month of coming back I was super hyped up, Had 3 dates, madeout eith all 3 of them and slept with 1, and in the last 3 months I lost the energy to meet anyone, its not that I cant I just feel drained dating at home. If I really tried I could get a lot of dates, but I dont have a car so its a logistical nightmare.When I was travelling though my success rate of getting sex after getting a date was about 50%-60% if that tells you anything
>>84764603Im old and married now, i have no desire for it ha. I just stuck to 4chan girls over the years instead and it paid off. I've been with plenty beautiful women. I also can look back and see I was attractive, a 7~/10 guy who was incredibly broken. Yeah. But if i were in a different life then maybe i'd try and have fun with it
Does Persian count as white-ish.I kinda would
>>84764655If you squint she's white
>>84764667>>84764655When she's that hot does it really matter?
