the fukcs the cure for this?
>>84776439im sorry cna u make that even lwoer resi am an ant i cant read
>>84776439By being a self-loathing man of action
Martyrdom unironically.
There is something holding you back. You have to find out what it is. Most of the time it is things like neurodivergence, confidence issues, health issues, or trauma. You have to lock in and find your own path. Try to look at yourself honestly, without harshness, and look into terms such as individuation. The world is hard to navigate. It's not your fault and as long as you keep trying, even if it's not the status quo, you're still making something of yourself. More problems will always arise, but I believe in you and your ability to find meaning and purpose.
>>84776439Do somethingAccept you will be bad at starting something new and do it anyway. Preferably something healthy and/or sociableOnce you get better at it, you instill confidence in yourself that not only can you change, but you can change for the better. You take that confidence everywhere you go and it pays dividends
>>84776460ThisJust do anything, even if it sucks in the beginningGo be fat and weak at the gym and have terrible lifts but still try and get there 3 times a week and follow your routineJoin a recreational sporting team and initially be terrible but at least you're reliably showing up and that itself is a quality people eventually appreciate Go to a singles night and just unironically be yourself and maybe try talking to a few people (including the guys, they want friends too) and get over the fear of initiating and realise that the inevitable rejection isn't the end of the worldJoin a yoga or pilates class and be the weirdo that tries their hardest to not look at women so they don't think you're a creep and just keep going until you're a regular there and then keep going until they like you and you make friends worked for meJust do things, social things. Become an entity in the world, and realise that your fears and anxieties are infinitely worse than the reality
>>84776499>>84776460nice tips UwU
>>84776439That's literally me. I think the only solution is to kms
>>84776460Yes, but the reason you're the way you are is cause of some sort of low self esteem issue or beliefs about yourself holding you back. Your ego is always gonna want to try and stop you from changing and make you self sabotage back into your hole. So you can try all you want but keep quitting and failing. It's enough to just be aware of your patterns, why it's happening, and then instead of focusing of the minute details of the actions and maybe shaming yourself for them, just focus on changing the actions themselves. A support system, like for example going to the gym and you have a gym buddy, that helps too. Remember that. Normalfags have these support systems, they always talk like they do it all on their own merit but it's never that, often their dad/older sibling may help them and carve out a path, they have guidance, they have help, people who drive them places, therapists, etc.
>>84776439This book has help me more identify the problem, for me it's a mixture of not being properly prepared to navigate the world by parents and attention hijacked by youtube videos. So right now my first step is to stop using youtube so much and to use that time to adhere to my obligations to get ahead. I've been here before and got through it with working out and sticking to my principles at the time. Drinking and smoking THC helped socially but has a really short shelf life so I'm going to do it the right way. Once you realize that people are as socially anxious as you and you feel like you can make the first move it really opens up the world, turning 30 devoured my self-esteem but now I realize I have another 30 more years of this bullshit and have to become good enough to get the few things I actually want in this world.
>>84776499see i'd love to do this, really i would, but i've tried so many times and i must have some repulsive school shooter vibe cause things get worse for me the longer i stay in one activity, people target me and hate me for reasons i cant understand. this isnt one time either its a consistent pattern in my life. while you get accepted thanks to proximity, i get rejected repeatedly and i can only get burned so many times. i'm not like op's image where i dont try, i do try and that makes it much worse in my opinion. really at this point im just bitter at people like you that can get by "trying" when really all you do is show up and get accepted then act like you're a god because of it.
>>84776439i hate when i open this shithole of a site and i'm personally attacked
>>84776499>and realise that your fears and anxieties are infinitely worse than the realityCope. And a major cope at that. You are asking to deny reality whenever it appears by being moot and neutral towards it in hopes that it won't happen. Honestly at that point I'd rather hear /x/ theories about manifestation of reality and mental magic powers than mentally castrate myself.>no. you don't live in the hood with no money and no opportunity to leave.>just put yourself into awkward situations and eventually, maybe a month, maybe a decade, someone will take pity on you>motherfuckingFIGHTCLUBpicruseriousnigga.jpg
>>84776499and what do I do when one of the women at these things says I'm a creep who makes her uncomfortable just because I looked at her or my arm brushed against her while we were queueing or something, what if literally the only social interaction is ignoring me, a sort of sarcastic "ok?" or getting up and leaving, whatever I say or do, people take one look at you, realize you are disgusting and so does everyone else and they do their normy social things to get rid of you and minimize contact with you, no one gives a shit about your social development, only if you can entertain them, assuming they aren't repulsed by youof course this isn't you, you're a subnormy, if you saw me you wouldn't think "someone I can make friends with" you'd think "hmm, nah, not him" or you'd probably hate us like the other normies, this is probably why you types that normy just world fallacy gaslighting slopit is like someone is screaming in agony with a broken femur after a car accident and you tell them "I stubbed my toe and I didn't cry about it, you don't need help", it is literally evil
>>84777933Just ignore him hes a le stoic cyclepath, you can see from the image he provided. Truth is, its bad for you. Not impossible, but bad. Youll need to leverage everything you have in every important social interaction you have. Maybe try getting rich/famous, or becoming an outlaw vagrant. But if you try the usual advice and it doesnt work, you dont have a normie brain and you need to somehow take advantage of your pattern recognition skills that dont relate to social interaction.
>>84777961But make sure you don't become too aware where you notice patterns amongst patterns. Eventually you burn out and realize it really isn't worth it. Unless you got stupid ez money coming your way.
>>84776439There is no cure for that.
>>84776499>Go be fat and weak at the gym and have terrible lifts but still try and get there 3 times a week and follow your routine>Join a recreational sporting team and initially be terribleBaseball/Football Chad shows up at any sporting activity and is a natural at it without ever trying or practicing. I saw it firsthand in school. That's a sign from the universe for genetic trash and our gaslighters like you to rope.
>>84776439if you're inactive because life fucked you and you have no power or energy then i have no idea, justice and fairness are man made concepts not laws of the universeif you were stunted and are scared or lazy then exposure therapy and slow steps with the knowledge that no matter how long it takes you will make it can be an in-roadlifting is the typical exampleunderstand that you're years behind and it will take years to get up to speed and it will suck all the way there but if you stick with it you will succeed eventually
>>84776439I HAVENT MOVED AN INCH SINCE I WAS SEVENTEENMAYBE MY GUTS A LITTLE BIGGERAND MY SHIRTS DONT FIT RIGHT ANYMOREWHATS THE POINT OF PUSHING ON ANYMOOOORE
>>84776439Don't be half assed.
>>84778427What if I'm Hank Hill assed?
>>84778559Then get that damn lawn mower and grill out. Perhaps the new balances as well
>the fukcs the cure for this?Don't know. I'm this, but late 30s.As an autist, I am trapped as a NEET with no way to grow among normies, and make money.As a trapped incel, I have no way to meet foids who might give me some pussy. Manlets are despised. Bald too.There is no point to this life, especially without unpaid sex. Guess I'll just hang around until I die then.
