1. Giving a woman orgasms doesn't mean she'll stay2. Spending money on a woman doesn't mean she'll commit.3. A woman who becomes your girlfriend will then show you all of her problems.4. She has many, many problems. 5. Her problems are now your problems but your problems are still your problems.6. She will regress to a child-like state. 7. She will expect you to know what she feels even she can't articulate it. 8. She will expect you to do everything she wants to do because if you don't do it then that must mean you don't love her.9. Her friends will intrude and 99 percent of the time will label you a "toxic" guy. 10. She'll want to spend lots of money but on things that are quite often over priced. 11. She'll go through many mood swings throughout the month due to the hormonal peaks and troughs of the natural menses she experiences. 12. When she's moody she'll blame you.13. If she gets horny a lot she'll expect you to fuck her, if you don't, she'll be upset and say you don't love her. 14. She will expect you to be like her father. Many of you want a relationship but because you haven't experienced it you don't know that relationships for men are very draining and much like a prison. There are rare women who are amazing to be in relationship with but they are so rare, very hard to find. This post is to take some of the pain away from being single because in actual fact being single has some positives but they are hard to see unless you've been in a relationship or until someone like me points this out as I have done here in this post. I'm also someone who appreciates women for their natural feminine energy and their softness, their courage, and their deep love. But I also see things for the way they are, too and I don't gloss over the realities nor do I fantasize about perfection. I also acknowledge that men are annoying to be in relationship with from the perspective of a woman. Yeah we're different.
>>84785158nigger i aint reading all that
>>84785158thanks anon I appreciate the wisdom. t. 42yo virgin
you are a redditor that uses 4chan and you're telling me about the realities of dating women.
I don't like to complain about women and to read complaints about women to take the pain away from being single, but to take the pain away from not being single. The commiseration soothes me, letting me get relief in other ways than by screaming at her.
>>84785158Hey nigger?>See this? Preddy cool right?You don't have to put space out each senteance
Just remember that OP is worse than you in every way.
I can tolerate that as long as I get to fuck other women
>>84785592i've been here since 2005. >>84785585genuinely i hope it did help a bit. >>84785619the whole obsession over me using a spacebar is just a bit overdone lol. some people just prefer a different way of typing.i've been here since 2005. DSFARGEG>>84785617yeah i was just hoping to help some guys out by taking away the pain they may feel about being single.
>>84785158So basically women are shitI already knew that
>>84785158The craziest part is her refusing to acknowledge the relationship between her menstrual cycles and mood swings. They'll do it monthly for a year. You can point it out every time and they'll act like it has nothing to do with it, every single time. It's infuriating and you eventually have to give up on actually loving them as equals. They are children, mentally. Emotions are their only reality. They will talk about you. They will complain. They will always have a complaint. You can ignore them or you can change. Doesn't matter. They will not be satisfied. You have to just never take them seriously and carve out your own sanity. This is not how life is supposed to be. No one man is supposed to bare the endless emotional labor of dealing with a woman. We sent them away to be with the other women and leave us alone for a reason. The nuclear family is a dead end but we are stuck with this for now. Hard to enjoy it. Life is shit
I think only women addicted to social media only act like this.
>>84785158What a fucking wall of text just to describe what every fucking man on earth already knows about normie women.>protipFind yourself an aspie gf. She will not be perfect but its the best you can get. You will have to deal just with 50% of womens bullshit. Just avoid the aspies who are hardcore feminists.
>>84786041Aspies bring all the normie problems while also being (more) incompetent, unempathic and unreasonable.
>>84786041>avoid the aspies who are hardcore feminists.qrd?
>>84785158>>84785769Read these two posts and drill them into your mind. Study their words carefully if you must. Especially if youre a young man who hasnt dated a woman yet. Not a single lie was told. I recently got out of a relationship myself and I promise you these anons just gave you the best advice you will ever get here. Take it from us, we had to learn the hard way.
>>84786041>>84785185is that original post really considered a 'wall of text' and a lot of text by people these days?
>>84786109thank youthisisnowanoriginalpost8228
>>84786180yes. if i can't involuntarily absorb the meaning of the text as my unfocused gaze glides over the scrolling screen, it's a wordswordswords wall of text that nobody aint never finna read and tldr unc &c.
>>84786249thank you for describing how it is for you I wasn't aware that this is what it is like for some people.
>>84785769>>84785158>>84786109>Yeah you virgins wouldn't believe what girls are like you're so lucky we got our dicks wet in your stead and condescendingly tell you about it
>>84785158>. Giving a woman orgasms doesn't mean she'll stay>2. Spending money on a woman doesn't mean she'll commit.>3. A woman who becomes your girlfriend will then show you all of her problems.>4. She has many, many problems. >5. Her problems are now your problems but your problems are still your problems.>6. She will regress to a child-like state. >7. She will expect you to know what--who asked, incel?
>>84785158Bitch, please. Rape is the only thing that keeps a woman coming back to a man. Shit's been proven time after time that you foids want to be pinned down and raped, yet you foids continue to deny it.
>>84786527i was searching for words to convey what you posted.
>>84785158i usually hate demoralization blackpill posts but this is on target with every single point>>84785769some women are aware and actually just avoid you during their period, bless them
>>84785158>reddit spacingdidn't bother reading
>>84786057Your mental illness gives you traits but they dont define your personality. In less than two years ive met two diammetrally different autistic women>>84786063Ive told the story a couple of times before, but i had a female coworker who was autistic. She was bodypositive, feminist, open relationship, childish, beligerant, and now im dating the aspie gf i commented on the other reply. Gf is extremely responsible, saves money, works, studies, wants a family, hates faggots and troons, is spiritual etc. Both shares certain characteristics like not being patient, going into tard rage and being very very repetitive when they talked, but their base personalities and beliefs were totally oposites.
>>84785158>>84785769I only had one actual gf so far but this is exactly how I felt. She treated me like a caretaker or dad. Sex was nice but not the life-changing big moment I thought it would be. She constantly told me all of her thoughts or that she's hungry or whatever. Didn't date anyone else since then. I've gotten very close to girls but then I saw these behaviors pop up. Maybe it's just how they communicate love. In any case, I don't know how to handle that. If that's the role women want from their boyfriends then this kind of arrangement won't work in 2026 conditions. But I also know it's all by design. My enemies want me in this exact situation. Gotta find a way out.
>>84786527I was not being condescending i was being genuine>>84786701Thank you
>>84785158It's because most women are terrible hence you were able to get them in the first place. The "good" women are all taken by college and don't enter the market again or for long.
>>84786041A true aspie gf is still going to have problems just worse. A nerdy girl/introvert can be helpful though.
>>84785769>>84785158Law of equivalent exchange. Women at baseline suck, but you get to have sex with them and get that emotional validation from being desired. Very few men that actually have the choice between having sex with multiple women and being alone will choose being alone for a reason.
>>84785158The fuck do Moids want ?!?
>>84787380That's why men have got to stop caring about le sex so much
>>84787487I want to be loved and accepted personally. but I cant speak for everyone else.
>>84787487It's really not that hard to understand but I will try again in vain I guess.Men literally just want someone equal to them, but we are constantly disappointed that women seemingly can't be equals. Why do you think so many men are faggots? It's that same reason why throughout human history, strong rich men have had male lovers. Women are genuinely incapable of loving anything but themselves and no this isn't some incel wah I've never been with a woman. The men who hate women genuinely, fuck.Every single woman in my life has done something incredibly evil, stupid, or entire selfish. The women at my job are lazy and toxic, the women I try to date are rude and boring, I just want an equal
>>84787506Sex feels amazing, makes you feel good afterwards, and is fun both physically and psychologically. It's one of the few socially acceptable ways to chase feeling loved and validated, and being able to get casual sex is an easy way to see how "valuable" you are in our society.Plus men easily get off on casual sex. You are right though that most men aren't ever going to be the guy that easily gets pussy, but that won't stop them from trying.
>>84787690>I just want an equalThe issue is you get fucked both ways. You're not allowed to be their "superior" and tell them what to do but you also don't get an equal and loving partner. Likewise even if you do find a woman that's your "equal", she will think that's gross and desire a guy better than her, ensuring that she isn't the equal.
>>84787487So men get all those downsides and what do men get in return in a relationship? Occasional sex? Temporary and conditional love? Yeah nah, most men either cant get women or those that can, don't want to deal with modern women because it isn't worth it.
>>84785158I have come to the realization that Christian women are the only ones worth dating and marrying, and you have to remember the vast majority of Christians are just larping whores.
>>84787914Men that can get women just put them in situationships for sex and occasionally hanging out with the cool ones. That said no man wants to get into a relationship with a woman that sleeps around casually
>>84786608That's a question you posed so..... you did.
>>84787931>have come to the realization that Christian women are the only ones worth dating and marryinghahahahahahahhaahhaaha
>>84788097If a woman wasn't raised Christian she probably at some point became a vaxxed whore with HPV. If she does not believe in God your marriage is meaningless.
>>84787987>Men that can get women just put them in situationships for sex and occasionally hanging out with the cool onesThat's not totally true. There is a tier of women above that. They need Chad and they won't settle for anything less than serious commitment. They are usually engaged to someone 5-10 years older than them
>>84785158Most of these are true to an extent, but having a woman in it still drastically improved my life. But these things are probably much more frustrating if you don't love her, like I love mine
>>84788633Yeah but those are a special case and like they said those women aren't sleeping around. They're also almost always off the market by 25.
>>84785158>bro life is like hard or something better to just sit in your chair and collect funko pops
>>84789654Never said thatOrigInalpost34
