i wish i was a pretty femcel instead of a disgusting femcel
Are you at Ieast white?
>>84798735ADD ME ADD ME NONA ADD ME PLEASE ADD ME ADD ME ADD ME NONA I'LL DO ANYTHING FOR YOU ADD ME PLEASE PLEASE
>>84798735What is your idea of beauty?
>>84798735How about you prove it?
>>84798735Are you a burger? If so:>lose weight >you're automatically at least a 6/10Wow, so hard.
>>84798735same. but I know myself well enough to know that even then I'd still be too lazy to shave which would completely negate any gained appeal. so it doesn't really matter.
>>84798735I may be biased but i personally think that all girls are cute in a way.
>>84799009I'm skinny in burgerland and still don't get approached by men. Men will take a fat curvy girl with a pretty face over a skinny rectangle girl with a man face.
>>84799059Are you expecting men to just approach you on the street?
>>84799025>>84798735How big are your tits? Asking organically
>>8479915270B and they're a bit weird looking. also not the same size.
>>84799025Some don't mind not shaving it if you at least keep it groomed
>>84799059You can't be thus delusional
>>84799244None of the men approaching her are 6'4" fit millionaires, so they are literally invisible to her.
>>84799234I shave nothing though, only wax my pits in the summer. and my legs get hairy as fuck, so nobody really even makes it to the bush
>>84799264>None of the men approaching herThere no men approaching me.
>>84799308Have you tried dating apps and not being chad only
>>84798735>femceldoes not exist
>>84798735Gooning to OP
>>84799316I haven't tried dating apps yet, but if no one is approaching me in college then no one is going to swipe on me on dating apps. I'm less ugly irl than in pictures.
>>84799370You need to be approaching men. Specifically men in their early 30s who frequent image boards. We- I mean they love it when women approach them, and they aren't as superficial as college dudes
>>84799267Well, that's better than nothing. I'm sure you're blowing it out of proportion. Besides, if it was truly that big of a problem, wouldn't you put aside your laziness to shave even a little?
>>84799456It's not that big of a problem, I don't really get along with people in general. I don't have friends and every time I did have them, I had a horrible time. I don't assume it would be any different with a bf. My looks do upset me, but yeah, it's not that big of a deal. I did shave and dress well and do my hair and makeup, and it certainly got me more male attention, but it didn't lead anywhere. Also fundamentally I still AM ugly no matter how much make up I put on, it doesn't actually change anything about my ugliness as a person, it just masks it. If I have children, they'd still look like that, so what's the point. And it's not like people can't tell. So I'd rather be someone with a big ass nose, than someone with a big ass nose who's desperately trying to hide it.
>>84799059>I'm skinny in burgerlandPost your actual height and weight, and don't bullshit
>>84798735I also wish you were a pretty femcel instead, ugly people shouldn't exist.
>>84799529Why don't you get along with others? Maybe you haven't met the right people. We all have to be social sometime.I'm sure you're not that ugly. And even if you were, someone would still take you. It's practically guaranteed. There's so many single men now it is ridiculous. You don't think one out of thousands wouldn't spring for that?I agree, you should embrace your features. After all, they're already part of you. And who knows? Something you find repulsive somebody else may find endearing.How long have you felt like that?
>>847995365'7" and 128 lbs
>>84799642That's pretty good. Do you have any third spaces? Those help
>>84799370>I haven't tried dating apps yet, but if no one is approaching me in college then no one is going to swipe on me on dating apps. I'm less ugly irl than in pictures.Completely delusional thinking no one approaches anyone anymore since its considered sexual harassment and you probably don't go to clubs or anything since you don't sound like a very social person. Install a dating app foid. Seriously its so easy for you or just admit you have social anxiety and probably prefer being alone
>>84799561>Why don't you get along with others? Maybe you haven't met the right peopleI've met a lot of people. I also have no problem making friends, it comes easy to me even, I just hate having them. Even just getting texts feels like a major invasion of my privacy and I avoid responding because it stresses me out. Talking face to face is less stressful, but I still hate doing it.>There's so many single men now it is ridiculous. You don't think one out of thousands wouldn't spring for that?Sure, but I don't really see the point in having sex if not to procreate and that's a WAY higher bar of compatibility that has to be cleared. And that's ignoring the fact that I still hate interaction.Not being desirable (which is the thing that bothers me) and literally not being able to find anyone who wants to have sex with me are different problems. Which makes it 100% a me problem, I know that.
>>84798735I wish I was pretty too and not mentally ill.
What's so ugly about you, specifically?
>>84799652No I live in the suburbs and commute to college. There's nothing around here.>>84799666I've literally witnessed it happening.>Studying in library>Guy comes up to lone girl, asks if he can sit there, compliments her>They start chatting about majors and classes and plans for the summer>Have to listen to this the entire time I'm trying to study >It'll never be me>just admit you have social anxiety and probably prefer being aloneI have social anxiety but I don't prefer being alone.
>>84799749Okay, so how do you feel about phone calls? Better or worse than texts?Someone will desire you. It just takes time. Sure, you might want more boxes ticked or whatever, but that's all it is.Do you go out at all? Maybe you could try that and see what happens. There's also work, though I personally would advise against that. Some people have made that work.So here's my question: what is desire to you? Anyone who wants to have sex with you desires you.So, it's not the bare minimum of attraction. What, then? Looks, money, confidence, status? 6, 6, 6?Not to be rude, but it could be your standards holding you back. Have you thought about that?
>>84799803Okay. The store. The laundromat. The gym. On campus. Plenty of places to meet people.Nobody prefers being alone. No matter how much we refuse to admit that. We're all human. I think you are too hard on yourself. Just because they approach someone else that time... Well, who's to say it won't be you next time?And if you're sick of waiting, bite the bullet and do it yourself.I know it isn't optimal, but it's better than being alone, right?Don't you have funny, charming, or nice classmates or acquaintances you can ask to study with, or something?
>>84799838>Okay, so how do you feel about phone calls? Better or worse than texts?better than texts, but still sucks>Do you go out at all?Only uni, my faculty is sparsely populated. But any place with a lot of people makes me paranoid as fuck, if they people are talking, which they always are.>Not to be rude, but it could be your standards holding you back. I mean I say my standards aren't that high, but I guess everyone says that. I don't care about height, unless he's significantly shorter than me and I don't care about weight as long as it's not immobilizing. I'd love a guy who's blonde but it's fine if he was only blonde as a child. I'm also from northern Europe so that still covers the majority of non-immigrant men. I don't care about money, I want to make my own money anyways, he could be homeless for all I care. You tell me if these standards are high.But I know it's a psychological thing on my part, I don't think I'd actually enjoy being with a guy, but I still want 'men in general' to find me attractive and that's something else entirely. It's also unattainable unless I'm willing to spend multiple thousands on plastic surgery, but for what? To be with a guy I ultimately don't enjoy being with? It's paradoxical, but it's still how I feel.
>>84799803>>Studying in library>>Guy comes up to lone girl, asks if he can sit there, compliments her>>They start chatting about majors and classes and plans for the summer>>Have to listen to this the entire time I'm trying to study >>It'll never be meWhat makes you think that they fucked after? This sounds like my daily interaction to me. Do you not ever just bored and strike up conversation with other people anyways none of that led to a relationship you're better off using apps
>>84799952If you don't want to be with a guy, why do you want them to like you?Have you ever thought that you weren't straight? That could be your paradox.Maybe it's not men in general, but that you want to be seen overall by society? Regardless, I think if you truly tried, you could make it work. I don't mean spending thousands on some surgeries. Someone might like you the way you are right now. If you've been alone for a long time, it might be worth a try. Doing something new for the sake of it, going to a bar, sports, or some social activity, trying to meet people.And if they all reject you and say "haha she's too ugly", you can come back and tell us about it like you are now.
>>84799989I'm pretty sure I'm not gay, I've tried. But you're right, I should do that, if really wanted to make it work. Whether I hate feeling undesirable or interacting with people more is just something I have to make up my mind about.
>>84800078Okay, good luck!
>>84798735>I wish i could get white chad waaah my life sucksneck yourself
