>>84800790
do you care about him?

>>84800790
I just met a girl off here so our relationship is kind of in the baby stages but I think it has great promise I kind of want to visit her this summer idk how open she would be to it though maybe its a bit too fast since she seems kind of shy and she probably doesn't know me that well
1. how far were you apart?
2. how long did you wait until you first met irl? do you think it would have been better if you waited longer or met earlier?

Aaah a pathetic simp. OP will be working a job of course and eventually they'll break up because OP has her own money and wants to "move on with her life" after the first major hurdle and the romance is worn off.

>>84800810
>I just met a girl off here
how?

>>84800790
god just fuck off im so sick of this already
every woman ive met off here was a covert narcissist that needs you to fly out and fuck her asap or she gets bored
its just fucking tiring that you cant actually ahve a real relationship with someone

>>84800799
yes, quite a bit actually
>>84800810
>1. how far were you apart?
very. i am american and he is from europe.
>2. how long did you wait until you first met irl?
little more than two years, we werent dating for a big part of that though
>do you think it would have been better if you waited longer or met earlier?
not sure. i kind of wish we had met earlier so we could be happy together sooner but everything clicked extremely well instantly when we met and im not sure that wouldve been the case if we didnt already have such a solid long term relationship

>>84800848
>not sure. i kind of wish we had met earlier so we could be happy together sooner but everything clicked extremely well instantly when we met and im not sure that wouldve been the case if we didnt already have such a solid long term relationship
Was the relationship ever tested by distance? Anyways I dunno if she would even be open to it but would you counsel patience and see if we can meet next year or even later or do you think it might peter out if I wait too long

>>84800790
did you get to know him from this board, or some other shared interest from 4chan?

>>84800828
Of course not. Is it any wonder why OP is posting here in the first place? She still posts on 4chan when she has a husband to attend to.

And I doubt you got permission from him to be posting here, OP. Pretty soon OP will be looking for another dick on 4chan to hop on to. She's already coming back here for male attention because one man isn't enough.

>>84800915
>Was the relationship ever tested by distance?
i dont think so honestly. if for some reason we werent able to meet in person we would be frustrated but we would chat online every day for the rest of our lives anyway.
>would you counsel patience and see if we can meet next year
why does she want to meet now so badly? why dont you want to meet? i dont know your situation or who you two are but if you feel it will peter out in a year if you dont meet its probably not going to last that much longer in person lol
>>84800959
i met him on this board, i posted my tag asking to talk to someone for a bit because i was sad and didnt want to be alone at that moment and like 10 people added me and i picked him out because he had a cute animal pfp. i often think how if i had selected any one of those other people we would have never spoken, i wouldnt even remember that night now and both our lives would be much worse

>>84800826
These are larp threads my friend. You can larp as a loser in one of the other 100 incel threads

>>84801011
>i dont think so honestly. if for some reason we werent able to meet in person we would be frustrated but we would chat online every day for the rest of our lives anyway.
That's how I feel about her too
>why does she want to meet now so badly? why dont you want to meet? i dont know your situation or who you two are but if you feel it will peter out in a year if you dont meet its probably not going to last that much longer in person lol
She doesn't I'm just the anxious one but she's very tolerant with me she hasn't been pressuring me its mostly in my head...I'm just afraid I'll do something wrong or if there's some expectations that are there that I haven't realized yet but maybe I just have to get over my fear and if she does end up ditching me well it is what it is I guess

>>84800828
If everyone you meet is a covert narcissist, it's you.

>>84801035
Some people are unfortunate and come across a lot of evil people in their lives. Stop victim blaming

>>84801040
Nah, it's their fault. If you're always a victim after a point, it's on you.

>>84800978
that's been my experience with all of my exes. they'll go to places like this or reddit to get the opinions of people on relationship issues which will either be "leave him" (from other women and simps) or "youre bad and he's 100% right" from chuds.
You do get the odd person who has actual good advice around these parts but it often goes completely ignored by everyone.
>>84801035
yeah ive pondered this a lot but honestly im just sick of this at this point. im not the one to ever leave people, and im not the one who refuses to talk about issues. from what ive read thats a common narcissistic trait, they NEVER want to concede any power and make you look like the problem to get out of it. someone with honest intentions would see you begging them to talk and would oblige
so fuck off retard

>>84801035
That just doesn't make any sense. But if you say it confidently enough you can convince people that you at the very least believe what you say.

>>84801044
t. narcissist
wouldn't be surprised if its mike the schizo again

>>84800978
i dont really visit here much anymore, i feel the board has gotten even worse now. i used to browse a lot when i was very depressed though, and in a way i thought this would be nice to give back now that im too cool a sexhaver to hang around here and be a doomer all day. its a thread topic that would interest a lot of posters isnt it? also we arent married yet, i wouldve said if we were.

>>84801070
You're a female, you never belonged here and are part of what ruined this place and the internet as a whole.

How old are both of you and did it worry you that your personalities might not mesh in person like it did online? How did it both compare. how did your relationship survive the online stages instead of fiddling out(did you play games together?), talk about days, did it ever feel like you ran out of things to say?

>>84800790
I found my odeal woman here, for whom I fell really in love with. Then she left and fucked me up.

>>84801075
your feelings are understandable and i also hate women most of the time but trust me i probably belong here more than 90% of posters, especially these days. if you dont like me i told you i come back to lurk pretty rarely these days and this is my first real post in years. i think this is pretty inarguably a valuable thread, especially compared to whatever nigger dick focused one i sent to the catalog.
>>84801081
>21, he is 32
>yes, it worried me a lot actually. he always laughed at me for such concerns but i was very afraid wed meet and things just wouldnt click for some reason. in reality this wasnt an issue at all, it was shocking how within less than an hour we felt like, well, a couple that had been together for years.
>we didnt play games together at least at first. this is one of the things that makes him very special to me, i almost never feel that we are out of things to talk about. we can talk about or do anything and enjoy it simply because the other person is there. in the very early stages we werent awake in each others time zones much though so we wrote one long message to the other each day, a bit like exchanging letters. i think this possibly helped us along because it encouraged deeper more intellectual discussions, and made things never feel annoying or too much. nowadays we spend like half our waking hours together though haha

>>84801011
>had a cute animal pfp
...is that what I've been doing wrong all this time? At least I don't have a generic anime girl as mine, but it is an obscure funny pic that probably screams "unc"

>>84801215
If your pfp is a rabbit I would assume you're a female or i'm talking to a faggot