Keep grinding, make money, and shit will pay off in a decade.
lol nochad just needs to exist
Lmao no I was getting so much attention until age 38.No amount of money makes a hot girl pick a 40 year old over a young Chad
>>84801563>almost no one messages users less desirable than they are>everyone's understanding of their place in the hierarchy is very accurateThen how come I have like 50 matches where neither of us messaged each other? Also, post source, twitter screencap OP.
>>84801563I will be a silver fox
>>84801563>men's desirability peaks at ages 40-50utter cope, but sure, wait another 20 years. I'm sure finding a girlfriend will get easier for you.
>>84801563>men experience lower reply rates when they write more positively worded messagesjust be kind lollllll
>>84801563>life doesn't really begin until retirement bro, just grind until you're 65 and you'll finally be able to live a happy life!
>>84801563His last bit is dead on, I've found women are way more likely to reply when you insult them, ideally not an insult that cuts deep but at least one that belittles them somewhat.
I'm in my 40s and girls find me a lot more desirable than when I was in my 20s.
>>84801563>Reminder that men's desirability peaks at ages 40-50*if you have a full head of hair, chiseled facial features, good fashion sense, and lots of moneyI look like a fucking blob in my late 30s and I'm not even that fat (165lbs), most of my hair is gone and the baby fat that briefly disappeared in my late teens through 20s is back, and I see onions millennial dudes all the time that look even worse
>>84801563>Keep grinding, make money, and shit will pay off in a decade.You know you can and should still be able to be extremely social while doing that right? Minus getting a phd/working at an elite company (which would mean you're not here)
>>84802953>You know you can and should still be able to be extremely social while doing that right?nahnot really that's a lie people tell to sabotage you or sell you a course
Dude i'm not grinding all my life so i can get l a post wall single mother whore who won't even touch meFuck that
>>84802994>Let me sabotage you by telling you to enjoy life and talk to peoplek
>>84803039that sounds more moderate lolyou did write 'extremely social' that sounds like going out many nights per weekfrom my own experience of this shit something will suffer, you can't have it all. often what suffers is physique/strength/fitness. people start to socialize more and then they neglect their gym routine, start missing sessions, start eating more shit, drinking more, etc etc. sorry man but i genuinely think that honestly if you want to actually get a great physique, be strong, and have high energy plus build a business and really give it the best chance of success then you're more than likely going to be pretty damn anti-social, that's just the basics of it. i see a tonne of ads on instagram from 'lifecoaches' who sell bullshit courses and 'coaching' about how to build a business plus be fit but also have all this extra time for friends, social life, even familyI dislike those con artists because they're selling lies and bullshit to decent guysThe reality is that if you want to grow ab usiness plus be fit strong and healthy you're going to have to suffer a lot in the beginning
>>84803061All that just to get a ran through gold digger single mother whore in the endEffort well spent!
>>84803078yeah i get what you are saying, i understand
>>84803088And you're still recomending this to other people? Are you a cuckold? Do you enjoy getting into humiliating dynamics?
>>84803093no i just view it on the basis of probabilities. i didn't take what you wrote literally but understood you were making commentary on what i view as a wider societal issue. if i were to not workout and not attempt to build a business it's very unlikely i'll find a quality woman. however, if i do workout and work on my business, the probability of finding a quality women is higher.
>>84803061>that sounds like going out many nights per weekOr having people over for dinner, or just seeing people on the weekend.Working out and keeping fit is important. So is a healthy social life.>build a businessMost people who are sole traders/small business owners I know are married and have huge social networks. Not even considering that 90% of businesses fail.If you have it in you to have work be everything you do while you're awake you're not after desirability or women
>>84803138typo, should say woman, not women
>>84803138dude, by the time you're "desirable", every single "quality" woman is already takenyou're better off spending all the money you make on hookers and cocaine
I'm 44 and I have never had such pull with women as I do now. If I knew this would happen I would have been way more relaxed around women when I was in my early 20s. Late teen girls are really horny it seems.
>>84803144yeah all your points are trueimo there are different types of businessrun a sole trader/small business in a town and ofc you're gonna have a lot of social connections, easy peasy but if you're building something tech related and gunning for end game money than living in a mansion or two it's a different ball game I'm looking at tech stuff, and not looking at running a business for 2 or 3 decades i should have been more precise about that>>84803151fair enough, I already lost my 20s to illnesses so it's technically over for me if i abide by your view, and i get it, i do understand your point of viewI probably have to force myself to be optimistic that one day I'll be reach and I'll be able to provide for a quality woman who wants a pretty easy life
>>84803158and then living in a mansion* typos all over the place.
Report foids for ignoring/unmatching you on jewslop dating apps
>>84803158>but if you're building something tech related and gunning for end game money than living in a mansion or two it's a different ball gameIf that's what you think life is worth then so be it, but women will struggle to be something you succeed in because anyone you find will be second to your business and they'll know that.The most successful person I know is divorced /w children, his entire life is the career he's built. It's amazing, he's amazing but very very few are in in the same tier of dedication.
>>84803158well i hope your ready to have half of your assets stolen
>>84801563>just be a single and lonely miserable wagie until you're 50 years old bro.Lol, fucking kek. When this is the gist of the advice that leading influencers are giving then you know it's over.
>>84803171>If that's what you think life is worth then so be it, but women will struggle to be something you succeed in because anyone you find will be second to your business and they'll know that.yeah you're right but i'm cool with that. my situation is pretty bleak as it is so a small increase with company who understands i'm rich but also mildly autistic and i prefer to be inside mostly would be cool with me. I have actually had sex and with some very beautiful women but I found it unfulfilling, i wanted more out of life. I'm not chad either and I'm not bragging that I had sex either. just saying that it's something i've experienced and did not find it fulfilled me. i still have life problems to solve and challenges to face. banging a hot foid is like 30 mins of escapism for me and wasn't good enough. even the ego stroking wears off. >>84803174I will do my best to avoid that. i'll have majority of my assets caged away in trusts off shore. I'll pay a guy to properly set me up with a very strong financial asset structure etc etc.
>>84803156Same here bro. It's great being single in your 40s. You don't even have to make an effort to attract girls in their 20s as long as you keep yourself in good shape and have your life together.
>>84803182>single>lonely miserable wagieYou know these two aren't connected right? You can be single and have the time of your life.
>>84803230not everyone likes being single, retard
>>84801563chad can still get young women at 40+, non-chad never meaning paypig only at any age
>>84803151Is the world running out of people or something
>>84803151Where do you live with these negative birthrates?
>>8480156350 years old men can mostly get hags lol
>men's desirability peaks at ages 40-50I have heard this. All things being equal, I would agree; but things are not equal.Fuck apps and social media have ruined things to much that even grannies have higher SMV than me, and they won't follow through with banging me.Still, I'm about to turn 40, so it would be nice to finally escape inceldom, if only by default. Though I am not expecting it.
>>84803151>by the time you're "desirable", every single "quality" woman is already takenThis is so fucking true.>t. 41 year old.
>men experience lower reply rates when they write more positively worded messagesThis is so true, girls rather get message like ''want me to come over and fuck''? than asking how she is doing or some lame pickup lines.
>>84803898>not using geo hacks
i fucked the hottest, most likeable women that I ever qualified for when I was High School and I had 0 assets, no personality or marketable attributes other than the fact that I was the only white guy with bangs at a time when that one kid from "Boy Meets World" was every girls biggest crush. I got into Sales early on and started making top 1% income because puberty gave me a ridiculous golden voice and I'm good at lying, and the women that came into my life had millions of expectations, boundaries, standards and other hoops for me to jump through to "earn" her attraction. Doing this after experiencing actual lust and attraction from younger, more attractive women for free made me completely disregard women and dating as a whole. I'm not expending any extra effort to secure a worse experience than I have alone. Why?
>>84803959>just settle for gold digger asian sluts anonNo thanks.
