>you just didn't jester enough, sweatyWhy do they always flake and make up shit to excuse it? There wasn't a dramatic episode. We were both there. Just say you got bored.
>plus you never """asked me out""">literally dated for months
>>84803308>>84803324If a foid say that she simply just got bored she might feel bad or worry about looking bad, they have to put it all poetically and rationalise the feeling of boredom to feel good about herself
>>84803308>>84803324come to rub your relationship in our faces huh?normies are the worst
>>84803341Wish I didn't have to be a source of entertainment in addition to being a source of money, time, attention, validation, sex. Can we not just exist together in a peaceful and tranquil state?
>>84803354>normiesFuck off back to wherever you came from newfag. You are not "one of us" just because you're a miserable sack of shit. Been watching you posers try to tear down other users for decades at this point.
>>84803308>Why do they always flake and make up shit to excuse it?It's conflict avoidance. Women typically have three main aims (one or multiple) with this behavior:>Avoiding harassment/dramaThey don't want to get harmed or bothered with someone they don't feel attracted to or are afraid of. The sidestep to avoid the drama and, in their perspective, terminate things on modest terms, which reduces risk of all kinds.>Backseating a man they view as lower valueJuggling options for partners. If you're not as intriguing, they'll put you on the backburner with excuses/platitudes to keep you in just enough.>Shit-testingA lot of bitches want you to fight for them. That is always shit-testing behavior from low-tier women. When you are desirable and interesting to a woman, she will actually seek you out. She will actively want to be in your company because she feels good around you. None of this stupid shit. If a woman acts this way with you, you need to drop her and move on. Hell, it'll probably make her realize she isn't such hot shit and to wisen up.From my perspective, you both sound kind of needy. You're also clearly not really on the same mental wavelength as this broad, at least with regards to expectations and willingness to go the extra mile. She seems to have had different expectations, and as those were unfulfilled, she probably got disillusioned with you. With that said, internet relationships are a waste of time, as are these dumb chats. You are already investing too much energy and emotion in these dialogues.If a bitch is pulling this friend zone shit, just give her the "okay, I don't want that, so goodbye". All this other talk and explaining is gay shit, and I don't mean that to berate you, but make sure you understand it's female/fag behavior. You don't owe bitches explanations just to sate her self esteem and swings of interest.
>>84803368kill yourself sexnigger>waah waah i got dumped my life is so hard let me post about it on the incel board :(((
>>84803373>avoiding dramaThis female creates drama. I'd have zero drama in my life on a day to day basis if not for this person. I just need to stop being do desperate.
Damn she's brutal as hell. You just aren't hot or fun enough for the stress you are putting her through
>>84803368Hey anon I just wanted to pop in and echo the sentiment that you should kill yourself. Fuck off back to Instagram or discord or wherever
>>84803386>stress you are putting her through She literally just drives a few hours to fuck, get free food, weed and drinks, and relax on the beach near my place
>>84803393Yeah and that is all she wanted you for she doesn't want to keep it going chill out. You were just a meantime fuck
>>84803402If she said that I'd be cool with it. Instead I get this talking in circles bullshit plus a little nag about how I didn't ask her out when I'm the one taking the relationship seriously? I just don't understand the games.
>>84803368nah, i have to agree with him. you're posting this like you're a love island actor thinking we give a shit about your drama
>>84803409She doesn't want to feel crude or like the bad guy
>>84803414Go back to one of the spam threads on the front page then. You're just here to troll, complain, be a contrarian and so forth. Here's the dopamine (You) clearly need
>>84803385From my perspective, she's testing your ass and you're failing. She can probably gather your desperation, and is using that against you* (*manipulating you) to get what she wants. You probably don't want to listen to some random dude on the internet, but drop the bitch. The big power move is to cut her loose. All you have to do is stand for your wants/needs (you wanted a relationship, she wanted to be a part-time hooker). You don't want to be just friends for a hooker, right? Then you know what to do.
>>84803422She seems to be imagining a whole alternate reality in order to LARP that into existence. I'd feel better about being dumped if it weren't ambiguous and if the blame weren't being shifted.>we both messed up
>>84803425>spam threads on the front page>front pagethis is the guy telling us to leave, using reddit terminology
>>84803431I'm moving soon and she's doing a student exchange thing, so this would be the last convenient weekend for us to keep doing what we've been doing (she lives a couple of hours away but has been staying with me regularly). I don't see a lot of room for testing and games, and I just wanted someone to spend time with this weekend. Pass, fail, I'm probably never seeing this person again after this month.
>>84803368The normgroid seems to have lost his way >>84803447Lol
>>84803447Page 0, front page, same thing. I found this site via word of mouth in school somewhere 03-06, probably forgot more epic 4chan culture than you'll ever know, zoomie!
>>84803458This is not an actual EPIC BLACKPILLED INCEL board, you are the one who's lostGo back to .is, bucket crabbing faggot
>>84803463what are you doing with 20 year old students as a 35 year old unc, you fucking predator?
>>84803473>she's only 21 you sick fuckI don't care about your TikTokisms, and I'd assume you were trolling if there weren't so many newfags who actually think this way
>>84803452Then don't see her unless she wants sex with no bullshit and is up front about it. That's it. Not that hard.
>>84803481>unc is actually luring 20 year olds to his beach house and getting them high on weed to fuck themyou know some 40 year olds have kids that old right?
>>84803494I also want companionship and love, not just set. Or at least friendship. I'm just getting mixed messages even though I'm very direct about my wishes and intentions.
>>84803501You sound like an effeminate 15 year old boy ODing on postmodern feminism taught to him by public school and short-form videos. 15 years ago you would've been bullied here for being such a bad poster, but now you get away with it because so many actual users left and TikTok keeps leaking
>>84803506>not just setsex*
>>84803368You're worthless and should end you life btw
>>84803537Overreaction to being called out
>>84803324wow some moids are retards, there are tun if asshole fuckboys out there that will fuck around for months and randomly say "we weren't even official.
>>84803368Kill yourself, you cucked cock-gobbling normie faggot. Get the fuck off this board.
>>84803552This has come up, we have discussed it. We were already "exclusive" and spending more time together than apart at one point. She knew it was a relationship and only pulled this shit now that she's bored of it.
>>84803558>someone who self-censors "normalfag" telling others to kysbegone, summerfag
>>84803473>>84803501Stop infantilizing adult women
>>84803506>Or at least friendshipThere's the desperation. You do you, dude; I've already given you my advice. This is totally fruitless for you from here on, but if you want to deal with this toddler and stress out more instead of engaging with more of the people who will actually give you what you want, hey, be my guest.
>>84803594Desiring friendship/companionship is desperation? I understand that desperation is a bad look, but how can I even get into a relationship or test the water with someone new if I'm supposed to pretend that it's not about having a relationship? I'm not a stoic sort of person who occasionally craves sex enough to tolerate women, I actually do want someone in my life who will be there in the long run eventually. Or I'm fine with FWB situations but it's confusing to hear that she wants more while she's backing off at the same time, and also wants to be friends. I guess I'm just learning to read between the lines in these situations.
>>84803373How do I attract someone who actually wants to be around me? I have a lot to offer the right person but I'm not sure how to find them or start a new relationship in general. I suspect I keep getting into bad relationships because I settle for these low hanging fruit who just end up wasting my time, but I'm not sure how or where to redirect my energy.
>>84803341my sister is a hilariously male acting foid, and it's hilarious to see how a woman with accountability acts. She cheats on every partner she's been with, and when asked why she just goes "I was bored and horny." and it immediately goes from some boring spiel that we've all heard a million times about "needs being met" to someone that just likes fucking.Men have been saying they just wanted some variety in pussy for years now, and everyone understands. Sometimes you get tired of the same person. Shit happens.
>>84803728i don't want pussy i want a person, a soul
>>84803728Anon, I'm sorry, but it sounds like your sister is merely a whore with no morals
>>84803741Different anon here, but this
>>84803621>Desiring friendship/companionship is desperation?No, settling for this gay-ass "at least friendship" shit when you clearly wanted a relationship and she's friendzoning you is desperate as fuck. In fact, it's not only desperate, it is self-defeating and emasculating. It's not just a bad look but bad for YOU as a person with feelings, and makes you less attractive to the people you want in your life because you're clearly preoccupied, not emotionally independent, and not ready for a more secure connection without anxious/desperate attachment shit.You're leaving your feelings out on the board for this bitch who's casually leaving you out to dry (not in the "long run" as you put it) and monopolizing your attention when you could be spending time actually engaging with other women who will value your time, find your interesting and chill, or at the very least give you sex without being confusing about what they want. I called her a 'toddler' because she's playing stupid kiddy games with you and you're falling for it. She is disrespecting your time, and you are disrespecting yourself by not spending it on people who will treasure it more. If you can't even respect yourself enough to have clear boundaries and stand by them, how is a single woman gonna want to be involved with you long-term? Frankly, your entire paragraph here just reads to me like different lines of "what I really want is [x], but I'll settle for anything I can get". That, is desperate.
>>84803368You were always normalfags
>>84803308Your cock is not bigYour cock is not black This is why you will always fail
>>84803308>owari da>on a person that isn't in the knowC'mon, man.
>>84803766I see the truth in what you're saying. I did want something with long term potential, and I also want simple human connection which I have very little of. It's disappointing that there's no serious potential with this person, but I'm simply going to be alone this weekend instead of spending time with another person. Like I said, I'd be fine with a FWB thing, too, and I don't want to burn the bridge completely. I can disengage and try to find something new. I suppose I just don't know why this has to be so complicated.Ideal? Something long term. Good enough? Someone to share company with. I want to be less desperate if that's what this is, but I also just don't want or need much. Maybe the bar is too low and that's part of the problem.
>>84803741>>84803747The sad part is women do NOT have souls. In order to date a woman you are going to need to accept that you are NEVER going to get the reciprocal affection or communication you learned to desire. Those are myths perpetuated by feminist misandrists and the man who wrote the love song any woman ever has sung. They will always chase the imaginary chad and will always look to be rescued from you by him. Emotional intelligence is a male thing, the only way a woman will respect you is if you make her feel trapped, if you stifle her and set rules that limit her. If this sounds like it'll make you simply an asshole then you're right but it's just the way things are. Accept that or go gay.
>>84803308You both talk like anime characters >i'm not sure i want to see you anymore anon kun...>owari da, what do you mean sakura chan?>w-well i just don't feel comfortable anymore yknow, after what happened...
>>84803766>>84803819Also, how do I seek friendship from women when inevitably I'll want more (at least sex) but it likely won't go anywhere? Is a relationship permanently tarnished once things escalate if they subsequently cool off? I see that I should be less needy and attached to someone who won't reciprocate, but I also want to be able to make female friends who I can keep even if we start/stop fucking, and I just hate losing people in general (is that also needy?)
>>84803707>How do I attract someone who actually wants to be around me?I'm not going to discuss specific locations or hard strategies...whatever. I'm going to briefly explain a concept, and I want you to read it, take your time to ingest it over a few days, and think about how you think and behave affect you: A self-assured man is always going to have more appeal, and connect more naturally and meaningfully with other people. He does this without forcing a fake self-confidence or pushing some crazy new ego/persona with zero concerns, nor ignoring things he's unsatisfied with about himself. Rather, a self-assured man is just someone who is comfortable being himself, and embraces his faults to the point of being totally accepting of them as they are now, even if he desires for change in his life or himself.Right now, you're desperate for connection, and aren't secure in being alone as you are now. Do you think a self-assured man who wants a relationship in this situation would stick around as "friends"? No, he'd probably calmly respect her wishes with no further investment of his own, firmly enforce his boundaries, and be true to his wants and needs by getting her out of his fucking life. He's okay with not being around this person because he's assured in himself, and realizes that by no longer investing his time and emotional energy in her, he can direct that to higher quality people. This is not limited to just relationships with women, but connecting with people broadly. Your time and emotional energy are currencies; stop spending them on gas station hot dogs.
>>84803829>make her feel trappedIs that even legal?
>>84803743Most women that you've met in your life that are even remotely human looking have access to hotter partners than you'll ever SEE in real life, and their entire strategy is to sell retarded, disciplined cucks like you the concept of their pure, untainted maidenhood to grant them security while indiscriminately fucking men 6 times hotter than you. After all, how would you know better when every woman you've ever met has a body count of 1~3? They said so, didn't they? Women never lie in public, right?
>>84803863In the year of our lord 2026? No, they made exactly the way you absolutely have to treat a woman to keep her around illegal because some retarded simps and corpos thought women actually knew what was best die themselves and they were too greedy and wanted to pay lower wages without any thought of the consequences
>>84803857Ar this point in my life, I don't get out much and when I do I hardly connect with anyone at all. I met this person online and we seemed to hit it off well enough. If she doesn't visit me this weekend, I'll simply be spending it alone, probably on the beach. It's not that my time is worthless or that I want to spend it on people who are unworthy, it's that I'd rather have someone in my life than not as long as they're good company.What you're saying makes a lot of sense to me but it sounds like something that applies more to someone who is actually juggling multiple relationships which I simply am not.
>>84803866Yeah but not all women are proud of being cheaters
>>84803308I can't believe you niggas type "owari da..." for real.
>>84803829>>84803852>>84803907>I just don't know why this has to be so complicated.Because you're letting it be complicated. Frankly, I think it sounds like you don't demand enough. Read some of what you just said:>I also want simple human connection which I have very little of>Good enough? Someone to share company with>how do I seek friendship from women when inevitably I'll want moreEvery single post from you is basically you backtracking on your needs and trying to settle for things that just won't bring you happiness. Seriously, read your replies. You accept very little, and frankly, I think you may not wholly believe you deserve much more.>I just hate losing people in general (is that also needy?)Nah, that alone isn't needy. I hate it too; it sucks, and it can hurt sometimes too. I've lost a lot people, and I know I'll continue to lose more. However, letting your fears about losing people control your actions in these situations shows you don't have self assurance. It shows you aren't comfortable in yourself, and arguably rely on others for validation and security. It fucking sucks "losing people", but you have to realize it isn't about "losing" someone so much as letting them go from your life. It's accepting change is inevitable, and it's accepting that it's NECESSARY in order for you to develop and experience the life you actually want. Holding on to these now clearly fruitless attachments is like anchoring yourself on a creaky boat in the middle of the sea. You won't reach the next harbor any time soon stuck like that.>What you're saying makes a lot of sense to me but it sounds like something that applies more to someone who is actually juggling multiple relationships which I simply am not.No, anon. It's even more relevant to you. It's all about being realizing your wants and needs matter enough to stand up for them. It's embracing change, and sticking to your boundaries with people to ultimately invite/manifest who and what you want in life.
>he says about a 40 year old dude with a 20 year old student chick
>>84803990I think the message you're trying to get through to me boils down to the fact that I should invest less time and attention in this person. That's true and I have certainly overinvested in her. She originally came to visit me after we talked for a while and I tried to keep my attachment low and basically match her investment, but it seemed like she lost interest the more time/commitment/interest I showed/gave her. I assume she has other options who are more exciting or who are more willing to commit up front, however I am not and I wouldn't compromise on that because she wasn't treating me right.I'm not delusional about this going somewhere, I'm just confused about why I tend to run into time wasters like this and about the mechanics of it to some extent. I've recreated this situation a couple of times and I want to do better next time around (if that's in the cards)>do you really want to be friends with a part time hookerMaybe if we're not pretending it's anything else
>>84804017It's cute how you're stuck on this and venting your frustrations about it ITT like we're on social media and you're going to get likes for it. Do you get the same reward sensation from replies?
>>84804141i'm making fun of that anon for putting in so much effort and trying to impart wisdom that doesn't actually apply to the dynamic of an old fart that's dating a girl that's not even allowed to drink yet
>>84804178We're both adults and anon's advice is as relevant to me as anyone else in this situation. You're really hung up on pushing a narrative. This is a pseudonymous image board where we don't have to pretend that this week's fashionable opinion is worth anything.
>>84804219keep telling yourself that no-morals freak
>>84804219>>84804178Also, this age gap hysteria used to be the realm of jealous, batty older women. Only in the last 5 or so years will dudes seek out other men in male spaces to push this crap. Very feminine and weird.
>>84803368absolute truke you're still getting annoyed for too little tho operation failed move on
>>84803308She's already decided you're no good, it's probably just gaslighting as you said and something relating to her it's out of your hands as you said just make your peace and stop being desperateGirls always need to make it your fault but maybe she just lost attraction, shit happens I dunno as long as you gave it your best and you know whether you did or not
>>84804228>zoomer male thinks an age gap is inherently 'immoral'do you think women are gonna fuck you for being so morally upright or what? the only people who care about this are people tuned into the latest outrage subject. Why even post this on 4chan of all places
>>84803382>kill yourself sexniggerkek/r9k/ redeems itself today
>>84803409why are you even here, posting about this to us? go find a girl who's actually interested in you, your DMs with this whore are a total fucking mess and you both look like a pair of neurotic tards. it's clear there's no love lost here and the friction is palpable, i actually cringed reading your exchange. dude le owari da, le weeb speak with my orbiting target that doesn't even like me, that's going to win me favors. cut it off and move on, if you hadn't tanked it beyond reprieve before you did just then when you said that. gen z is even worse than we were at this shit and that's a fucking feat.
>>84803552>le moidsyou can fuck right off too take your faggoty femcel vernacular with you
>>84804312>>84803382You guys thinking this is an "incel" board is like election tourists thinking /pol/ is about Donald Trump or something. The word incel only even came into common use because of shitty vice articles and things like that. Blackpillers have always been here in some form, but that was just a sort of faction of users, not an identity, and especially not an identity people actually wanted to adopt lmao. Relationship threads in general were considered cancer here for a long time. Endlessly rationalizing why you can't possibly have one and why everyone around you who does is evil is not the purpose of this board
>>84803308haha you deserve to be alone u stupid faggot
>>84804347>Relationship threads in general were considered cancer here for a long timeyou admit to it, we don't even have to do anything
>>84804326I was just trying to make light of something that seems settled already, I posted here to discuss the dynamics of it which I have done successfully with other anons so farYour post is pointless and adds nothing to the thread, you come across as full of impotent anger
>>84804340Who posts that? Females don't come here regularly. Is it a term used in the trans community now?
I'm so glad I'm done with foid relationship drama bullshitThose gay ass conversations where you have to talk about how she feels and how you should do this and that and blah blahSome advice, don't even entertain these types of conversations with foids anymore, just fuck them and if they don't want to fuck then don't talk to them at all
>>84804459I mainly want someone to spend time with. Idk why women act like just sitting there and not manifesting drama or conflict is hard
>>84804484Its not that complicated women are just emotionall immature and incapable of saying their feelings out loud they only manifest drama as an excuse to terminate you if they get the ick from you. This never happens when she is attracted to you btw, you're overthinking it and being desperate and coping that you ever had a chance instead of admitting it was probably stillborn and out of your control.
>>84804484Unfortunately even just simply spending time together is too much of an ask for the modern foidYou can't even just be friends with these bitches anymore, and they also make for very terrible friends anywayYou have to give up on the idea of companionship with a female these days
>>84804492I don't think I'm coping; I understand that this ran its course. I honestly should've cut it off a while back, but I didn't want to be alone. You're right--she did start causing more problems when she seemed to be losing interest, but she also kept coming around.
>>84804539>>84804492>>84804502>>84804326Also, this bothers me because I'm losing a "friend". I got with this girl because I enjoyed talking to her, and being treated like this because it didn't work out romantically is shitty. Is that so unrelatable?
>>84804573the lesson to learn is that you can't rely on women for friendship or companionship at all
>>84804604I don't want to believe that, anon
>>84804670Its the truth whether you choose to accept it or not. Ultimately, you can only depend on yourself. The majority of women will drop you like a sack of hot shit the moment you commit the mortal sin of not living up to their expectations or retarded false image of yourself that exists in their heads.
>>84804539>I don't think I'm coping; I understand that this ran its course. I honestly should've cut it off a while back, but I didn't want to be alone. You're right--she did start causing more problems when she seemed to be losing interest, but she also kept coming around.Well my point is that it probably had less to do with your actions than you think she was probably just going through some shit internally again nothing you can do>Is that so unrelatable?Its painfully relatable, its so annoying talking about feminists and how men (chad) won't commit but women are by far the bigger flakes and I'm convinced they're just projecting random shit onto men I'm not sure women are just really mercenary and awkward when it comes to their friendships with men I hope you can find someone who sticks around but its hard when society, men and women alike are utterly and completely convinced of the disposability of men and MSM has been devaluing us meticulously for decades and decades
>>84804492>>84804745She came on strong at first and I had to remind her that we needed to take things slower. Maybe she thought she was going to get a sugar daddy out of me and lost interest when she saw that that wouldn't happen.
ahahahahahaha FAGGOT!>owari da....LMAO DUMBASS
>>84805420You weren't perfect and she got the ick or maybe she got the ick randomly or changed her mind. It happens.
>>84804736>The majority of women will drop you like a sack of hot shit the moment you commit the mortal sin of not living up to their expectations or retarded false image of yourself that exists in their heads.and this is true even in a platonic relationship with a womanthey make for terrible friends indeed
>>84803359same, but women are just whoresall that changes is the discount you get
>>84805523I don't think I could've done much better. I do resent how transactional it is. It seemed like she suddenly started seeing me as a worm. I am a human being :(
>>84805555>even in a platonic relationshipthat explains a lot
>>84805555>>84804736>>84804604trvke...This has been my experience tooTerrible friends, terrible lovers. Selfish, solipsistic children
>>84805573>>84805559>>84805555I feel like this "fuck women" mindset veers too far into gay territory. I am not looking to be converted at this time.
>>84805608Sounds like you've had no experience with themI don't care about your simpy, gynocentric arguments.
>>84805654I'm not trying to simp, just to figure out how to make things work given that the only alternative is to die alone
>>84805666>I'm not trying to simp,the 'if you criticize women you are gay' argument is very simpy and gynocentric. It is what it is>dont want to die aloneYou were always alone. You just havent realized it yet
>>84805666this guy is an idiot. you're making the right choice to keep fighting for what you want. he wants you to be as miserable as him. i used to heavily identify with inceldom and now i'm married. you're taking the right path.
>>84805738>heavily identify with inceldom and now i'm married.Kek. The typical "I'm married so now I know better than everyone" guy. Your wife's nature won't change because she's married to you. Good luck don't come crying later
>>84805817You can understand human nature and still try to engage with other people. What alternative is there?
>dating a woman who "visits" Korea aloneI seriously hope you don't do this OP
>>84805957According to her, we were never dating because I didn't ask her out. I wouldn't care if she were going to fuck a bunch of Korean dudes if she were nice to me before leaving. This was never heading toward marriage, sadly.
Stop spamming, whiny faggot. Fuck off to reddit.
>>84805949I'm not saying don't engage, I'm suggesting against getting into a contract with mostly no benefits to you and which gives the other party all the incentives to leave you
>>84806039it's embarrassing dude, don't validate creepy femcels who go sex tourism trips and are shameless enough to talk about it with youhave some self-respect and go for a more decent woman
>>84806185Where am I supposed to find these "decent women"? I met this one online. I admit I was dating down with her, and it's even more insulting that she pulled this "I'm not fired, I quit" type thing out after things fizzled and she created drama. I mainly just wanted a friend.
>>84806164True, but that seems like a distant future concern at most. I'm not seriously considering marriage with anyone I haven't known for at least a year. I've known this girl for less than 6 months.
>>84804248Why do they do that?
>>84803308>I don't feel comfortable with you>posts their private conversations on r9kShe was right lmao
>>84806539These are just empty words she's using. I treated her very well and when she started causing problems I voiced my concerns and walked things back and this is ultimately how she reacted. Also there is no significant identifying info there
>>84806573She is just deflecting blame to men, that's all they ever do.
>>84806573You were basically just fwb and you never pushed it further. You remind me of when I cut things off with my ex fwb and he immediately said he was "totally gonna ask me out". Your ego is just mad you didn't get your ass kissed at the end and she admitted she'd rather hang with her senpai than bum around with you anymore
>>84806607We're two adults who were actively going on dates for months. We're not high school kids who need to establish whether or not we're "going steady". She only started pushing for making things "more official" somehow when she started messing up and I started to pull back. I would've preferred if she had just said,>I want to see other peopleinstead of leading me on.There's really no downside to being mature and direct in this situationAnd she definitely knew I was at least trying for something with serious long term potential and I think she wanted to lock me down fast and when that didn't work she dropped the facade and started playing games. She was talking about getting pregnant early on which I thought was a red flag but I figured I could redirect that energy into talking about how we believe kids should be raised and other things like that
>>84803368/r9k/ is for robots, not incels.You are the invader here.
>>84803452>Pass, fail, I'm probably never seeing this person again after this month.Then it makes sense why she ended things retard
>>84803431>she's testing your assnta but if she does this then she's failed my test toofuck being with these women just dump them the second they try this shit
>>84806793Sure dickhead but why the games and doubletalk?
>>84807343>Like, I agree with her, but why did she have to be so mean about it?!?
>>84803308>Screenshart of text messagesI can't tell which text messages are from the girl and which are from the guy. Seriously this reads more like a guy dumping a girl. What girl wants to "sleep in and play games with friends"? And if it's a guy whining that a girl won't come over and see him but doesn't want to take her out anywhere, no wonder she dumped him. Girls lose interest fast if every date is just a booty call.Actually re-reading this it seems more like two fags breaking up. Oh well, back to the Grindr
>>84807471I do take her out
>>84807343Because you're dealing with a woman anta baka
>>84807358It's not mean, it's childish, pointless time wasting for both parties. "Mean" would be "you're too ugly for me" but even that would be kinder in a way because I wouldn't be baited into endless talking about horse shit
>>84804178>an old fart that's dating a girl that's not even allowed to drink yetAnd? Fuck you gon' do about it pussy?
What am I even supposed to say to this? I care about this person and the way she's responding makes me feel like she's just leveraging that against me. The idea that I can't take no for an answer is a complete fabrication and is an insulting reversal to cover for the fact that she is actually very avoidant. There hasn't been a point where she couldn't just be straight with me. She's been coming here to sip margaritas on the sand and she's acting like we have some checkered history of abuse lmaoMaybe I'm just wasting my time entertaining this conversation as another anon said. I need to learn how to separate myself from the feeling that I need to get my point across, especially when it concerns someone who doesn't care and doesn't want to understand.Can I really be "friends" with this chick?
>>84804459>don't even entertain these types of conversationsThis
>>84803766I should have just listened to this anon, this girl is wasting my time
>>84803308>Owari daNot being a cringe faggot weaboo would be a good start. Keep that shit in the message boards.
>>84808635Idk why people like you act like every single statement must be airtight lol. You think playing it cool would've salvaged this situation? It's called levity.
>>84803308People are disgusting and full of sin. That sin becomes insecurity and anything else poisonous to the human condition. We're all fucking doomed to rot and decay via entropy. The light get dimmer, and dimmer, and dimmer, the vibrant colorful life slowly grows gray, and all things that were only possible through vibrance slowly become nothing. It's not your fault, you're just a victim of it all, just like the rest of us.
>>84808650When in rome, do as the romans do.Don't be a nail sticking out in a world of hammers. This isn't hard to understand.
>>84808683Counterpoint you zoomers are hyper fixated on being cool and presentable to a neurotic degree. You guys can't even have real private conversations. I'm not sure you're even capable of having private thoughts.>"Bruh I want to unalive myself but then I'd lose my followers," he thought
>>84808716You want to live the life of romance just like a normie but you don't even want to make the changes necessary to do it. Instead you bemoan and besmirch the people who's lives you want so badly. If you want women, leave your autistic grievances behind. Or get of the fucking pot. This is pathetic.
>>84808725You can afford to not take yourself so seriously every now and then. This silly phrase had no impact on the outcome of this situation.
>>84808735To a woman someone suddenly speaking another language is extremely non neurotypical and weird. You're supposed to figure out proper social skills and etiquette in school. You can even see her ask what the fuck he was saying. It absolutely matters and if you don't want to act like a normie then you don't get the perks of being one. You'll most likely die alone because you'd rather rationalize your point of view and hate them than accept them and act right in their presence. You don't get the achievements if you don't play the game, stupid.
>>84808762This is the tail end of a months-long relationship with someone I've been fucking. We are way past looking cool 24/7 and if we're not I don't intend to stay on the ride. You go enjoy being fake 24/7.
>>84808776And it reached the tail end for this very reason. Moron.
>>84808788>claims other person is rationalizing things (?)>proceeds to argue circularlyIdk man you just seem bored. Work on your troll game
>>84808796In the end you have to live with yourself. I have no qualms leaving you in the dark. Good luck.
>>84806607In responsible dating, you get commitment incrementally by being worthy of it. It's not some card you play when you need to win an argument lol>I want to end this committed relationship>why?>uhhhh lack of commitment
>>84808799I bet you tell the best stories at the campfire
>>84807471It literally says "You". You think OP is a woman? This is just an elaborate gay joke.
>>84806539>comfortableSo tired of hearing this as an excuse for everything in the current year
>>84806084OP here, I've decided to end my 4chan posting career as a result of this post. I will now use reddit exclusively. Cheers
>>84803354Be glad he will suffer now. In our suffering we are all equal.>>84803368I hate normies like you. If being one of you means you are a normie then fuck yall. I am glad you are getting dumped bitch. Now you get to feel loneliness again without the comfort of being a foreveralone like me.
>>84803829How do you know this to be true?
>>84809662You are not a robot, you are just another bitter shitbird. We would be in this together if you weren't a fag about it.
