why is the dating pool full of men who are so shy and awkward
my girlfriend loves that I'm shy and awkward. I think she was made for me tbhdesu
>>84828420Because men who are outgoing and confident are already in relationships. Selection bias explains so many things.
>>84828420Whatd she on about? The only men who date are obnoxious asshats
>>84828420Feminist public schooling system with targeted and crafted emasculation. >inb4 /pol/Everything is political. Even the toothbrush you choose.
>>84828439>Even the toothbrush you choose.>red light starts flashing when the battery is low>red = COMMUNISM At last I truly see...
Foids are unironically so terrifying, how is the common man supposed to not cower away.
>>84828445>Everything is politicalhttps://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-46874617
Why can't women love men for who they are instead of expecting them to perform?
>>84828466real, they're like black holes that absorb infinite amount of dick
>>84828445He should have put it in a way your small brain could understand>toothbrush company supports israel>your money from the toothbrush purchase is included in that support money>israel uses that money to fund the idf>that means more heckin genocide in Palestine>you did that
>>84828494It's biology, women aren't attracted to cowards who can't even say "hi". >b-but the lawsThe excuse doesn't matter, being scared is an irredeemable ick; they will never be attracted to you.It's like trying to force yourself to he attracted to a morbildy obese woman, doesn't matter if the reason she has low impulse control she was assraped and beaten and abandoned by her parents, you might empathize with her but your dick won't get hard for her.
>>84828547Sems has dozens of orbiters though
>>84828578That's just called gravity.
>>84828547women would be attracted to chad even if he never spoke this is dumb and only applies to sub8 men
>>84828547Saying hi while ugly is sexual harassment.Also no woman wants a guy who isnt attractive no matter how many "hi" youve said.
>>84828420It's fine for her not to be attracted to shy men, I'm not attracted to fat Mexicans so no harm done.
>>84828420>chad acts aloof and uninterested>he must be shy (:
>>84828673Looks aren't a female priority, retards.
>>84828693If he wasn't White, he'd be an incel. So looks are important after all.
>>84828693>Bro just be an uberwealthy attractive "expat" >>84828713I'm white and an incel
>>84828420Hard to open up. We're constantly shown women that want to take you for all you've got, or that will "get the ick" the second you let the mask down, or that will accuse you of rape or harassment at the drop of a hat, or that will simply torment you for existing and especially for finding them attractive. I can't tell you how many stories I have read this week alone about multi-year relationships that ended in absolute disaster and this isn't even factoring in my own divorce and hence my hangups. >not all women are like thatThis is true, but it's thoroughly demoralizing when it's all you can see and the juice doesn't seem worth the squeeze to try and chase a woman. "Why put in the effort when I'll probably just get hurt?" Is the mentality here. So even if a woman does show interest (rare) it's fuckin scary.What if she just sees me as a friend and I fuck up the friendship? What if she just wants to baby trap and divorce rape me? What if she turns out to be a BPD psycho bitch? Etc... are all questions a guy ends up asking himself if a woman seems like a prospect and more and more guys have just checked out.
>>84828753>I'm white and an incelYou're a mentalcel, your own enemy.
>>84828420>be foid>exclusively chase men drastically more attractive than you>all the other retarded foids chase the same men>those men never have to develop confidence, assertiveness or any other trait that is required to "woo" a woman because there's a neverending supply of below average women willing to stuff his cock in every hole for existing>said mid ladies become upset when the men out of their league act like passive participants in the face of all the slimy, low quality box being thrown at them
>>84828420>girlboss moms and beta dads raise weak and submissive sons>masculinity is punished, derided, and discouraged throughout a boy's life>chemicals in the water and food supply>if a man has a brain he can see the cost-benefit analysis of dating doesn't pay off unless he is a top percentile male, so he rarely dates, doesn't have "game"pick your poison
Only reason I'm still in the pool is because of it. I have generalized anxiety disorder.
>>84828870>generalized anxiety disorderGAD? More like GAY.>I'm so scawed of woomen, I couldn't possibwy date wan, I'd rather hang out in gay bars and get approached teehee
>>84828420Because confidence comes from how people perceive you and girls have tended to not react positively to me throught my life. Which is why I don't talk to them
Maybe it has something to do with the fact that men in general are brutally punished for being open about their feelings while unattractive.
>>84828772>mentalcelNot really i actively tried to date even in bumfuck third world countries. Didnt manage to get a single date.Browncel are just utterly delusional and think being white gives you some kind of magical powers
Love threads like this that further mindbreak mentalcels and volcels lmfao
>>84829007Sneering at perceived online caricatures is the highlight of your day, yeah? That's sad.
>>84828884generalized, it's not just women, it's literally going outside my house, getting a haircut, doing anything where I am going to have conversations with other people. Esp. required.
>>84829023Not the highlight but yes I find it hilarious. These threads are posted for the purpose of getting you guys mad and you eat it up. I hope you become stronger mentally and learn to love yourself so you don't get baited next time :)
>>84829091Why do you assume I'm defending OP? I'm just attacking you. Or do you always feel the uncontrollable urge to pretend that everyone who doesn't agree with your shit takes MUST be some caricature of things you think are embarrassing? Because that's called coping.
>>84828693expatfagging doesn't count
>>84828763You summed up my feelings very well. I don't have much else to add. Pic related.
>>84828884how do ypu cope with it? or did you manage to improve a bit? because i have something similar and not even benzos help me. I could drop 6 mg xannies and down half a bottle vodka and still be the same neurotic meek overthinker afraid of everything and everyone
>>84829900Just stop giving a fuck. Idk lol.
it's feminine men. they have female brains basically, most of my age group is 99% feminine men too lol you have to date a little older, like 29-32 year old (and even then it's not some kind of quarantee that he won't be a bitchy male who loves complaining)
>>84828763This is basically it. Dating apps and the internet were pandora's box.Women were always like this, now we have a very clear understanding. Our ancestors knew this which is why they were treated like property, because it was a lesser evil for both sexes.You need men to be satisfied to build and create, and they cannot be satisfied (except a select few) if women are given freedoms.It's an ugly and irreconcilable truth, but reality is often shitty like this.
>>84830032Patriarchy was so widespread because it worked. Dysfunctional gynocentric societies if there ever were any didn't survive. The West will fall one day.
>>84828420Women are extremely judgemental compared to men. No matter how much I try to be friendly and chill, it feels like every time I talk with a woman she is actively looking for something to dislike about me. Any wrong word, any slight misstep results in her never hating your forever, and you'll be lucky if she even tells you why. How am I supposed to develop confidence with women when I am forced to neurotically analyze every single word I say or be immediately ignored and/or treated like some sort of creep? At this point even complimenting a woman without being treated poorly in response requires a triple fucking analysis of what you say.It feels like in this world there are two kinds of men, men who are made excuses for, and men who are made excuses against. I don't know what determines which category you are in, but I know that I am in the latter.
>>84828420I don't really know how to initiate conversations and talk about anything that doesn't involve myself or my interests. Mostly because I've been a shut in NEET for a while, I'm starting to recover a bit, trying to talk to people here and there. But other than that, I was always awkward when talking to people, so it's sad to see that most women don't find me attractive from my personality. If I was a woman, being awkward would probably be seen as cute but as a man it's just pathetic.
>>84830215>women and men are different>troon pretends this is some amazing revelation>and seethes about itAnd it'll never change even if you rope, hon. And that's the way it's supposed to be.
>>84830315I'm not a troon, I just feel like I don't fit in inside any social space.
>>84828763This. Recently went on a date this weekend with this decent looking girl with a nice body. She seemed a bit nutty but we were hitting it off and talked for a good 3 hours. Sexual relationship comments came up and I mentioned how I dont like hook up culture and think it gross.she disagrees and doesnt think body count matters both of us get the ick and we nicely wrap up the conversation and never hear from each other again. Things can go south really fast on a date.
They removed everything masculine in the school systems. Dodgeball, shopclass, sex ed, ect
>>84828420Good men aren't shy and awkward, they're just not endlessly chasing after women. They have lives, jobs, interests, hobbies, unlike women, who have nothing without a man
>>84828772>JBW but I would never ever ever point you an example of this being the case without mental gymnastics to explain how you're sabotaging your appeal to nonwhite women even though you just have to be white or something
>>84828420I really should just get an escort, shouldn't I?Just have her suck the cum right out of my dick and balls and smile while doing it.None of the femoids want to date you. They hate you. They don't want to make you happy. They are cunts.
>>84830801Sex isn't fun if she's not into you emotionally tbhonest, don't fall for the lie anon
>>84828439>>84829944>>84830521shy and awkward website
