Is vaginal better than anal? I just recently had anal sex for the first time and my husband told me he preferred vaginal and now I am wondering if I have a loose asshole or this is normal. A lot of people talk about how tight and good it is. I preferred anal because it was less painful than vaginal but I dont want to damage my asshole more if its already loose or make my husband unhappy. I have been googling this all night and am super concerned, probably not the place to ask honestly but maybe someone here has experience and the male perspective.
>>84832864You make me wanna gouge my eyes out
>>84832864What is this larp, you're not a woman. You don't have a husband. You're some fat weirdo who gets off on writing crap like this.
Maybe you're just relaxed enough that it was easy for you. Did your husband comment on you gaping or anything that made you feel loose?
>>84832956Ok>>84833023No I asked him if that happened and he said not. We just used a buttplug before and a lot of lube
>>84832864I think most men prefer the vagina because that's the human mating spot. Its self-lubed and made for a human penis. Ass is tighter of course but there's more to male feeling during sex than that, and in my personal experience a lot of tightness isn't as pleasant. Not to mention the more psychological/romantic side of it. Fucking ass just isn't as "warm" emotionally. It'd be like trying to trade kissing you on the lips to kissing you on the neck. Sure a kiss on the neck would be more visceral but I'd think most people would want the intimacy of a kiss on the lips more often.
>>84832864Vaginal is better. Anal is mid at best.
>>84832864>my husbandget the fuck out
>>84832864Ass should be tighter but it doesnt lube itself, logically speaking.Idk about texture but if you didnt use lube then its obvious why he would say vaginal is better.
>>84832864>I preferred anal because it was less painful than vaginalDo you have a shallow vagina? Have you talked about this with your husband
I suggest toning down on the anal a lot. Fecal incontinence is one the rise with women. This is common among gay couples like pic related. There was an anonette who posted this image often. I did some research and found that what she was saying is true.
>>84835664>its only a minor inconvenience
>>84835664He probably took thousands of miles of dick in that time.
Never been a fan of butt stuff. Takes a lot of preperation to not be utterly disgusting, doesn't even feel as good as a lot of other sex acts, and in my case I have a lot harder time reaching climax. So more work for something that feels worse and doesn't even get me off. Rather do almost any other sex act then deal with butt stuff. Had a better time dry humping as foreplay or getting a lap dance. Now that is a proper way to use one's ass in my opinion.
