How do you guys distract yourself to make the horny go away? Fitness? Video games? It's not QUITE over for me, though I'm right on the edge, so I'm trying not to jerk off all the time so I can save my energy for actual sex. I only go out on the weekends for the most part, so Monday - Friday is a fucking struggle.
>>84833373I've never had sex and am ugly so no woman will fuck me so I just coom
>>84833373I'm not disfigured but the women i want don't want me so I'm depressed and cum to porn
>>84833373Personally I obsess with work to the point that I don't much care for anything else. Ironically, women love that sort of behavior, but I can't bring myself to show interest in them because they won't make me money like working does.
>>84833408This tbdesu. I'm a codemonkey, but I ended up working in a really cool area that I enjoy a lot and my boss/leadership in general are really chill, so it barely feels like work. Something about this line of work just tickles my brain in the right way that makes it deeply satisfying to me. When I'm really deep in thought about how to solve a problem everything else in the world stops existing to me, like I will forget to eat all day because of how fixated I am with the task at hand. I only really fap occasionally when I'm bored and especially horny.
I can go like 2 weeks without fapping and during that time I feel fucking amazing: great mood, more pleasant to be around, less likely to snap over inconveniences, energetic, feel more clever, more outgoing, feel like I have more interesting conversations, feel more witty, etc. But I know it's only a matter of time before the urge to goon is gonna come back around and become too overwhelming. Ultimately I jerk off and it's like opening the floodgates. Guaranteed 4 or 5 goon sessions in a single day. Then the struggle to not touch my dick for as long as possible begins again.
>>84833560Precisely this. I'm 100x better at talking to women when I haven't jerked off in weeks. It's like instincts just take over. Monkey mind needs his nut so I let him do his thing