>>84864352
Yeah do you ever notice they just talk about 'attraction'
Fair enough since it's really rare in women compared to men it usually only happens with chad for them while for us any humanoid looking foid fits the bill. It is a blackpill though.

>>84864352
I do. I'm sexually attracted to both men and women, but not romantically attracted to women. I'd never be romantic or date a woman, but I am sexually attracted to them.

It's more like women won't fuck men they wouldn't date very often but men would fuck basically any girl but would only want to date very few.

>>84864352
Even to be the emotional tampom betabuxx male friend theres a looks thereshold

>>84864352
No, that's not true. They are tied together, but different variables. Pretty much everyone experiences both, unless they are "asexual" or "aromantic" - but these are usually trauma responses.

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>>84864352
Depends on the woman you ask.
For men, I can only be sexually attracted to them if I have romantic interest. I can tell someone is my type like you can tell a painting is beautiful, obviously you don't want to fuck a painting.
I don't like hypermasculine men, I want them to look like they're kind and protective. Low aggression. Picrel.
I'm very sexual once attracted though.

For women, I can be sexually attracted to women without romantic feelings, in fact I haven't had romantic feelings for women ever.
I am very attracted to typically masculine behaviour and humour, probably thats why.

>>84864676
I want to add, for many (if not all desu) women experiencing sexual attraction is about feeling safe.
>why do you foids go for abusechads then??????
Younger women have the false impression that someone who is willing to hurt people, is willing to hurt other people to protect you. It's this odd delusion and obsession that they can save, fix and change a man who is evil and make them be kind to them and them only.

Make your woman feel safe and understood, throw in some confidence, decisiveness and leadership/ability to guide someone -> sexual attraction

>>84864676
>>84864719
a woman? being honest and speaking the truth? on my r9k? Its a juneteenth miracle!

>>84864376
>I do. I'm sexually attracted to both men and women, but not romantically attracted to women. I'd never be romantic or date a woman, but I am sexually attracted to them.
I don't belive you, i don't believe male bisexuality exists

>>84864352
No. I've been "pumped and dumped" by women plenty of times. There are some good-hearted women who want sex and romance tied, but the hotter they are, the more likely they are to fuck and run because they have options. Just like men, I imagine. I'd say you can avoid this by getting in on the ground floor, but you have to break the law or find some homeschooled or Amish chick these days. Even 18yos will fuck and not call you back.

>>84864352
They do, they just understand sex is extremely unimportant in a relationship so they focus on what actually matters

>>84865511
>they just
[gets with man who pummels them]
>focus on
[gets with brokie who borrows and steals from her constantly]
>what actually
[gets her pregnant and leaves]
>matters
[gets with junkie/alcie]

Blow it out your ass.

>>84865511
must be a tranny projecting your thoughts on biofoids

>>84864352
fucking disgusting gook skunk kys op

>>84864352
women dont, they very regularly try to have meaningless sex and end up catching feelings.

the only time a woman can separate sex from romance is after they have been burned out and cant pair bond. but they can never actually love again.

men are the only ones who can easily differentiate sex vs romance/love.

>>84866005
go back to lolcow dot farm

>>84866030
>women dont, they very regularly try to have meaningless sex and end up catching feelings.

Thats more the chad with the bunch of women trying to lock him down. Where they start to make up narratives in their head "We went to the McDonalds that time? That's a date right?"

>>84864719
>feeling safe
what do you mean by feeling safe? Basically being extroverted so you can carry a conversation so the foid gets comfortable...???

>>84864352
It's not that they can't distinguish it they just don't care about it. Listen well and always remember what I'm about to say. Women don't want romance, they want material vanity. The material vanity IS their romance. They want the sexy husband, the giant house, the fanciest bag, and the fastest Porsche. They don't give a fuck about that wishy washy romeo oh romeo where art thou Romeo bullshit. They want to be showered in fucking gold and they'll pass up every opportunity chasing that dragon until they wake up on day middle aged and with nothing to show for it. It is only until reality beats their delusions to death that they finally decide to settle. But even then, in the back of her mind, she secretly waits for her prince charming to still come on his gallant horse, and this nagging thought is what rots whatever is left of her poor husbands marriage. The hylic world is something that should make you filled with wrath. It is evil.

>>84866504
The way someone can make me feel safe is by listening and respecting what I say and trying to see things from my perspective without dismissing me completely. Being interested in who I am as a person, not what I can provide. Basically being interested in my inner world and thoughts.
Being considerate and doing and saying things with me in mind.

What this can look like:
Me: "btw Anon, I am allergic to hazelnuts"
You, on another day: "Hey I got you this chocolate cake with nuts, no hazelnuts though, I made sure."

Me: "I like when you tell me I'm cute and give me compliments!"
You: "Noted :) You did look amazing in that dress today"

Me: "I'm just overall insecure about my intelligence and academic career.. I've failed so much idk maybe I should just give up on everything"
You: "Hey.. Don't be so harsh on yourself, you've been through a lot so it's only natural it will take you more time to complete your studies. This has nothing to do with your intelligence, I think you're pretty smart!"

Me: "I'm sorry Anon, I don't feel like having sex right now... Somehow I'm super stressed and feel pretty depressed"
You: "No worries at all, I'll grab some icecream and put on your favourite show for us to cheer you up. Let's just cuddle and be comfy, does that sound like a plan?"

Me: "Hey Anon, it hurt me when you said xyz to me yesterday.."
You: "Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. I won't say it again!"

You: "Hey Femanon, you told me about the game you're making, I'm interested in what type of plot you had in mind?"

This shows patience, consideration and interest. I do not need to be scared you'd lash out on me. I know I'm on your mind and I'm cared for. The things I say matter and are remembered. And I'm not just a mere object for your pleasure and entertainment.

I'm sure this works for you men as well and of course this should be reciprocated by the woman.

>>84866504
Also in the beginning stages, trust is built by giving out trust.
If you're vulnerable around her, she will open up as well.
It's not your duty to do every single step but if you want to progress the best method is to take things in your hand instead of waiting around.
There's women who will open up quite easily if you give them the space to. There's also women who will do the first step.
Don't let roles give you braincancer and don't try to play stupid mindgames, unless you're into that dogshit.

>>84866794
Don't kid us with this garbage. If someone loved you enough to be compassionate in this way you'd slowly resent him for it because you don't think you deserve it. I've seen the type a million times. In the end you forge the chains you wear in life, and your own sickness will push away the people who could ever love you.

>>84866820
Its happening to me rn I wanna KMS I hate women and their dishonesty so much

>>84866820
Hmm, interesting.
I'm sorry for your experience with this type of woman and I hope you find someone who has the capacity to accept love without turning avoidant.

It is surely a pitfall for the "broken past" type of girl. No matter how much love you pour in their broken cup, it flows right out. They don't believe they are worthy of love so any love they get gets thrown out immediately.
These women can change though, but it is in their hands. No one can teach you to love yourself but you yourself.

>>84866794
IDK, that sounds really boring, all the replies i mean.
"No worries at all, I'll grab some icecream and put on your favourite show for us to cheer you up"
WTF??? are you 12??

>>84866916
Bro idk man it was hard to come up with good stuff on the spot lmao, try it yourself.
You get the idea though

>>84866794
I think this is actually good advice early in the relationship. But once things get "normalized" It doesn't work as well.
At least from my (limited) experience. If this was all it took I'd be in the bf hall of fame