Women of r9k, how do we avoid marrying an incel?
>>84868729"women" of r9k
>>84868729Women should settle for incels, and should also stop being so conservative and demanding "marriage". Women should accept progressive incels and accept long term committed loving equal romance without the bullshit patriarchal institution of marriage.
>>84868729there are no women here, only confused men who hate their penis
>>84868729Realistically?Make sure:>he has other girls vying for him>he's above 6ft3>he's fit>he has at least 200k in assets or is a surfer>he's attractive>he owns his own place>he has a car>he makes six figures at the very least>he's interesting and lives an interesting lifeIf he doesnt have any of those ditch him
>>84868768Women will beg to be doormats the moment they realize they gotta go to work every day
>>84868772>>he has at least 200k in assets or is a surferlmao what??
>>84868775Plenty of women are working, and women have always worked as well, the "ideal" of women staying at home was mostly an industrial era way for higher income men to flaunt their wealth status. Which makes it all the more stupid that so many modern women seethe at the thought of true equality, and stupid that some are coming around to the "reactionary feminism" that complains that men are no longer providers enabling women to be stay at home mothers without needing to work
>>84868778Surfers are oftentimes broke but are very attractive and have an interesting and adventurous lifestyle. This is the community thats least likely to be incels
>>84868729Just don't get married
soupcel
>>84868797Or just get married. Make sure youre included in his trust fund or get any kind of compensation from his then leave him if you find someone better
>>84868729>involuntarily celibate>married
>>84868772>>he has other girls vying for himalright already I know I am doomed
>>84868831I don't care that much about money, but you do you, sis
>>84868917OP is just baiting, but fir some reason people online use the word incel to mean loser who hates woman. The same way they used the term man rights advocate to mean the same.
>>84868729>Women of r9k, how do we avoid marrying an incel?simply have sex with him
I just looked that post up she was a fucking prostitute and he was her john. I hate reddit and I hate you op
>>84868917>doesn't know about dead bedroomsmarried oofers are mostly incels
>>84868729No that's a bowl of soup>incelnice self report idiot, she just done and went told the whole ass internet she don't put out
>>84868772Nice bait phaggot
>>84868782The idea of women working is extremely recent, it only ever became a thing after industrialization. Prior to this it was seen as weird and wrong.To clarify, by working I mean working. I hope you don't mean to suggest that selling eggs and milk from home is exactly the same as punching a clock to work a sewing machine in a factory or sit in front of a typewriter in some office. A woman who works is a bad woman, a whore, a spinster. It is shameful. Those little one room schoolhouses? Protojewish daycare, only bad women ever went into teaching since that is supposed to be the churches job. Even after Nightingale it took immense effort to change the image of nurses today. In the past people thought nurses were loud dumb whores with big egos who kill people by negligence, ignorance, or outright malfeasance. You may notice this negative stereotype still persists on some level to this day.Even ignoring the glaring personality problems of a women who works, nobody who is being honest wants to deal with them. Imagine you're going in for an extremely difficult surgery where a mistake leads to lifelong disability, but you get to choose the doctor. The choices are; old White man, fat black woman, fat mexican woman, fat Indian woman, chinese man(may or may not be old it's so hard to tell), fat jewish woman, fat White woman, fat aboriginal woman, fat eskimo woman, fat muslim woman...Same idea routine traffic stop for a tail light out. Do you hope it's an old White man, kind of rednecky, grew up in the area for generations, straight honest type guy? Or would you rather a short fat bitch, paranoid and jumpy, terminal penis envy and looking to prove a point but is terrified of any man who has six inches and or 50lbs+ over her? How about an illiterate mexican who doesn't know the culture or law? A hateful black full of spite looking to achieve social justice equity in arrest demographics? Even something as mundane as the auto parts store; ditzy slut or old white man?
>>84868747You ever wonder why the OPs here just make a bunch of posts like that? I wager if we had the IP counter on it be 3 or 4 at most shown posting here. They have to know this doesn't work like they think. right?
>>84868941Well you gotta get something out of this relationship. Go grab that bag
>>84870103>pre-industrial world>punching into worklmao even. Most work in the pre-industrial world was freely engaged in, even amongst professionals in guilds. If you were a cobbler and nobody wanted shoes today, you just didn't work that day. They wouldn't even work to stockpile. There was no equivalent to "punching in".Speaking of guilds, even back in medieval society there were many women who worked professional guild jobs, even including mentoring men into the profession. This was never presented as something strange or unusual. As for typical farm work, a man who works in the field is not any more "employed" then a woman who maintains animals, cooks, or takes care of children (not to mention pregnancy and birth). When harvest came, women were expected to work the field regardless. Do you really think the pre-industrial world had enough excess for 50 percent of the population to sit around being unemployed?
>>84870103>To clarify, by working I mean working. I hope you don't mean to suggest that selling eggs and milk from home is exactly the same as punching a clock to work a sewing machine in a factory or sit in front of a typewriter in some office.In the US, we only reached 50% urbanization by around 1920, and globally, it only occurred around 2007. In 1800, around 83% of American workers were engaged in agriculture. Going back to medieval times, something like 90% were engaged in agriculture. Historically, the VAST majority of "work" done was "agricultural work", so it's a very weird sort of recentism to act like factory and office work is real work while agricultural work isn't real work.
>>84868729if you marry him, he's probably not an incel
>>84868917Only incels marry. No normal man is retarded enough to marry a foid.
>>84871360You realize most of the work women did in agricultural societies was homesteading and other household management stuff, right? They weren't out toiling the field except when there wasn't any other option, like when the men were sick or dead or off fighting in a war.
If you openly agree to marry a man it is impossible for him to be an incel by definition. You are openly expressing your desire and consent to fuck him (what a marriage is) and at that point the only way he could remain celibate is by choice (volcel) but no longer can he remain involuntarily celibate. So it's a self correcting problem.
>>84868729Any women on 4chan is less attractive than any man on 4chan. You are a woman, on 4chan. Seriously?>Marry an incel>incel>involuntarily celibate>marriedSo is she married to someone she has never fucked? How tf are regular people this dumb? Male or female, most people need to single and childless to fix the baby boom. There was a post war birth explosion where men who would unquestionably be incels by today's standards had kids with multiple women. The women are loaded with poor genes from weak men. Just let the world rot.
>>84868729>https://web.archive.org/web/20260620065558/https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlDinnerDiaries/comments/1uamtn7/i_think_i_married_an_incel/Seems very fake, together 14 years? Probably engagement b8
>>84872440r/kitchencels is a popular subreddit. it's a joke. props to you for not knowing anything about reddit though.
>>84872440>Seems very fakeIt almost certainly is, all of this is just to se who has any real world exposure. If you know real people and deal with them day to day you fully understand how made up all this is. But to shut ins and comparable they have no clear lens of reality and just think the shit that is posted on the internet is real. I think that's the end goal even, to get said shut-ins so broken that they will never try to reach out and start a life.
>>84868772>he has other girls vying for himwhy are you factoring other people's opinions about him?youre the one considering partnering up with this person, not themshouldnt that decision rely solely on you?
>>84871360It's a useful distinction though. A Chinese child labor slave making tens of plastic werewolf dicks with hardpainted veins to be sold in America seems wildly disconnected from real life. Agriculture, people need food. Should a crop not sell it is repurporsed into alcohol, animal feed, worst case scenario it can compost or burn. There's no real waste. Sharecropping was a shitty system, but depression era gardens and post ww victory gardens were very good. It doesn't seem like work because it actually produces something of value and gives purpose. There's nothing fulfilling about being a doctor, lawyer, or engineer. Maintaining a woodlot however, that actually benefits real humans since it's fuel for cooking and winter heat.
>>84868729You are male and people are retards for not realising. Kill yourself now, tranny con.
>>84868729Why the fuck would you want to avoid marrying an incel? Literally the best dating strat there is.>no other girls to be jealous of>typically happy to have you around and starved for affection often so free cuddles and fucking on tap>wont cheat on you >less risk of abandonment>smart and genuinely interesting to talk to compared with normies. often deep thinkers>not fucking boring to look at like the same Chad in the same stupid ass vneck shirt over and over and over again Other foids make no goddamn sense. They would rather step all over eachother vying to get dicked down by Chad Thundercock then thrown away when they could have a cozy domestic fantasy with an incel who would cherish them.Hate being foid and associated with these behaviors.
>>84868772>6ft3+>he makes six figures at least>he's fitits already over for you
>>84874425assuming 18-35 age
>>84874360I've never thought about the positives of being an incel but I guess you're right. If a woman was ever attracted to me I would be loyal until death if it lasted that long. I'm already loyal in friendships, so it makes sense
>>84874425whats a normal us salary to live like without money stresses? i wanna check mine but im not american
>>84874644Depends what state you're in. California or New York ? Yeah you're looking at 100k + salary if you want a good American dream life. Here in my state Texas ? I make 88k last year after taxes and I live very well. Car is paid off and I have my own home after being smart with savings. As long as it's above average of 50k (for most states) then you should be okay with living an American life style. Vacations every year , your own place and car.
>>84874683ohh that sounds like a lot :o i think atleast where i am we (living with my family) are like comfortably poor lol so i dont think thats like more than good (sorry im struggling to word my sentence here o.o)like what would it be if you take away like vacation and like extra things like that? also do you need a greater salary to rent or to own a house?i guess though there is extra expense cause you have to have a car in usa lol
>>84868729>I think I married an incelJudging by that dinner I think you didn't marry a cook.
