I want to talk to a dominant femanon
>>84874302I'm slightly dominant but in a more gentle way I guess
>>84874314I'll talk to you but I'm not OP. What makes you describe yourself that way?
>>84874314what r u into then?
>>84874302Theyre only interested in money
notice how femanons always ignore a reply
>>84874343Do you mean talk on here, or like talk personally? I'd prefer to just have a conversation on here. But I describe myself that way because I like dominating a man, but not hurting him. I want to please and tease a man, maybe enough that it does slightly hurt, but I'm not into hitting/hurting, besides spanking. >>84874345Bondage, spanking, orgasm control, overstimulation, the male body, teasing, petnames, mens reactions to stuff, men whining, men giving over to pleasure, men embarrassing themselves for pleasure(like doing something "degrading" but I wouldn't see it that way), and I like men into feet because I like body worship that goes both ways.
>>84874406Just talk on here. I'm curious and I think unusual people are interesting. Is it just sexual or are you also confident and/or assertive in other social situations?
>>84874406thoughts on chastity?and this image?
>>84874406Can you share a time where you over stimulated a man..? Maybe a short green text?
>>84874406Have you used electricity or considered it?
>>84874434I'm definitely not assertive in any other way. I'm kind of a pushover irl. I just feel like sexual things are things I could be assertive over with the right person. I'm kinda a control freak. Plus I hate feeling vulnerable so I'd never allow a man to take control over me the same way I'd like to control a man >>84874446It's okay I guess. I'm not personally into it sorry >>84874450I'm a virgin. All my stuff is from fantasies and watching porn. >>84874463I've seen stuff about it, but I've never given it much thought beyond that. I liked the reactions men gave to it in the videos though
>>84874489>I'm a virginhow old are you?i feel like many robots would like a girl like you
>>84874489How much control over a man do you want outside the bedroom? Do you imagine that you might become LESS femdomy as you become more confident overall, ie feeling less of a need to hide your vulnerable side?
>>84874489>I'm a virginI understand. You must be saving yourself for someone special. In that case. What about a hypothetical..? What is something you would do to overstimulate a man? If you found yourself in that situation.
>>84874302Doesn't exist Women exist to be dominant impregnated and protected by you and your masculine demanor.
>>84874507I'm 18. But I'm not currently looking for anything. I'm too scared of getting naked in front of someone to have sex rn. And I'm not interested in having sex with someone I'm not dating, but I'm not dating rn until I'm less angry. >>84874513I just want a man to stay in his lane and act respectful. I show him respect, so he should show it back and respect stuff around him too. Like cleaning up after himself and not leaving his stuff everywhere. I just expect the same kind of respect I'd show him. And if he doesn't, I'd have a problem with it. Especially if he went around embarrassing me. Like doing stuff in public or doing something like flirting with other girls. It just bothers me. But most of the stuff I'd rather do myself, like if I want something done, I'll do it myself so I know it's done right. At my house if someone besides me cleans the dishes, I can't eat out of it without cleaning it again first.>Do you imagine that you might become LESS femdomy as you become more confident overall, ie feeling less of a need to hide your vulnerable side?No because despite that fear, I definitely am still into the stuff I'm into. Bondage is what I'd use to keep myself from being vulnerable, but bondage is also hot and I'd love to tie a man up. >>84874520I'd want to suck on his cock. Start off with him soft and feeling it getting harder inside my mouth. I'd keep sucking on him until he came and keep him in my mouth licking at him and playing with his balls until I get bored of doing it even if he doesn't get hard again.
>>84874581>but I'm not dating rn until I'm less angrywhat does this mean?
>>84874581All your stuff about mutual respect sounds sensible and healthy, except...>At my house if someone besides me cleans the dishes, I can't eat out of it without cleaning it again first.Are you exaggerating for comedy, or is that a serious issue for you? You might want to speak to a therapist about this if that's a genuine example.
>>84874489You seem really young. If your body is even just mid, you can probably start finding guys that will let you practiceElectricity is probably the most fun Ive had with bdsm. The feeling is really similar to a body wand that you can move anywhere and get a lot more precise with. I dont have anyone to practice bondage with, so I just do selfbondage.
>>84874581>I'd want to suck on his cock. Start off with him soft and feeling it getting harder inside my mouth. I'd keep sucking on him until he came and keep him in my mouth licking at him and playing with his balls until I get bored of doing it even if he doesn't get hard again.I bet that would feel amazing.. I would be liable to buck, and clench up post-orgasm. Grunting. Growling. Tensing up and writhing in bed. Hands and arms slamming into the mattress while being tortured tenderly. But entirely under your control.. I really appreciate you sharing. That was wonderful. The bondage sounds especially delightful. Thank you.
>>84874581>I'd want to suck on his cock. Start off with him soft and feeling it getting harder inside my mouth. I'd keep sucking on him until he came and keep him in my mouth licking at him and playing with his balls until I get bored of doing it even if he doesn't get hard again.that sounds lameyou dont need to be into some hardcore bdsm stuff, but this is just not femdom
>>84874634You're a man, right? Let me tell you a little secret about femdom for men: Beggars can't be choosers.
>>84874389youre a sub boy yet you're too pushy
>>84874593I have problems and I'm not dating anyone until I solve them. Because I shouldn't be in a relationship while still messed up. I'm trying to better myself. >>84874597It is a problem I have. But it was after something happened and I realized I can't trust people to do it correctly. Especially since I'm the only one in the house that regularly cleans them, so everyone else does them poorly so they don't have to clean them again. Like they purposely do it wrong sometimes so they won't be asked again. So I'd rather do it in a way where I can trust it's done correctly. But I have mentioned this to my psychiatrist but we haven't gone much in depth about it. >>84874620I don't want to practice on just anybody, I'd rather it be with someone I'm in a relationship with. I don't think I could be with someone in that way without catching feelings for them. So I'd rather just get that out of the way and only do it if I'm already with them. Is it hard doing bondage on yourself? >>84874621I love seeing reactions. >>84874634It was one example and I already said I was into more gentle stuff.
>>84874649>Like they purposely do it wrong sometimes so they won't be asked again.That's exactly what it is. They didn't invent this trick; it's so common and well-known that there's even a name for it: Weaponized incompetence. They pretend to be more incompetent than they actually are as a tool of manipulation. How soon are you going to be escaping this trap?
>>84874639>Beggars can't be choosersbegging means nothing if you dont even get anythingim 25 already and ive yet to experience femdomeven if someone drops their discord (which in my experience THEY NEVER DO) the chances they actually live a car's drive away is slim to none
>>84874649Youll probably find a guy willing to let you experiment with this if you start small. Im the kind of person who would dive head first, but most people are only curious enough to wanna try this at least once to see if they like it. It was hard to learn selfbondage. I did a couple times when I was a lot younger, but didnt like the way my body looked and couldnt afford any fun bondage toys to use on myself. I picked it up again and got a lot better with it the last few years. My bondage collection is fucking nuts now
>>84874672Why would anyone drop their Discord for you? Look at the way that you present yourself. The message you're sending is "What you like is wrong, and you should concern yourself with what I like instead". What femdom woman is going to be into that?
>>84874649>I love seeing reactionsI'd certainly have some in a situation like that.. Goodness.. If you don't mind me asking. What has you so angry that you're not dating right now?
>>84874668I'm not sure. It'll definitely still be a little while until I move out. But I think this fear will stay. I can't eat comfortably at other peoples houses either without wondering if they cleaned it correctly. And at restaurants too. Of course I force myself to move past that because I'm not interested in making people mad by implying they do stuff wrong, but it makes me highly uncomfortable. >>84874688What do you like about bondage? >>84874713Just nothing specific. I just have really bad anger problems and problems with getting overwhelmingly frustrated easily at everything. I've been doing better about it since being put on an antipsychotic but I'm still nervous that being in a relationship will make the anger come back more
>>84874741>I can't eat comfortably at other peoples houses either without wondering if they cleaned it correctly. And at restaurants too. Of course I force myself to move past that because I'm not interested in making people mad by implying they do stuff wrong, but it makes me highly uncomfortable. Okay, yes, please discuss that with your therapist. It could be a symptom of serious anxiety or even OCD. You deserve to be treated better than how you're living currently, and not addressing these problems in a safe space is going to delay you from reaching that goal.
>>84874755I definitely will talk to her about it, I go back very soon. I never really saw it as a problem, but now that you point it out, I can see why it could be one.
>>84874820I'm glad to hear it. Your happiness is worth pursuing. The sooner you can live in this world comfortably, the better.
>>84874741>What do you like about bondage?Everything. I love the feeling of having no control. The ropes and belts constricting around my body feel like a really big hug that wraps all around you and only gets tighter if you struggle. Your brain is flooded with endorphins and reinverts what should register as danger and pain into fun and pleasure. Being given commands and being rewarded with pleasure. Sensory deprivation is a ton of fun too
>>84874833Thank you >>84874909I think it's really sweet to describe it like a hug. That's cute
>>84874968Ive met 2 girls that let me tie them up. When I was describing bondage to them, I made sure to use that word. It really helps to lower peoples inhibitions surrounding this sort of thing if theyve never tried it and start thinking about from the other side
>>84874689sorry i was doing somethingno i dont want any discords now, the time has passed, i shouldve done it years ago
so say we all, anon
>>84874302I live in Latin America so I don't bother to look for a dominant woman anymore. I just love the existence of dominant women and wish them a great day wherever they are (not here).
>>84875167I'm so sad for you anon, you should have gotten that experience. You were robbed.
