What are you even supposed to talk to girls about?I don't really have too many issues approaching women but when I try to say something I realize I have nothing to say.The best I can come up with is talking about the weather but that is pretty much it.My interests are absolute pussy repellent. She isn't really going to care about me going on and on about history and vidya.My friends don't really have this problem. If we are talking to some girls we know I can't really get a word in while they are talking.I am also a fairly negative person so even when I am asked something I usually bring the mood down.
>>84875667Figure out how to ask interesting questions about the person you're talking to. You can rift off their answers.
>>84875679How do you figure that out when you are the one initiating the conversation?Women do not come to talk to me.
>>84875713With my email penpals I usually start off by asking how their day went and if they did anything interesting! If they have any plans for the rest of the day? Any plans coming up?
>>84875667>I am also a fairly negative person so even when I am asked something I usually bring the mood down.Start by fixing that.
>>84875713Where are you talking to these girls?
>>84875667just give up like the rest of us
Not sure. Tried to get to know a femanon via emailing back and forth and she ghosted me pretty quickly. Then I had the thought that if they knew what I looked like beforehand they might only add me if they were interested in me. That didn't work either. I think conversations on the internet with women are useless if you don't share a niche special interest. Even when they say they like cooking they have no interest in talking about it from my experience.
>>84875759I think messaging is just boring in general.
>>84875729When I ask how their day went the answer is just "pretty good" or "alright"When I ask if they have any plans its "nothing special"Even if they say something else you talk about it for a minute and then its back to square one.>>84875732I can't. Its ingrained in me.>>84875739At the club. Where else? And no I do not go to clubs alone its my friends who want to go.Its literally the only place where its socially acceptable to talk to random women.
chad can unironically talk about bestiality and women will find it a funny and confident interactionwith foids and normies it's not what you say it's what their perceived lizard brain hierarchies tell them
>>84875667Smalltalk is asking someone about mundane objects and whatnot and then as they're talking you go off on tangents based on whatever they said >how was your day >fine, it was a usual day >what do you usually do?>I usually do this >interesting, I've only done this in college, these days I mostly do that The opposite of small talk would be something like promulgating something to them or having a debate where both sides are trying to promulgate something at the same time. And I'm using debate here in the first principles good faith sense and not the faggoty trading card game of rhetorical flourishes that passes for the word "debate." Anyway these would require context. Small talk does not require context aside from at least an implication of acquaintanceship shared between the two parties. Having a tete-a-tete with a random stranger about anything is not really meaningful
>>84875667See this picrel for reference OP, this is how it works
>>84875786>I usually do this The things they usually do are pretty foreign to me giving me nothing to talk about.The reverse is worse since the only true and honest answer I can give is playing vidya and watching anime and that won't do.
>>84875823>The things they usually do are pretty foreign to me giving me nothing to talk about.If you don't know what something is then you can just ask what it's like For example, you said you like vidya and anime What vidya and anime? I don't really consume either. Do you have recommendations?
>>84875770Okay so, I think what I said still applies. You can ask her questions about herself and her interests and play off of those, try to lead her into a story or talking about her interests. I'm autistic but find this method handy. People generally like talking about themselves and will take the ball, if you throw it to them.
>>84875839Evangelion is good. I can't really recommend any games as I actively despise most I play but the Metal Gear franchise is good.>Ah okay coolBack to square one.>>84875854Okay exampleWhat are your hobbies>I play the pianoOk what is it like to play the piano>Its pretty funBack to square one.
>>84876070Never watched Evangelion. What makes it good? My tastes in anime are considerably more normie. I liked cowboy bebop and samurai champloo. Mostly because I thought it was the animes I was supposed to like, but when I watched it, ngl I kinda enjoyed it. It was also because of a recommendation to listen to nujabes music. >I can't really recommend any games as I actively despise most I play but the Metal Gear franchise is good.Same honestly. I just replay old games that I liked in the past. What Metal Gear titles would you say are worth playing
>>84876113None of this matters as a woman would have already gotten the ick.Idk I just can't pretend to be interested in something I don't care about.They can see it on my face.So the only choice is to find a female who shares my hobbies and those are rare and in high demand.Its all so fucking fake and gay.
Come up with a few interesting questions or things to say beforehand, the idea is that after a bit of back and forth and the initial discomfort dies down you're basically just riffing off each other back and forth
>>84876152I'm conversing with you from the perspective of a guy thats gotten the ick from a woman but still managing small talk to attempt the demonstration How am I supposed to read your mind and tell that you lied and don't care about the things you said you're into?
>>84876228I wouldn't lie about being into things I am not.Thats why me trying to ask about them comes off as disingenous.
Usually it's best to talk to them about their own interests. She'll start with safe things like reading or travel. But if you get to know a woman we'll enough she'll let more of her true loves and interests show like her pet, her family, and black cock
>>84876242>I wouldn't lie about things>actually this conversation doesn't matter because Idk I just can't pretend to be interested in something I don't care about.
>>84875667Boring mundane shit.They aren't interested in anything interesting or deep or complex they literally just want to talk about who slept with who and how their day was, it's maddening.>>84875770>When I ask how their day went the answer is just "pretty good" or "alright"Yes this is their idea of a conversation, mundane drivel followed by 'that's good'.
