Has anyone or anything hurt you so badly that you no longer believe in love, and maybe aren't even capable of it anymore?Something that shattered all your illusions, some particular inciting incident that blackpilled you, etc. For me, it was the realization that the amazing life women promise you at the beginning of the relationship is just them describing what they expect you to build on your own. They'll never build with you, and in fact will drag you down while demanding you carry them to the finish line.
Yeah, a woman who said that I'm the one, her first love and the only one she wants. Maybe it's easy when it's a lie from some BPD bitch. But when it's from a cute aspie femcel, what do you even do?
>>84885251living with normie flatmates who sleep with each other and not managing to get any is torture that made me no longer believe in anything at all.this is it, nothing matters.
>>84885251>>84885274i'm surprised that this seems to be a common-ish occurence.still love her despite her war crimes against me.
>>84885251Seeing my mom go through her THIRD divorce while I'm in my late-30s and the fact that I haven't even been in a relationship for the last 21 years, I guess.
>>84885274>I'm the one, her first love and the only one she wants.So what went wrong?>>84885283>still love her despite her war crimes against me.What happened?
>>84885303>So what went wrong?Who in the world knows. Maybe she didn't trust me, maybe she had a switch up. Women don't really make sense.
>>84885303>What happened?gave me a very romantic few months then started vanishing while still claiming to be in love, 0 respect for my questioning, immediate agreement with my suggestions that we should just stay friends and then when it was clear we weren't even going to be friends, that we should just move on (at which point she told me to never contact her again which is not what i meant), while the whole time getting advice from her toxic friend who openly hates me.and i still don't know what the fuck happened nor does she seem inclined to give me any reason that isn't "you put too much pressure on me :(" when i only started after she was clearly getting more and more "busy".the worst is how little she seems to care about how i feel, i never felt like anything i said to her moved her even the tiniest bit, she just wants to be the one in the right no matter how obvious the question-dodging is.her friend's country got bombed though, good. i hope it was his town.
>>84885336>maybe she had a switch upwhat does this mean?
>>84885912she randomly decided she doesn't like you anymore as women do xDyou're not allowed to complain btw, moid
>>84885251Multiple people, as well as realizing that my own mother wanted to hold me back with womenI'm tired I just want to be held and just want someone to love who loves me back
>>84885274She's told a bunch of other dudes she loves them - but trust me it doesn't *really* mean anything right?
>>84885251It doesn't exist. People are selfish and evil at their core. I've never believed in it.
>>84885251Not just love. I'm afraid of trying. Trying anything. "Learned helplessness" or whatever. Trusting people seems to put me in bad spots, and I'm scared to voice my opinions. I know how to fix myself, but refuse to and I don't understand why.
>>84886084I do believe I was the first person she ever loved and it can't really be faked. It's just that's how women are, looking to destroy all possibilities of happiness for themselves and others.
>>84885251disease and losing loved ones
>>84885251There isn't any one specific event that made me give up, I just hate dating.I don't like spending so much time on dating apps typing out personalized messages to "matches" only to receive no replies to almost all of them.I don't like texting with a girl for a little bit before she gets bored and ghosts me.I don't like putting in the time and effort to dress up and find a fun place to go on a date only for the girl to decide her pussy didn't tingle hard enough and ghost me.And that's not counting all of the things I haven't experienced but other men have with girls cheating, manipulating, lying, and generally just being trashy human beings.The whole clown show that is modern dating sucks ass.
