>everyone here is a demoralizer so asking for tips on how to get a gf is pointless>everyone on reddit just repeats the same lies that have been disproven a million times>twitter and tiktok whores post misandry every day >get ignored on dating apps>get ghosted by discord foids>irl foids notice my autism right away and avoid me, it's impossible to have a normal conversation because of how mindraped I became because of the internetwhat is the best move here? what can I do to break out of this cycle?
>>84903904Have you tried being tall and attractive?Seriously though what do you expect us to say? To get hobbies? To be more charismatic?Blame modern society
Wish I could help you anon, but I'm almost 34 and never had a gf. I haven't had friends or anything for 15 years so not like I could meet anyone through them. It's over for me.
>>84903912I can't fucking believe this is how it's going to be for the rest of my life. It's really driving me down a dark path.
>>84903904>foids>mindrapedjeez i wonder why youre strugglingjust be normal
>>84903923Personally I don't like being manly at all or having to act as a man. But unfortunately I'm not gay so I'm destinated to be alone until I die
>>84903928>just be normal broyeah I am normal in real life, I don't bring up internet shit with them
Ey man delete those dating apps for now and take a break ,detox and focus on yourself (mind ,body ,style) to regain your confidence, most of the women u see online are dumb bimbos and ain't worth it anyway
>>84903972I don't know if it's a confidence issue honesty, could be, but I really think women don't like me mostly because of my height, face and autism. I could be the most confident guy ever and they'd still reject me, not like that matters because autism means I'm awkward forever.
>>84903904There is a season to falling in love, anon, and that season has passed. Middle school, high school, college... if you didn't find a GF then, it is very likely it will never happen. Let it go.
>>84903904Are you into the idea of sex dolls?Take the silicone pill
>>84904347>>84904414this is so depressing, but at this point I don't know if it's written by a real person or the JIDF
>>84904441What's depressing about finally having a foid who is yours to enjoy as you wish?About having a loving wife to sleep next to?
>>84904441I'm from Israel and I linked your post to the Mossad. You're fucking dead, bro.
>>84903904You almost reached the logical conclusion OP: it's not just a matter of getting advice.For men like us that have problems with this type of basic human aspect, we won't magically find a solution by a combination of words from a normalfag. Not saying that it's hopeless, you may eventually get a partner and build a happy life, but I doubt it will be as the result of someone telling you "just be yourself bro...".
>>84904514maybe I should have followed the "just be yourself bro" advice before I got my brain destroyed by screens
i was an absolute sperg for most of my childhood + teenage years and i've had several gf's and a large body count in adult life (currently 27). dating apps are a learnt skill and require you to have good photos (preferably taken by someone else). the chatting takes some skill which is hard to practice if you don't get matches - but i'd confidently bet your bad results are more a result of making yourself look bad than your actual looks or personality. just from seeing female friends use them they get (obviously) lots of likes per day but literally 90% will be jeets and fat funkopop software engineer types. if you get your profile in decent shape you're in with more of a shot than you think. talking to people on discord is probably a bad idea in general since they're all freaks - yea most dating apps are full of people trying to just hook up but thats preferable to mindbroken chan users desu.you should do the basic stuff, work out, eat well ect. but if you want to actually meet women you either have to get good at dating apps or get socially competent enough to meet them irl. yea you're not gonna go to some hobby meet up and immediately meet the girl of your dreams but you will start learning how to be a normal person and its surprising how fast things snowball from just getting a few friends. most women i talk to are extremely fed up of dating apps and there does seem to be a bit of a shift toward wanting to meet people in person especially since they've become so oversaturated. anyway dont spend a lot of time here mostly browse it when im bored but will keep the tab open if you have any questions anon
Stop putting so much worth on having a girlfriend. Easier said than done, I know, but that's the hard trvkepill to swallow.
>>84904514just being yourself wont get you a foid but if youre not being youself and find one the dissappointment will be huge once your facade starts to crack and at some point it will. but who am i to give advice im also a virgin otaku freak fuhihi
>>84905688Height and jawline and canthal tilt has gone unmentioned. Curious.
>>84905803Convincing yourself and others to not try because of some arbitrary setback is dumb and you know it. I'm 5'8, ok-ish jawline, not a clue what a canthal tilt is cause i haven't been psy-opped
>>84905688>>84905897op here, I'd love to see you try that at my height>t. 5'5"
>>84903904how bad is the autism? are there any girls in your area who can match it? i think online dating (especially dating apps) are stupid. its like build-a-bear for romance, and the chances someone will want specifically you are low when they have hundreds of options. best bet, i would always say, is irl. people feel more drawn to each other when they are exposed to each other for a long time. so best bet is joining a club or class or even a job where you consistently, repeatedly, spend time around the same women, if you want them to warm up to you. if you have any weird nieche autistic interests and there's like a club for that or something, try there. women in those nieche places tend to be desensitized to weird people. if you're not the worst of the worst, they might even think you're normal. this is not 100 percent guarantee ofc, but your best bet in my opinion.
>>84907094I have the type of autism where I do nothing but stare at screens all day, have no hobbies, am lazy as fuck and can't talk to people like a normal human being. So yea I'd say it's pretty bad autism.
you just have to drop out of the dating market no pointbinbgoing truth torture that leads to nothing
>>84907198so i wouldn't start at the "get a gf" thing, i would start at the "I do nothing but stare at screens all day, have no hobbies, am lazy as fuck" thing. in fact, fixing that will do more for your mental wellbeing than a gf would.my advice is to start any weekly activity/hobby, and stick with it. if you miss a week, just get back on track next week. expect to commit to this one thing for at least a year. ideally it's social.
>>84903904Women are like house pets just they get more rights unfortunately. Find a cute foid on the street, say "hi ill be taking you now", pick her up over your shoulder and take her home. Fun fact most women dont report rape because they enjoy it.
>>84907223>my advice is to start any weekly activity/hobbylike what?
>>84903904do you not realize that this question has been asked constantly since the beginning of the internet?it would take you a decade to read every thread/article tackling this and it would still just boil down to>be attractive>be charming>approach morethere isnt a secret answer here anon, you cant hack the process by putting a boiled egg up your ass or some esoteric shit like that.
>>84907252this list is non-exhaustive>good ideas that increase the depth of your character and slightly move you away from being terminally online socially speakingreading (from real books you get at the library/book store). writing. drawing. bug collecting. fishing. morning runs. learning an instrument. camping. just finding something you enjoy that isn't online and doing it>great ideas because you will inevitably interact with other people and become more socialized over timego to events downtown and experience them. ceramics at a studio. beach days during the summer. participating in the night scene (alcohol is a social lubricant and can definitely help). friday night magic/D&D/table top games hosted at a local store. bouldering. team sports if you can handle ityou can pick apart the suggestions i'm sure but just understand the point is more this: do anything. doing anything consistently builds more of an appetite to spend your days doing anything instead of doing nothing, and it gives you things to talk about and makes you less miserable in the long run
>>84907396none of that will help me, a subhuman manlet with aspergers, to get a girlfriend (which is the end goal of all of this conversation)
>>84907572i said why i think they would help in my previous two posts. just know manlets with aspergers have gotten gfs before, but without making a consistent concerted effort for one
>>84907775but *not* without making a consistent concerted effort for one
>>84903904>everyone here>everyone on reddit>twitter and tiktok>get ignored on dating apps>get ghosted by discord foidsYou will never find a woman on the internet anon>irl foids notice my autism right away and avoid meYou need to work on socializing yourself before you attempt to pursue women. Tism is just the result of lack of socialization and can be fixed by throwing yourself into uncomfortable social situations. Like jumping into a river when you can't swim, eventually you'll learn through sheer brute force, you don't even have to rationalize any of it
>>84903904>>everyone here is a demoralizer so asking for tips on how to get a gf is pointlessAs if you wouldn't dismiss people who want to give you advice lol.There's no advice to be given and deep down, you probably know it.>inb4 demoralizerI respect you enough to not shamelessly lie in your face, anon.
>>84903920my married friends just tell me to get a mail order bride. nobody ever sets me up on a date or anything. maybe it's because my friends' wives seem to hate me for some reason.
>>84907852>Tism is just the result of lack of socialization and can be fixed by throwing yourself into uncomfortable social situations.doesn't work like that
>>84907852Not OP, but how old are you? I'm guessing you must be a milliennial who's out of the loop because the socializing part doesn't work anymore since all third spaces disappeared and everyone became antisocial retards that only live in their own bubble.
>>84903904not everyone is meant to experience love. I'm sorry anon
>>84903904 Im gonna be straight with you OP, its fucking over and not juat because you are short and goofy looking.Being with women is all about having no self awareness or shame. It doesnt matter how good looking or charming you are, if you dont have the outgoing type of personality to constantly insert yourself into situations with girls, they will never pay attention to you. I am tall, white, and reasonably okay looking with a full head of hair, and I'm not even an autist. I'm 33, guess how many women Ive been with? ONE. Why? Because I am overtly polite, introverted, and self conscious. I am hyper aware of my own self and hate being in uncomfortable situations. Guess what? Getting girls is the pure definition of inserting yourself into uncomfortable situations. Wanna know how low tier guys who arent even good looking are always ending up with hot chick's? Because they are literal retards who dont stop for a moment and think about how they look harassing women everywhere they go, demanding pussy. They just do it, like monkeys, and if a girl says no they dont walk away with their heads down in shame, they double down or get aggressive (which women love btw). And when one girl truly shuts them down do they get money and cry on 4chan? No, they forget she even exists and move on to the next potential victim for their arrogance. If you cannot be like one of these people, cannot put yourself into uncomfortable situations over and over without spilling spaghetti, you will never get attention from women. Online dating is a scam for average men, no woman is ever going to message you first. You're only hope is spamming irl women with literal fuck requests. Preferably in an Asian country. Its much easier to pull foreign girls if you flash some money around.
>>84907922>>84907917Ah my apologies I forgot this is /r9k/ and good advice isn't welcome here.Either you will or you won't anons, it's all up to you
>>84907973>The law of the marketReally puts it into perspective. Whatever happened to slutshaming, sigh
>>84907977>if you don't find my advice helpful, it's your fault since my advice is objectively good!!!Kill yourself.
>>84907993>Asks for advice>Receives advice>Complains about adviceYou first faggot, no wonder you're an antisocial shut-in
>>84908059The truth triggers the Frognigger. Your advice is woman-tier retarded you clown. I told you it doesn't work and yet you still insist your "advice" has any value. Dunning-Kruger niggers like you really need to rope ASAP.
>>84907888or maybe hate is not the right word but they don't seem to like me. these friends found girlfriends in real life and on dating apps and then proceeded to marry them, but they recommend that I should get some mail order bride that only loves my money and passport. seems pretty insulting to me.
>>84903904Not everyone fren. Some of us are real. However a lot of your complaining is all things you are perceiving from consuming social media which purposely tries to manipulate your perception of the world.>Remember most things are fake and gay>Remember to only change what you can>Go outside. Try and walk around your local area. >Pet peoples doggos.>Enjoy the little things in life. Like taking a long walk to a convenience store for your favorite energy drink.
>>84908138>I told you it doesn't workMaybe not for you kike, worked for me just fine kek
>>84908059I'm op, I just think you don't understand autism, it doesn't matter how many social situations I force myself to endure, it never gets better
>>84908224I was diagnosed with autism anon
>>84908243Well maybe your autism is different, it's a spectrum. Maybe you didn't go through all the negative reinforcement I went through
>>84908210>"Just bruteforce socializing LOL">Tell him the opportunities for socializing were stripped away from us and that most people aren't open to making new acquaintances>"Apologies kind stranger, I forgot I was on r9k where my le heckin wholesome advicerino isn't welcome"Your brain is literally that of a normalfag redditor. Kindly fuck off you retarded manchild.
>>84908271>OP: what can I do to break out of this cycle?>most people aren't open to making new acquaintancesThen that's really your problem isn't it
>>84908293Your advice might've worked 10 years ago. Nowadays most people are too neurotic and self-absorbed to form connections with people they haven't known since childhood. You can call it projection on my part all you want, but the stats showing how isolated the average man in his 20s is, proves that there's something fundamentally wrong with how we have been conditioned to view social interactions.
>>84908416I agree there's a lot of people in this gen who fundamentally don't know how to socialize, but there are plenty of normal Zoomers who have friend circles and hang out and are perfectly well adjusted, they just don't spend their time flaunting it online so you don't see it
>>84907974Giganiggaton trvthnvke Fundamentally what foids desire are men confident enough to take on risk in her benfit it's no problem if you die or disappear because she can and will easily replace with a new golem
>>84903904The best movie is for you to enter threads made by people with a clear desire to help you all.>how to identify such threads?They're always talking about God (not criticizing God).
>>84903904https://youtube.com/shorts/66Gz6MMncH8
if spiderman can get a gf you can too
