if my ldr partner feels like they are keeping me from meeting new people and making me waste my time and also that they are a bad partner for me and i lowkey agree so now I keep fantasizing about cheating on them?well not cheating per se but looking for fwb while we close the distance. atp its their fault and they understand they have done lots of damage
If I had a long distance girlfriend I would encourage her to hook up with other men. It's just not realistic to expect a girl to go so long without having her needs met. I'd just ask that she lets me know about it, or even does it on a video call with me so I can still feel close to her in these intimate moments.
>>84909399jerking off to this thread right naow
>>84909399maybe dont be a cuck and tell them you are loyal to them it might speed up the process or they are just going to work on THEIR homelessness and debt issues
>>84909399>ldrKek you retards will never learn. Just ghost and find someone irl
>>84909424i want to fuck chicks w foreign accents and american women deserve dudes who can afford america
>>84909423it hasnt speed up shit i have done everything in my power to be with them but they still cant hold a job. i wasted thousands between visits and even then i have been mistreated. i love them but at the same time i feel like i have been lied to and im wasting my best yearsim just tired of being lonely
>>84909399can i be your fwb moid
>>84909442>Picrel>Wearing that in a building with niggers in itWomen deserve everything they get kek
>>84909448>they still cant hold a jobIs this a he or she anon (important)
>>84909484its a she anonwhy does it matter anyways? its 2026
>>84909518>its a she anonThen she doesn't need a job that's your responsibility >why does it matter anyways? its 2026Okay date men then, they will share expenses with you
>>84909527>Then she doesn't need a job that's your responsibilityshe actually does because i cant sponsor myself
>>84909550>I need my e-gf to get a job for me so I can use her for visaKill yourself fucking bum
>>84909581would you go live in the 3rd world with your ldr partner or in your comfy 1st world country with your family and comfy lifestyle? the fact she can live without working while I cant is proof enough that living here would be a bad idea period.
I hope my ldr works out, I'm trying my best
>>84909617i hope mine does too but it can be really hard dealing with bpdemons
>>84909518everynyan stopped caring when op was found to be a moid
>>84909448Let me be your fwb then slut
>>84909673you dont love her enough then bpd is healed with dick and care
>>84909399>and also that they are a bad partner for me and i lowkey agree so now I keep fantasizing about cheating on them?Yeah, if you are thinking this then its already over. Move on to someone better.
>>84910301>Move on to someone better.but they are becoming better for me and we share a lot of stuff that i wont find in anyone else. either its this or never having a partner again QwQ
Yes, but not for enduring your crappy partner, for believing in ldr in such a retarded way.Tell him to improve his larping or fuck off and stop wasting time on trooncord
>>84910320You opened with the thought that they're wasting your time and you're fantasizing about cheating on them. You're betting on them getting better and that you might not find someone else so you want to keep feeling like shit and having revenge fantasies?>84909600And on top of that you depend on them to sponsor you, despite them not holding a job and likely not meeting the federal minimum annual salary requirements as a result. Waste years in paperwork and processing time, thousands in processing fees, and then lose any balance of power in the relationship as your entire status in the country depends on their goodwill. When they are already trying to give you a polite exit from the relationship by telling you that they're wasting your time.Sure. Put the best years of your life into them. When you're already thinking of breaking up with them and the only reason you haven't is because you haven't found someone to monkeybranch onto yet. Lol.
>>84910406i doubt they want me to actually leave they are just begging for reassurance but you are right, this either goes really wrong or just plain normal wrong.the veredict is that im a pos and i deserve the type of relationship i have + i should kms
>>84910463The verdict is that you should move on rather than stay with someone you want to cheat on. Jumping to kmsing + hating yourself when they are giving you signs to exit in peace lol. Sure put your entire life in the hands of someone you dont even want to be loyal to and is passively trying to tell you to break up.
>>84909399complete and utter normalfagplease leave
>>84910494>is passively trying to tell you to break up.I dont think this is what they want tho. They have said they would rather die than see me with someone else. What gives?
>>84910505snatched them from this board but yes im not a retard incel i have been here before this was the retarded incel board
>>84910518They want to farm pity from you initiating the breakup. They want you to meet new people, think theyre wasting your time, and that youre a bad partner. What more do you want them to spell out.
typical scrote wants to be a whore because his gf is depressedmen are 7 times more likely to leave their partner when she gets sick
>>84910634im a bad partner>>84910648not true not true not true
>>84909399at that point, just end the relationship. theres no reason to go on and close the distance if you arent willing to devout yourself to them and they do the sameive been in an ldr for 10 years. strictly monogamous, sexting, phone sex, those bluetooth sex toys made for long distance. we meet up every year and fuck each others brains out and go on dates and spend time with each others friends and family. its about finding ways to meet needs in an unconventional way. cheating will build resentment and destroy trust, so just find someone else in person
>>84910658Then let them find someone better and do better yourself
