How do I find someone that will actually love me? It feels like everyone I get in a relationship with isn't serious about being with me, and everyone I meet who wants to take their life seriously could never see me in it.I think I'm just a physically ugly person and I attract desperate/insane women who idealize me for a while. I met a girl who seems half decent recently, who could relate to all the issues I face and vice versa, and yet I dont ever see me and her dating.I'm tired. I wish I had a way out instead of being stuck here with a demented insane family
Be who you are. Know yourself.You're not what you think you are.You are loving and lovable.When you realize you're whole, you'll find a match that is also whole. You'll not be needy, prone to suffering.
>>84913624I know myself, and I know that Im an ugly disgusting personI wish I could find a girl that felt like me who wanted me around and who appreciated me for it, but thats never happening. the few people ive met that may have felt this way and who understand my struggles while also trying to improve their own lives want nothing to do with me
>>84913607I always lived by; you are who you attract. I attracted my dream girl and an 8/10 tall aryan blonde in my past so work on yourself
>>84913660Im not interested in superficial shit like that. I dont even care about some 8/10 blonde girl, the women I like are normal average women that have their own issues that i can relate to. they're not supermodels, but not ugly either. most are fairly cute but thats secondary to me
>>84913607mm poutine
You have to meet enough people that statistically you've met enough with overlapping interests, that you will find somebody interested in you. Staying at home and waiting for them to bust down your door ain't going to achieve anything.
>>84913779and how do you do this as a weird ugly old fuck that nobody wants around, especially when youve been shamed into doing nothing but mindlessly wage slaving your whole life? i was literally shamed into not getting a car. yes technically i wasnt physically stopped from getting one, but would have to hear constant streams of disapproving shit from the people im living with
>>84913789What..? People you're living with are controlling you or something? Is this a cry for help? Tell them to fuck off and make your own decisions. Cars give you freedom, sounds like they want you in their control.
>>84913799crazy parents who used to tell me that "you dont need a car, save your money, prices will go down in the future". they'd offer to drive me everywhere, go out of their way to be helpful, and then hold that over my head in the future. im in my fucking 30s and am a guy, its embarassing as shitneedless to say the average price of a decent car now is something like 35k, while it used to be 25k in the past. these people are retarded and blind
>>84913810Escape the womb, bro lol. Living with your parents is like a death sentence for relationships.
