fuck off fr

>>84917509
This is not a question fr fr

>>84917477
Are you ever scared he'll cheat?
You think marrige is a net negative for women?

>>84917477
Do you work can you tell us more about how you live

Does your husband know you're talking to other men?

When do you plan to divorce him?

>>84917683
>Are you ever scared he'll cheat?
No
>You think marrige is a net negative for women?
This is highly dependent on the man but majority of the time yes
>>84917686
I do not work currently I am unemployed (not by choice) I basically just cook for him and keep our house clean. I also study his language in my free time, but majority of the day im home alone and now for example he is asleep for work and I stay up
>>84917733
>Does your husband know you're talking to other men?
If you mean here yes we met off 4chan lol I do not have any male friends
>When do you plan to divorce him?
If we get a divorce he would have had to initiate it

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>>84917477
here's to a long and happy marriage that'll last a lifetime, for both of us
ayy.

yes, what makes you think we give a fuck about you or your experience?

>>84917477
I want a wife. How do I get a wife? Please provide a step-by-step guide for retards

>>84917800
Wish you and your spouse well! Cheers!
>>84917813
Most people here are single men and a married woman is the opposite. Also most young people arent getting married and I am married at 25, everyone I tell is shocked irl

>>84917829
>I am married at 25
i mean yeah you are quite stupid i would be shocked too, but this doesn't mean your experience is interesting, relatable or fun

>>84917822
I met my husband on a discord server we found on soc lol it is very unconventional and shocking it worked out for us. Honestly dont think the whole opposite work thing is real its best to find someone who shares hobbies/interests and personality with you. For example I would be miserable in my relationship if my husband was social, but we both prefer to stay home and not really have any friends

>>84917855
So trawling discord server is the best option..?
I'm similar to you in I don't like going out and don't have the capacity for a lot of friends. And I agree it would be best to have a similar disposition, a very social person would drive me nuts.
Unrelated by I'm curious, did you have a wedding?

>>84917477
How many men did you fuck before settling on him

>>84917905
A very small one with just our families. We are from different (euro) countries and though they are not too far we didnt want to make a bunch of people travel

>>84917829
aye thanks, but we aren't married yet
still got a road toward that but we're dead set on it, lol
fun how a lot of anons seem to think marriage is like, the woman mooching off the guy's posessions or whatever, but i keep telling her that a big reason i'm marrying her is so she never gets away from me (not that easy at least)

say, how long have you been married? there's something i'm curious about

>>84917925
One, I had a long term relationship before ours
>>84917938
Almost a year, whats your question? Also true lol my husband was unemployed when we started dating, being in a good relationship motivates people to be the best version of themselves

>>84917958
nice, wishing you guys a happy anniversary in advance, man
as for what i'm curious about is like... how the change from bg/gf to husband/wife happens, like i always imagined it's something you ease into, you know?
you get used to your partner more and more, rely on them more here and there, they become part of your routine, and the next thing you know, there's that kind of love that makes you want to spend the rest of your life with them
but idk if it's really like that or if it's a more sudden thing, so you tell me: how did you go from bf/gf to husband/wife?

>>84918007
Thank you! To be honest, I did not really feel much chang in terms of just the relationship. I always also viewed him as my best friend as well as my partner who I was going to always have in my life anyway so to me our marriage just felt like a way to solidify that. The differences are mostly in legal or financial matters.

>>84917958
Who ended it, how tall was the original guy vs the new guy

>>84918093
He did, my ex was 182cm my husband is 194cm

>>84917764
>This is highly dependent on the man but majority of the time yes
Marriage is a net negative for men. A woman can, at any time she feels like it, rob him of half his possessions, take away his children, and secure a steady source of guaranteed income for the rest of her life.
There is no downside whatsoever for women that remotely compares to the ass raping that divorce does for men.
What could possibly be bad for women?
>waaaahhh the man I married and works hard to pay for the roof over my head, the clothes on my body, and the food in my belly expects me to do the majority of basic house chores and cook dinner for him waaaaahhhhhh
God, women are so fucking whiny.

>>84918065
damn man that's beautiful, just how i picture it should be
and also how it more or less happened with me and my gf too, we were friends for a while before we started dating and the more time passed, the more sure we were about each other
even the hardships, even her fucking flaws make me think she's the one for me lol

but thanks for reassuring me anon, you're one of the few good ones and again, i wish much fortune and health upon ye both