>get sick of being in friendzone with this crazy BPD goth baddie slut but I know Im just an emotional tampon for her >tell her I like her like her and cant stand this relationship anymore cause I want more>we stop talking for a while>she starts hitting me up again but doesnt even talk about what I told heris there any possible way for me to rape myself out of the friendzone or do I just need to just block this whore and cut my losses? foids please weigh in. And no I dont care that shes a BPD druggie who would ruin my life, it would be absolutely worth it to feel alive again for a little while. pic related isnt her but looks a lot like her but hotter.
>>84921365anon you have the preservation instincts of a shrimp, you said it yourself she views you as a mere emotional tampon and it is comfortable for her to have a cuck (you) fawning and hoovering over her, and no, you won't get any pussy, i speak from experience on this one, don't fall for the bait, if she is as hot as you imply there are other dudes in the same circumstances that look better, have better physiques and are hotter than you in general saying the same shit to her and guess what, she is letting then cum inside.cut your losses anon, this bitch will BREAK you and it won't be in the funny, kinky, shounen anime way, it will be miserable.remember this post when you feel like kissing the barrel of a remington 870.
just be cold with her. dont be there for her anymore, dont act like you give much of a fuck. focus on yourself. if you have any chance, she will pick up on this and escalate because she knows she lost her grip on you or she will fuck off. this is the only answer.
>>84921365You write like a weak faghot but:>Give ultermatum>Go non contact>she hits you up like nothing happenedChicks do this, stick to your guns. If you aren't prepared to have her as just a friend make it known
>>84921365Speaking as someone who got friend-zoned and chased a girl for 13 years. She will never let you hit, move on. All that will happen is she will get old and you will find yourself chasing a used up 30 yr old that still doesn't want you. Have better self respect than I had for myself
>>84921413>remember this post when you feel like kissing the barrel of a remington 870.already there
>>84921365I used to have this problem when I was like 19 or 20. Just stop talking to her. She is clearly getting to you and the more you type to her the more she knows it and she likes the power and control. Maybe it's because I'm unc status now but I honestly can't be bothered to text back and forth with hardly anyone, not to mention some mentally ill chick. Anyway, just stop responding and let it go.
just dont understand why women do this. You already get so much fucking attention, especially from men. why do you have to bother talking to guys you're not even fucking interested in?
>>84921526just power dynamics, its borderline sexual behavior, it gives then a thrill to feel wanted, desired, to have some poor buffon groveling and insisting on her even with all the bullshit she puts him through. dudes will always fall for this.
>>84921526Women get off on the ego trip it gives them. She loves herself more than anything in the world (all women do), and having guys constantly pining for her makes her feel special and desirable. She loves how much control she has, how easy it is to play with his feelings. She loves having him wrapped around her finger.Is it disgusting? Yeah. But it's really his fault. Be smarter. Be better. Respect yourself more. See the game and refuse to play. Don't be a chump. Don't be a simp. Don't be a punk bitch.
>have respect for yourself and walk away!>ok fine I will>now instead of having female friends and no pussy I have no friends and no pussy
>>84921560A beta orbiter collector that likes getting attention from you is no "friend," you are definitely better off without them. If you ever have an actual female friend, the difference is night and day.
>>84921458that doesn't solve anythingthe moment you "come back" after her "escalation" she's got you again and she'll pull back again. that's all they do, they want you on the hook, they don't actually want you or care about youthe only answer is to cut off ties and move on
>>84921560>friends>some random foid that wants me to keep hoovering over her and likes my attention and plans on not doing anything at all with "our" "relationship"pick one, chud.
>>84921571Talking to desperate simps is exactly like talking to an alcoholic. They have a thousand and one excuses for why they "need" to keep talking to the chick instead of just cutting them off entirely, but don't worry bro they're totally in control of the situation.
my cope: i pretend that i'm playing a reverse game where my goal is to get her to actually fall for me by being consistently there (but without being simpish), so that when it happens i can tell her to fuck off. that's my excuse for not blocking her
>>84921591>b-but she will fall for me r-right????????Anon. . .thats exactly why she won't let you fuck her, you are a C U C K.
>>84921594this is an online long distance kind of deal. the idea is that she has a certain image of me based on her stupid worldview, and by keeping my cool consistently over time i can break that image and make her think i have some sort of special sauce. then she would spill her beans and i would gain leverage and i could acquire some sexy pics.
>>84921609You are completely delusional and you know that but you're pretending you aren't because you are desperate and pathetic. I spit on you.
>>84921628i firmly believe that i have bigger balls than most people.
>>84921609> le dark and mysterious> gay and autistic"long distance" is even worse, you are getting yourself trampled on by some foid you never even saw with your own eyes. She does not give a fuck how "cool" and how "mysterious" you are, you are just another one in the line, stop coping so hard with the fact she only sees you as a emotional stool to sit on, its getting unsightly anon.
>>84921365>>84921560Anon I beg you listen to me. If you wanna escape that friendzone you have to consider her perspective. Firstly you have to address it, or you just look weak and like you don't go for what. Be a bit of an asshole and tease her about what she's doing. Make a joke about how she came back because she can't live without you or something. Don't sound bitter or she'll just think you are a loser who can't handle not getting his own way but also don't be nice. If you want different results you have to act differently remember that
>>84921650You sound like a fucking middle schooler with this dumbass advice. If you're putting on a clown show and typing up a storm to show how cool you are, you already completely lost. Just stop talking and move on.
she is texting me right now acting all sweet. Fml
>>84921801If you absolutely can't help yourself but to respond, keep it to a brief sentence at most and leave it at that. But I get the feeling I'm trying to tell a heroin addict to put the needle down and get a job. I don't know why I even bother.
>>84921571there is no goal of her "come back after escalation", you misunderstood. the escalation is that she either accepts anons demands to be in a relationship, or she fucks off. he already did no contact and she crawled back, that shows the strategy works. now he needs to commit and not give her the same emotional tampon she had before. she has 6 million guys showering her in attention and by simply being cold and aloof she'll immediately get wet for anon because her daddy issues will kick in. but dont listen to me ive only used the cold and aloof method to make 3 dumb whores make moves on ME to get me to fuck them before i got married to my goth gf at 21. nigger.
>>84921662Typing up a storm lmao. Stop projecting goofy
>>84921879this really does work if you do it right. my high school crush led me on and cucked me for years and years until I finally got sick of her shit for good, then she did a 180, threw herself at me, then after we hooked up asked to be my gf.Problem was, it wasnt an act, I really was sick of her bullshit. so I rejected her, even though I never had a gf ever at that point in time. Was my major blackpill moment when I realized how sickening women are on the inside. Now I regret it though, wish I could go back in time and tell that nigga to just be with her because all women are just as shitty as she is anyway and she's still hot as fuck even though we're both 35 year old boomers now.
>>84921365>>get sick of being in friendzone with this crazy BPD goth baddie slut but I know Im just an emotional tampon for herThis sounds like a dream come true to me. If I had a friend like this I'd never give her up, even if it means having to listen to her talk about all the men she's fucking. I'd even pay her and buy her gifts.
>>84921961being actually tired of their shit might be a key ingredient too. ive always been cold and aloof toward foids in general and hated simpery since i noticed it in middle school before it had a name. foids would have tunnel vision for me because i was the only guy in the room that didnt give a fuck about them and wasnt jestering for them. even while married, the wife knows i dont play her games and when she fucks up by attempting a shit test to get me to "break character", as its in her nature to do, she ends up losing and getting wet for me because its not an act.
she hasn't messaged me all week, today is friday this must be the day she'll message me :)
>>84921365Yk despite the bpd shes just a girl be nice to her respect yourself accept that life is a lonely adventure and have good times with her thats all
>>84922128i hope you run into chad one day and he bashes your face with his fists cuck faggot
>>84922140I'd rather he just fuck the goth girl in front of me so I could watch.
>>84922140I'm pretty sure if there ever was someone like a chad it would be me and I abhor violence
OP here. so after she texted me today she asked if we could hang out soon and we're going to chill on wednesday. have not seen her for like the past year when I initiated no contact. maybe just maybe things will be different now? she was never this nice to me before
>>84923209Make sure you hug her when you first see her.
>>84923209Make sure you rape her when you first see her.
>>84923209OP listen to this anon and dont blow your load too fast>>84921879
>>84921365If you're certain she's a BPDemon then use her fear of abandonment against her.
>>84921365Just move on, anon. Don't be a dick about it, but don't engage with her either. You both want 2 different things, it happens.
>>84924810I tried doing that but when the girl tries to pry her way back in your good graces its really hard to resist for an incel loser like me. Now we're going to hang out in a few days. At least I have the satisfaction of knowing I walked away but she still wanted me around bad enough to crawl back.
>>84924879Sounds like a bad manipulation tactic. It's up to you really. I'm mistrustful of strangers, so its much easier for me to drop someone if they try this sort of crap. It's lonely sometimes, but I don't think I can tolerate the type of pain you're describing.
>>84921413Real. I wish I have seen this post before I slamfire smooched an 1897.
>>84921560You were an attention slave, not a friend.
