how does one cope with the fact that it's highly likely that they will waste all of their 20s without the feeling of bonding with a cute girl who genuinely wants to talk to them and shares similar interests and is not expecting you to do all the work in a conversation because she's actively being messaged by 100+ guys and so she can get away with being insanely boring and having no aspirations or hobbies of any kindlike, i think i'd be a pretty cool boyfriend, but i will never get the opportunity for anything while these online "loser" girls who are as boring as a tuna salad sandwich get infinite attention for just existing, fuck my bastard lifei guess you just put yourself out there and pray for her to find you first because anything else is just a humilation ritual and i refuse to feed even more the egos of these so called "femcels" who falsely complain about not being able to find a decent guy, kindly fuck off you liars
>>84921753Honestly bro, I'm 27 and I just don't care anymore. As you yourself said, 95%+ of women are low IQ phone scrollers that are hardly worth interacting with on a serious level. But let's say you accept that. Then what? Most likely she won't truly be attracted to you or feel any sort of unconditional attachment to you. She'll just be with you for the same reason you're with her: to fit in to society. And in exchange for soothing that anxiety that you aren't fitting in and for sex twice a year, you'll have a nonstop drain on your time, energy, and money as she constantly comes up with new stupid shit to waste money on and new random political issues her phone told her to pretend to care about for attention. A lot of men choose this path but I don't really feel like I'm missing out on anything. Sure, there's always a chance that you find a woman that is genuinely interesting and pleasant to be around and isn't completely narcissistic and entitled, but I'm not holding my fucking breath. Instead, in the past 2 years, I've continued to build up equity in my house, bought a new car, read over 100 books, visited every state park in my State, and many more things, and I've never felt more positive about life.
