>got a new wagie job>hit it off with this one coworker showing me the ropes>have a fun time bantering with her looking forward to the shifts we share>fast forward to today>mid bantering I say something along the lines of "yeah im totally (insert negative personality trait)>she answers with something like "oh my ex was totally like that too haha!">immediately feel a piece of my soul dying inside>suddenly don't find her all that attractive anymoreJFL, I can't even jester goon for fun anymore without being reminded about chad thundercock. I'm not even upset, just kinda disappointed
>>84922060Better than getting your hopes up
>>84922060>I think you guys might have ruined me mentally>normal feeling of disgust/disappointment towards a girl you had feeling towards turning out to be a whore
>>84922060She's telling "I don't have a boyfriend" that's as close as women will get to "please fuck me" anyways fuck off normalfag it makes me sick that people who banter with women and have jobs are on this board
>>84922060the challenge is not finding someone who was never a whore, it's finding someone who is not going to be a whore in the future
>>84922118Nigga thats retarded, no way you think that right?
>>84922060>I think you guys migh have ruined me mentallyThe mind is yours. You're the one putting trash inside of it. You cannot blame others for what you do. You're allowing the wrongdoers/antichrists/demons here to shove garbage into your mind. You're opening the door of your mind to the garbage they are offering you.It is your choice.
>>84922134It's true though, foids have trouble with direct communication. It would be less plausible if it hadn't been in response to OP's self-negging. By saying 'my ex was like that' she signals both that it's a trait she doesn't find completely undesirable in a partner and also that she doesn't have a current partner. If she had a current partner, it would have been more like "my ex was like that, but my bf is [other trait]"
>>84922172I'm not gonna lie bro, it kinda sounds like a coping mechanism train of thought, to me it reads more like "I am signaling to you that I had a romantic partner and that I ,being the quirky pretty girl I am, am probably still romantically active ( which may or may not be another dude I am with right now)"
>>84922219no, anon is right. she wouldn't even bother bantering with you even considering you share a job if she thought this little of you.
>>84922229I'm gonna be blunt with you, she jokes around with pretty much every client we come across. At some point we had a bunch of mentally disabled clients come through and she was SUPER nice to them so I don't think her niceness / jokiness means all that much (not that she is pitying me or anything, im just a normal guy)
>>84922258As blackpilling as it may be, picrel
>>84922219If she was with another guy you would know. She would've found a reason to mention her boyfriend the same way she mentioned her ex.
>>84922060what did you expect? someone over the age of 20 to not have any exs? bitch pls
>>84922060>Feeling disgusted after finding out that a woman you found attractive is actually a worthless used goods Somehow it's "Le ruined mentality"What you're feeling is absolutely and undoubtedly normal
>>84922060If you don't care, think of fucking her being like cucking chad. You are basically winning if she's actually just flirting with you. You don't have to have love or anything with her.
>>84922109Its not normal to be disgusted by a grown adult having an ex>>84922219Oh, but women are the neurotic, irrational otherthinkers with too many retarded unspoken social rules? Yeah, ok
>>84922284Tourist. Go back to reels
>>84922376She's the talk active kind of girl who immediately trauma dumped her entire childhood abuse story to me to the point i thought she was fucking with me only to turn out she was 100% serious and also told me she is autistic, I just expected her to weird out other guys enough to not bang up until now but I was WRONG
>>84922109>>84922386Trvke.>>84922120>>84922376>>84922399Simps and cucks. >>84922407Subhuman whore.
>>84922420Basically made a thread about her before, a bit more in depth on how the trauma dumping went
>>84922425How am I a cuck? OP never said he has a crush on her and wanted to put a ring on her. If he's a complete incel and she's a broken how, it's not that bad.
>>84922446I most likely would've just ignored that shit.
>>84922473Cucking Chad anon? Sorry, accidentally mentioned you.But having sex with someone else's sloppy seconds is disgusting.
>>84922172Lmao theories from the basement
>>84922172quit giving the guy false hope, at the end of the day everyone in this thread is gonna be watching Rehab Room this afternoon
>>84922060Uhh no that's a pretty normal reaction bro
>>84922060Tf u mean ruined? That's normal; the only reaction you should have after finding out that a femoid isn't a virgin is to recoil in disgust.
>>84922060Yeah you're ruined mentally, and so are half the posters on this thread. Or I don't know, maybe it's just the same "Sour Grapes" poster over and over again. None of these faggots are ever going to have a girlfriend or get laid, so they cope with their failure at life by pretending that no woman is good enough for them because they've all been sullied by contact with other men. lol, lmao even.>InB4 B-but I get laid all the time! I'm a s-stud, really b-but I'd never marry one of these whores, I just use them for sex!No you don't. If you had the ability to get laid all the time you could have found a virgin when you were younger and married her. Nobody believes your bullshit larping as a Chad. Guys who have lots of casual sex are the least likely to care about a woman's past sexual history unless it's something extreme like she was literally a crackwhore. It would be retarded to condemn a woman for having had a boyfriend before if you're going out to the club looking to get laid every weekend.So OP, if you have a pretty coworker who is friendly and flirting with you, but you suddenly don't like her anymore because she had a boyfriend before (instead of being locked away in a nunnery?) then yes, you are ruined mentally. Fix yourself or look forward to the lonely life of a bitter unfuckable incel.
