What was your family's reaction when they discoved you cut yourself?
>>84922797why i there so much sh threads on 4chan rn!?anyways, they dont know and hopefully they never find out
>>84922807>why i there so much sh threads on 4chan rn!?It's a common issue in our generation...
>>84922797I don't remember honestly
>>84922825>I don't remember honestlytry to remember
Concern, and they started paying me a lot of attention, which I hated even more. Having to explain how I'm feeling and shit.
>>84922839I think my dad said he wanted to have a talk with me but I told him to fuck off.I lost so much blood I was very shaky
>>84922797Sent me to a psych ward for 2 days, and then pulled me out without any follow-up. Mom never mentioned it again until years later when I mentioned how I don't like needles. They still had me lie about it and enlist.
>>84922852>but I told him to fuck off.you sound evil
>>84922864I'm not, it's his fault why I'm the way I am he was a terrible father and a drunk asshole and he was never there for us
>>84922797I don't do this pussy shit. I keep my feelings in my head like a real man.
>>84922875>he was a terrible fatherFrom what you said, it seemed like he cared for you, though>drunkWhat made him become an alcoholic?>he was never there for usThen why was him there to talk with you that day?
>>84922883too afraid of sharp objects huh? lol what a pussy
>>84922890>it seemed like he cared for you, thoughyeah now he cares after being horrible to me when I was a child.>What made him become an alcoholic?idk>Then why was him there to talk with you that day?because it takes me almost killing myself for him to notice something is wrong, I mean yeah physically he was there but you couldn't talk to him without him getting mad at you for no reason so I just avoided him all my life
>>84922859Same, but for a week. But they can't accept that sh is a direct result of their parenting. God i hate them so much
>>84922903>yeah now he cares after being horrible to me when I was a childBetter late than never. Have you ever told to his face he was a horrible father in your childhood?>idkMaybe he had his reasons then.>because it takes me almost killing myself for him to notice something is wrongWhen was him supposed to realize something was wrong?
>>84922932>when was he
>>84922797I hide my self harm scars and I think my Mum has caught a glimpse of one but I don't think she realized the full extent of how much I was cutting. Anyway I've started medication and I don't cut anymore.
>>84922932>Better late than neversorry but him being nice now is not gonna undo all the terrible things he did or undo all the trauma.>Have you ever told to his face he was a horrible father in your childhood?I just know he is going to deny it so there's no point, plus I still freeze every time I try to talk to him.>Maybe he had his reasons then.doesn't justify him being a shitty parent
>>84922797They did not care... TwT one of my cousins said I could talk to her about it whenever. My mom got insanely mad for like, a day. Other than that, nobody has said a word to me other than them staring at it occasionally. Honestly pretty happy about it.
>>84922797I was forced into therapy and put on SSRIs.
They were worried, and then I was sent to a hospital, at the hospital I was deemed a danger to myself and I was sent to a mental hospital. When I got back they kept asking me why I did that, and they couldn't believe it.
>>84922960I feel kinda bad for him, but there's nothing to be done anymore I guess
>>84922797They threatened to send me to a mental hospital and took away my knife collection
>>84923176you shouldn't feel bad for him
>>84922797They didn't do or say anything, except my brother made a joke about me cutting myself once and my whole family laughed. It wasn't even funny it was just mean.
>>84923387Tell us the joke.
>>84923402The joke was that I cut myself because I'm depressed, I am not sure if this even counts as a joke because he just said it in kind of a mocking way but there's no punchline or anything, it's just a statement
>>84923425You brother sounds like a popular guy between girls
>>84923431How could you tell... girls do like him a lot, I don't know what they see in him though because he's so mean. Not just to me but my mom and sister too, but still he's always been kind of spoiled in spite of that.
he called me an asshole
>>84922797they didn't care lol