does the average woman realize most guys can't find a partner within 3 days whenever they want like they can?i got a few options for why they react they way they do to any hint of frustration, doubt, fear, or anything besides a perfectly confident, experienced, machine-like execution of courtship:>they don't realize and they don't care>they realize and they don't care>they don't realize and think you are struggling because you're not into them but won't say it>they realize and actively think less of you for having emotions>they realize but they feel they have more in common with chad
>>84929408>most guys can't find a partner within 3 days whenever they want like they canskill issue, never been a problem for methe main problem is that most women are insufferable vapid retards that aren't worth talking to much less getting into a relationship with
>>84929426Not OP but Teach me. How do you meet women so easily in the first place?
>>84929426>skill issue, never been a problem for mewell how does that help? i wasn't born in conditions that ever for things to play out naturally, so i have to think about it and stuff to steal victory.
>>84929444>that ever forthat ever allowed for*
>>84929439just talk to/hang out with people you're interested in casually and see how it goes, you'll usually know if you gel together after like a week (or less if it's online depending on how much you talk)>>84929444nice trips, well for starters you have to make yourself worth talking to; this is a critical step a lot of people overlook for some reason. What are you good at? What makes you different from other people in a unique/interesting way, and how can you express that? What skills/talents do you have that you can leverage? Why would a woman choose you over someone else? Basically, would you talk to you if you were someone else? Would *you* date (you)? If not, work on fulfilling the first set of criteria in some meaningful way (being worthwhile to talk to/be around), then try again.
>>84929564Kick this normie nigger off the fucking board!
>>84929564But where do you meet these people to initiate a conversation with in the first place
>>84929593>But where do you meet these people to initiate a conversation with in the first placeWell it depends on what you're looking for, irl it helps to unironically go outside to events and shit if you're not a proper geezer and still have some youth left in you, 4th of July is coming up so if you're American there's a ton of shit going on literally everywhere and a lot of it doesn't even cost money. If you're looking for online shit, well find a fembot or go lurk /soc/; join a few servers and shitpost til you find some terminally online foid, the possibilities are literally endless imo.>>84929581>mfw i get called a normie
>>84929564>just go outside and talk to people brofuck off idiot
>>84929564i've got a couple of topics that some girls like, i guess when i think about it i don't struggle so much with girls who care about stuff and are not vapid. but still, i'm not used to telling compelling stories based on them, and when they don't like any of the topics in question i'm lost. yet i feel there is a default range of topics that you can harp on about with girls who are into nothing, which i know nothing about.
>>84929678>just die a mummified husk in your parent's attic and be miserable your entire life instead of taking meaningful actions to improve your circumstances bro(You) are unironically not going to make it.
>>84929564>Be uniqueSee that's my problem. I'm too unique so I'm seen as a weirdo and women find me repulsive.
>>84929715>i've got a couple of topics that some girls like, i guess when i think about it i don't struggle so much with girls who care about stuff and are not vapid.I cannot tell you how many times i've heard this from guys after having a similar discussion, it's super common and suggests guys might be overthinking the whole "talking to women" thing>but still, i'm not used to telling compelling stories based on them, and when they don't like any of the topics in question i'm lost.You don't get any better at things by not doing them. At least you recognize a potential weak point, it gives you something to work on. Being a good storyteller takes a bit of work but you can get better at it >yet i feel there is a default range of topics that you can harp on about with girls who are into nothing, which i know nothing about.I believe this is the legendary "small talk" i've heard so much about, heh. I have no advice here, since it varies so much from person to person; but as a man I find that you need to guide the conversation actively with most women. >>84930008there's a difference between being unique and being so out there that you become unrelatable; what about you in particular repulses women?
>>84930028>what about you in particular repulses women?Mostly my appearance and voice, but also my hobbies and taste in music, not to mention the websites I use on the daily.
>>84930070Not to mention I'm an asocial autist
