How do I get rid of this "loser" mindset of mine?It's like I'm perpetually 13 the way I'm insecure about everything
Well, you're a woman so it's your fate to be developmentally stunted in terms of cognition and emotional maturity. Forever.
>>84931372>you're a womanI'm a man...
>>84931363it's rooted in guilt. don't perpetuate the guilt by lashing out at others or sabotaging yourself. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHCdtDlbFK8
>>84931438Not with that attitude, bitch.
>>84931363its all in your head. i can assure you that the average normalfag is infinitely more infantile and arrested in their development than anyone on this board. they just dont think of themselves that way. the average normalfag spends the entirety of their free time having sex and watching capeshit, disney movies, or sportball. if anyone is perpetually 13 its them
>>84931440>guiltguilty of what? of not being enough?>>84931456i just feel weird, man
>>84931482>i just feel weird, mani get it. its much easier to find fault in yourself and view others as having everything figured out. truth is that the biggest difference between you and them is probably just that you have a much more developed capacity for self reflection which makes you hyper analyze your own faults and minimizing those of others. truth is that most *normies* dont do that. they just *do* without the analytical apparatus that makes every decision a chore. not much you can do besides acknowledging it and letting it go. one thing that helps tremendously is just being good at something, that way you undermine your sense of uselessness and point to that specific thing and say: if i can do that i can anything else also
I may be projecting but did something bad happened when you were 13 and you still haven't resolved the problem or moved forward?