wife's in the hospital for psychosis, i was at work and got calls from her and the police, she had the kids with her, saw a graffiti that said "trap" thought it was this guy from NYC that she's being talking to saying "I love you more than anything" to (i read all her emails with him last night) and thought he put a bomb in her car and my car, got the kids out of the car, went to 2 neighbors houses and bothered them, she was taking a fucking edible while i'm at work, I work every sat/sun inna psych ward, so I'm dealing with all this as i'm coming home from work, she's had permanent psychosis/delusions from edibles as well as cannabis hyperemesis syndrome from using it before so she knows she's absolutely not supposed to do this shit and she did it while i'm at work and she's supposed to be watching the kids, i'm fucking done man hahahaha
Why don't you work somewhere fucking normal that gets you better hours with your wife and actually spend more time with her and not make her feel like she has to med out to deal with life? How old are your babies? You are a bad husband. She was clearly dealing with post partum psychosis and you let it spiral. Bad husband. In the corner you go
It sounds like you have not been addressing her needs. Why was she forced to seek out a stranger instead of you?
>>84946982Nigger blaming me while my wife is the one that's the problem wewlad, i spend m-f every day with her ass what more do you want yeah post partdumb psychosis for 4+ years and yeah she won't take meds when she knows she's supposed to won't go to the doctor>>84946988it's a delusion lol
>>84946948Divorce her for cheating on you and take custody of the children, she's obviously a danger to herself and especially your children so you are guaranteed victory in court if you play your cards right then send her to the wagecage to pay child support.
>>84947018thank you! this is actually a reasonable response, i will be looking into this, she didn't cheat or meet up with this person but i still don't like that she said this to him i'm obviously leaving out a lot of stuff but that's because op is always a faggot or whatever
>>84946999WTF? You are so evil bro stop calling it that. She went through a lot bodily and mentally to birth your babies. She needs your help. You need to kiss her ass more just working isn't enough. What is your family support like? If it sucks you guys really need a nanny. You need your wife to be ok so she can be a good wife and mommy. You have to take care of her you took an oath getting married. Step up op wtf.
>>84946999Don't listen to them. Simps and sluts think that the man's responsible for literally everything no matter what
>>84947044thank you based anon, i've done a lot for this woman and i've put up with a lot, this isn't her first time in the hospital for this, she's supposed to be under a doctor's care and seeing a therapist but women know best lolololololol
>>84946948Hey OP, don't even bother replying to retards like >>84946982 and >>84946988. They're just trying to troll you.Anyway, sorry that shit happened to you. I'm starting to wonder if there's even one married guy in the world who's wife doesn't eventually do something pure scumbag evil.
>>84947066thank you buddy, i appreciate you, i just wish my kids weren't involved, later last night i had to tell them there wasn't a bomb and they weren't in any danger, they didn't understand what was going on , they're both under 8
>>84947026Even if she didn't cheat on you just do the foid thing of behaving and telling everyone else she did because it will be convenient for you to paint her as a mentally ill druggie that hangouts with criminal niggers while her children are actively in the presence of strange men, foids have no mercy during divorce so you shouldn't either so sent her deadbeat ass to the wagiecagie for equality sake, TOTAL FOID DEATH TFD TFD TFD!>>84947042Your pussy your problem, shes not fulfilling her role as homemaker so she should be ejected from the home much like a man that doesn't pay the bills.
>>84946948Holy shit I hope this is made up because if it isn't I don't know why you'd share all this with strangers on the internet
>>84947107>Your pussy your problem, shes not fulfilling her role as homemaker so she should be ejected from the home much like a man that doesn't pay the bills.!!!!! op here !!!! I've been asking her to put away clean towels, clothes for 2 weeks now, it never got done, she's feeding herself and the kids door dash and fast food instead of cooking, i thought i was getting a chicken dinner coming home and got cops in my front yard instead
>>84947122I've been coming here to 4chan for over 13-14 years now and genuinely love you guys, I have live long friends from meet ups, best man in another anon's wedding, wagmi bros
>>84947072>cannabis hyperemesis syndromePoor kids. The one silver lining to this steaming pile of shit is that if you divorce this bitch right now you are almost certain to get full custody of the kids. In a way you're lucky, the usual scenario is the wife cheats on the husband, moves out and is granted custody of the children, and then the courts divorce rape the dad into giving her half his shit and paying child support. Don't wait another minute, call a lawyer and divorce this bitch while she's in the psych ward, even better if you can get a restraining order against her by claiming she's a threat to your safety and the safety of your children.
>>84947133>even better if you can get a restraining order against her by claiming she's a threat to your safety and the safety of your children.I'm not sure how to go about doing that? I'll look it up, I'm not sure if they will do that but maybe because she has previously destroyed property in the house (a tv and I have a recording of her doing it) screamed at the kids, threatened me, picked up a skillet and was going to hit me with itwhen I called the police for those episodes, they acted like they were going to arrest me or have CPS come out but I actually got good cops this time for a change that understood mental health
>>84947155Gather as much evidence, especially of her assaulting you or your children with a weapon and get a lawyer, but also consult all the good lawyers in your local area to prevent her from using them because of conflict of intreasts, it may seem like a waste of money but keep in mind she has a default advantage due to pussyprivilege and foid favoritism so use every opportunity you have, it may by expensive now but in the longterm it will end up infinitely cheaper.
>>84947194I can probably do a lot of this without a lawyer, I think I can file dissolve marriage papers and just go my own way but yeah I'll ask around, they tend to just want to price gouge and drag things out so I am leery. They are the only winners in this.I am going to see if she is going to *actually* take medication and stick with it and see someone professionally every week.
>>84947053Yeah I'm not sure why everyone jumps at the opportunity to try and break a guy down without taking the time to really get to know the situation instead of judging based on one postWhy did you marry her in the first place though? I've been fucked in the head from some of my relationships but I'm glad I pushed them to the point that they broke up with me instead of having to deal with this shit later onWhat do you think your next steps will be?
>>84947226>Why did you marry her in the first place though?she's beautiful and nice - she wasn't anything like this when we met and didn't have problems w her until the last 3-4 years which got progressively worse>What do you think your next steps will be?She's in this hospital all this week so I am cleaning my house and making sure my kids are fed, entertained and happy, I'm recovering from one of the nastiest summer colds I've ever had and I was sick all last week.
>>84946948Nah she cheated and is using this cannabis bullshit as an excuse to not have the marriage implode or maybe weed has gotten so strong since she last regularly took it in the 80s and now she is flipping the fuck out because weed is legitimately that strong. Either way kill yourself, faggot.
Why did this AI generated thread get so many replies?
>>84947260>in the 80s lol how old do you think we are nigger>>84947264why are you a nigger and think everything is AI, go outside
>>84947271Sounds like your wife needs to stop taking bong hits like she is 14 and going for the high score. Clearly she is a lightweight and needs to pull back on that shit. You wife is rarded. I don't know what kind of problems yall have in yalls marriage that led to this or whatever problems yall have as individuals but quite frankly this sounds like she is fucking another dude and using this as some distraction fall guy situation where the attention is shifted from the fact that she is messaging another man and going way past her weed tolerance limit. Yall is way too old to be calling the cops because yall took an edible and thought yall was dying. "Am I just paranoid or am I just stoned?" - Green Day, "Basket Case" https://youtu.be/NUTGr5t3MoY?is=J44V2X0NHryQFwQs
>>84946988>>84946982Foidyim managing the blame the male for anything holy shit
>>84947323reasonable, thank you for your reply, classic song that i've actually heard a patient play in berkeley ca (their home town) inna psych ward while i worked there they actually had a guitar for them to use, i couldn't believe it
>>84947271OP is obviously AI generated, it forgets halfway through which of the characters is related to a psych ward and why.
>>84947271>tfw I will never have a quirk chungus gf
>>84947762Are you a cuck? She divorced him and then went lesbo
i'm stressed guys
>>84946948Ditch her. Please. I grew up with a mentally ill bipolar mom who threw burning water on me and destroyed me mentally. She is unfit to be a mother. It will not get better. Your children take precidence.
>>84948609damn i'm sorry that happened, i'm trying to figure out how to leave, i'm looking up order of protection and i don't think i can file one because i'm not a victim of violence but she's kept me from leaving the house before
>>84948612Make something up. It won't be long until she has some delusion about your kids being the antichrist and then beginning to hate them or choking or burning them etc. Get the fuck out.
>>84948632It's a legal document going to a judge, I can't just make stuff up plus that might make her act even worse
>>84946948bro im like cloud from final fantasy 7, you sound like cloud from final fantasy 7 but the story sucks because its bad, like cloud from final fantasy 7
>>84948648Fuck her, just say that she was freaking out and saying threatening things about your kids about how they're the antichrist and need to die and being violent.She's not going to get better. She doesn't want to get better. Sooner or later she's going to murder your children or do something very strange and stupid like fly to another country with your children in tow. Don't forget I warned you.
>>84948648You shouldn't lie, but you also do need to make a good story. You should include as many details as possible to show that your wife is legally incompetent, even small ones. It's going to be an uphill battle for full custody, but you've probably given her too many "second chances" to get her shit together over the past decade.You have to be in the mindset that you don't want you or your kids to become a homicide statistic because that's where you are at right now. There's really no "getting through this together" when it comes to you and your wife.
> become a homicide statisticidk about that, that's a bit much
>>84948794The psychotically delusional are capable of anything, and her truly believing there's a bomb in her car is already telling that her delusions are becoming more violent.Today it's a bomb in the car, tomorrow it's a bomb in your child's stomach that she tries to cut out herself.
>>84947762It is hell. It is hell. Also what the other anon said.I went from a cold bitch quirk chungus to an actual autist woman and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
When you check her Google search history and find this...
Ok guys going to bump this so anyone this evening can give feedback that wants to.
>>84946948Stoners and potheads are literal subhumans. Sorry you have to deal with that anon. Maybe try divorcing and getting custody if the kids aren't too young, a bad mother often does far more damage than no mother
>>84946948I swear women actually just make these things up for attention/drama because they're fucking bored. Cannabis doesn't do that to people -- it's just the excuse the female uses to dodge responsibility when her imagination got the best of her and she can't separate reality from the reality she's making up in her head.
>>84947066Bro I'm tired of anons just being piss ant trolls towards anyone suffering from anything -- it is just trolling. It's just them trying to get a rise out of people and they're absolute autistic retards that can't socialize in real life.
>>84950926she did hundreds of mg of edibles for months on end so yeah cannabis can induce psychosis and she's had permanent long lasting effects from it, she was getting her max limit when it was medical now it is recreational, spending hundreds of dollars on this shit>>84950937i've always tried to be nice to anyone on here making a good faith attempt at posting to try to get advice, help, share a story, just talk w people, i actually like this board and try to check it regularly.
>>84946948Originally classic image.
>>84950951>the time he acted like he won a sweepstakes when the 'casino felted him
>>84947026>she didn't cheat or meet up"emotional cheating" is a thing.You yourself said "with this guy from NYC she's been talking to". It was assumed by everyone here that it was sexting or something.I would do a hard line response, however, because my own mother ruined her life and the family due to drug use. I would do a trial separation (make sure to stress this is not divorce, no "we were on a break!" shit). And have her stay somewhere alone. Not with parents. Not with the child(ren). Alone. For maybe a month, maybe more. Let her feel what it's like to be truly alone with no background noise or anything. Tell her "if you ever do drugs again, this will be your new reality". Then she can exercise her free will and choose.There is zero reasonable excuse. Post partum depression? You can be depressed alone. Anxiety? You can be anxious alone. You can talk to the NYC guy alone. But you won't do any of those things with me, or I will leave.Note that this this isn't telling her "she isn't allowed to". She can of course do whatever she wants. But, you will do things in response that you want based off of her actions.And if you do end up separated from this, my condolences but you and the child are better off, trust me.
>>84951173reasonable, thanks yes i agree this is emotional cheating, i have never sent anyone these words, this is fucked up, i'm not taking her phone calls right now
>>84949751In fairness my searches are for insane shit also, not because I actually want X, but because I'm curious what the results are sometimes or why people believe the things they do.Also if you have kids then you get really weird stuff sometimes like "10 year old naked" (they themselves are 10, wanting to see peers, etc.) which was troubling 20 years ago but is an absolute nightmare now with all the search history logging and AI.>>84951185Reasonable. However, as someone who has been in a similar situation, there is one thing you can do that will make things easier on both of you for this current moment. Text her back something like this: "I'm upset and not wanting to talk right now. Give me space until [date]".This both saves you future phone calls (or should), makes you commit to a date yourself to handle this, and also removes the anxiety from her side that will likely build up into something worse. Unwarned silence isn't a good torture or revenge tactic in a relationship.Of course, this is under the presumption you've not already checked out and decided on a divorce, in which case it doesn't really matter.
>>84946948>I work every sat/sun inna psych wardwhat's this aboutand why do you keep typing inna
>>84951230she doesn't have her phone and can't text she's locked up inna psych unit right now lol so she can only call me and i can decline it>>84951245grab sks go innawoods xD xDI literally work at the place she got sent to, I was coming home from work and then she went back to the building I work in, people work in psychiatric facilities, it's a thing!
>>84946948I had the weed psychosis gf once as well. I feel like this is to be studied because it's too common. Are you in the midwest perchance?
>>84951348>midwestyes! she also has the cannabis hyperemesis syndrome where it makes them sick and throwing up like they're coming off heroin (pronounce hair-ron if you are cooL) and she knew this and did it anyway! and with our kids! lol!
>>84951357>kidsWell, at least it's not my ex then, lol.
>>84951262>people work in psychiatric facilities, it's a thing!>peopleanon, i...
>>84951598Yeah dude believe it or not, not everyone on here is unemployed
>>84946982>>84946988Both of you should put a shotgun in your mouth
>>84952109lizards aren't people
So... you work "inna psych ward", and your wife is also "inna psych ward"?Are you sure you work there, and not just yourself inna psych ward, hallucinating?
>>84946948fuck off glowie faggot
