thoughts on men with self harm scars?
>>84949427We're all a little retarded and no matter how deep they are, they always fade. Also I don't ever look for them on men, it doesn't occur to me to.
>>84949449>they always fadeI hope you're right, I really really do.but like you don't think less of them if you do notice them?
>>84949427gayer than homosexual
>>84949427I shake my head, drink, smoke, hit your head on walls like a real man if you want to self harm.
>>84949427I am a man and have sh scars and I think that's okay and looks sorta coolBut I don't think sh is a good habbit >>84949466nta>really really do.they will eventually turn into pale lines
>>84949466No probably not the only reason I didn't do the same when I was younger was because I thought it would hurt too bad. I had an emo phase back in the day, and I'm mentally ill. I had these really deep gashes on my shin and I thought I'd be stuck with them forever but they faded eventually. Even if they don't I'm pretty sure there's laser surgeries for scars. worst case people will assume you used to be emo, whatever most people did.
>>84949478>smoke, hit your head on wallsI do that too, just not very often. and it's not like I cut myself a lot it was a one time thing but I did it a lot that one time.and how is it that bleeding is gay but blunt or internal damage isn't? >>84949488that's good to know, it's been a year and mine don't look faded yet, it wasn't a habit though it's a thing I did very briefly but the cuts are very deep.>>84949490>worst case people will assume you used to be emothat's not too bad I guess.it's surprisingly not too painful, the pain lasted for like 10 seconds, it's all the blood that's the real problem BUT I don't want to get into detail about that.
i have one on my face.
>>84949503>been a yearit might take a long timeyou can try using scar creams it might help speed things up
>>84949509ouch, that sounds painful, but it probably looks cool too idk>>84949515I'll give them a try, thankfully no one will see them but you know, I see them all the time and it bothers me
>>84949427I find them hot, might just be me idk
>>84949427dunk that lil nigga
>>84949626let me guess, you're a man aren't you?
>>84949427I have one right between my cheeks, a black guy stabbed me with a meat stick there.
>>84949449I cut myself a lot when I was 16 im 25 and none of them have faded.
>>84949478I found out much later that most teens had access to drugs but I didn't so there was only one thing left to do.
>>84949545>ouch, that sounds painfulhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Q6-LM5fH5Y
As a nona with scars, I think theyre cute. My ex had them, but they were very light
>>84950128do you think deeper/bigger scars are cute too?
>>84949767Im a girl anon
>>84949427I was self harming a lot a little over a year ago, but I've stopped since taking a new medication though. The scars are mostly on my shoulders though, I didn't sh on my arms because I don't want people to see them.
>>84950200oh ok, sorry.yeah mine are on my legs and some on my upper arm but you can't see them even if I wear short sleeves
>>84950399>oh ok, sorry.LOL! nta but some of you niggas on here are so easy. Why did you apologize? da fuk?
>>84950399I think scars on the upper arm look the hottest, maybe you should wear a wife beater anon so that you can show them off<3
>>84950481I don't want to go around showing them off
>>84950418why is it that in every thread about self harm there is always that one guy pretending to be black?
>>84950565Too bad, I personally wouldve loved to see them
>>84950651I can post them if you want, I've posted them before
>>84949427I like them. It let's everyone know who to stay the hell away from, and who you should be wary of.
>>84949427They are weak men who should be taken out of the gene pool.
>>84949427If they're willing to harm themselves then what are they capable of doing to others? I don't trust them.
>>84950872I would never hurt someone else
>>84949924>I found out much later that most teens had access to drugs but I didn't so there was only one thing left to do.Same. I was bored with just my senses and wanted to feel something new. Of course being an outcast you dont have access to drugs so I would cut myself and give myself tattoos because, well, what else am I supposed todo? My personal insight into the American experience
>>84950990>wanted to feel something newCan you explain how this translates to cutting your own skin with a knife? If you wanted to feel something new maybe try sounding or something idk, I genuinely don't understand it.
>>84951035I've tried to explain it countless times and you people never get it
>>84951045Okay but did you at least try sounding before you picked up the knife anon
>>84951035Self harm to me was like a leap into the abyss, turning to the dark side, its also kind of how you find it feels good to do something bad, despite how fleeting the sensation becomes over time. But most importantly, it made me feel like I had finally left the race. Like there was no going back- I would always be marked and I was doomed for eternal damnation.
>>84951085what do you want to know what I do or not do with my dick?
>>84951092Ah so you're all evil and irredeemable, good to know
>>84951164nta but I cut myself because I was upset and the feeling calmed me down. I don't know what that anon's problem is
>>84951164>>84951179I was just abused as a kid (neglect)
>>84951219me too, neglected and verbally and a few times physically abused, though that's not really the reason why I cut myself
>>84951219then you must be so lonely.
>>84951335Are you a troll?Ill mention that this isnt me anymore, Im just sharing how I thought of it when I was 14-15 years old, I dont want to give others some joker justification for ruining their temple
>>84951354you did nt answer my question, dear. are you lonely?
>>84951710yes, I'm indeed lonely.
>>84951737>yes, I'm indeed lonely.yessssssssssssssssss
I've self harmed for a few years now. i would like the scars to go away and be able to show my arms again but I'm addicted to the whole process so I don't see that being a thing anytime soon unfortunately. Not many people have seen them but the reaction from girls is usually sympathetic (I don't think a guy has ever seen them now that I think about it not counting doctors.) When it comes to relationships it's always a big hurdle because I'm scared of how they're going to judge me but if you get to that point they tend to be caring. The last girl I was with last held me once and said "I'm sorry that people hurt you to the point that you hurt yourself" and I cried. And now I think about that moment every time I cut and it hurts even more because she ended up hurting me to the point that I hurt myself...
