>>84972864
why did you delete his name lol

>>84972864
It's not what you say it's how you say it. You were probably screaming and shouting and namecalling

>>84972892
No I was calm, anger especially for petty stuff is not productive

>>84972864
Cheap whore

>>84972864
Femorrhoids would rather spread their legs for men like this than save themselves at least before engagement and vetting for a man with strong character.

>>84972864
Wow he is worthless you are going to be so happy with someone who actually loves you and doesn't just say the words to get what he wants .

>>84972916
Yeah I don't believe you, women constantly think they have done nothing wrong

Single males are hard to find I can see why you had to settle for him

>>84973086
I tried my best and also it is in the screenshot of him saying I didn't do anything wrong

>>84973086
Kek you are prob him larp at her to make her feel like she's wrong.. narc shit

She's right , you are trash

Why do you think this makes you a good person? Kindness for bad men is cruelty towards good men

>>84973087
Kek no they are not . How many false things are you going to say here hoping she believes you , let's count

>>84972864
Your boyfriend clearly has some mental disorder.

>>84973100
i cant even tell who is who in that screenshot

LMAO, is this chikn? Did your boyfriend finally got tired of you trying to cuck him?

>>84973110
The thing is that it is a gray line, like we all have our issues so where is the line drawn

>>84972864
You gave your virginity to retardBrad and now you're worthless used goods. Omedetou!

>>84973137
I don't know what you mean but the "line is drawn" when you have a functioning relationship and aren't dating a subhuman who doesn't know how to wash dishes.

>>84972864

cut deeper you dike slut. To the bone too, and show pics when you're done.

>>84973121
He is the miss you and I say why and sorry what did I do and he says I want to be with you and I say I hav the solution of giving him more space in a relationship. And he says I am too shit for himself
>>84973120
Which?

>>84973155
I mean if someone is open to bettering themselves

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>>84973135
What cucking? I let him have a e-mistress recently its going both ways.

And idk what u mean because I didn't make this thread. 4chan claims to be nonchalant about me but then cares enough to bring me up in unrelated threads

Keep your dicksword drama off the board

>>84973175

you're probably typing this while you have deep self harm scars on your arms from your little temper tantrum because he wasn't what you wanted.

cut deeper lmao, nobody here's gonna pity you.

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>>84973193
I told u I didn't make this thread. I'm not OP and I don't self harm.

>>84972864
That's because you didn't emotionally abuse him first, now he has the upper hand

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fell in love with a girl from this site and idk what to do with myself

Also he got annoyed cause I asked him to not use the same towel he uses for the dishes to swipe the floor

Also yes I do try to be kind to aquintances from here too it is just that I don't have much social energy

>>84972864
Do people actually message like this? It looks so fake and cringe.

>>84972864
is that him? he is a man child i dont blame you - look at him crawling back after he burned the bridge.

>>84973499
Explain why please

>>84973387
How did you say it?

>>84973516
Idk I try to say stuff calm and nicely

>>84973202

fyi, saying you're not over and over just makes it seem like you are OP.

That makes you a faggot, so even if you weren't OP, i don't care.

Cut.
Deeper.
And don't take forever like you foids usually do, i'd hate to wait all day for you to finish.

>>84972864
People under 30 are fucking cooked, you faggots have no idea how to talk to each other and actually discuss what you WANT with english words, fuck you both.

>I asked him to please don't leave places we are together without telling me because I will get lost.
kek
Are both of you retarded?

>>84973645
Basically what happened was

>We were going to get a dish that is only sold in his country and the people don't speak English.
>He gets angry on the way there randomly. He would get angry like that almost daily. Idk why that time.
>They gave me the wrong order
>He refuses to tell them. Something i can't do cause they don't speak English. And gets up and walks away without asking me
>I am ok about not getting the food. But ask him to please ask me before you leave places, since I have to follow you in order to not get lost. So it be more considerate to check up with me, and to please apologise
>He is snarky at me and refuses to apologise for not giving me a heads up.
>I start crying cause the daily anger.
>Ask him again to apologise
>He breaks up with me

>>84973672
I'd say good riddance. Why would you even want to be with someone that acts like this?

Men are shit, stop pretending it gives you purpose to have a shitty life next to a shitty man, it doesn't. That's not kindness that's you being stupid.

>>84973687
I mean he was smart so I thought smart people can change. He wasn't so angry at first

>>84973672
>what are phones
>what are translator apps
He sounds like an ass, but why are you acting so helpless? Are you underaged or retarded?

hope you find someone better

Such as the life of being an ugly woman seem so

>>84972864
>im kind to my abusechad ex bf im such a good person
The worst part? I suspect you genuinely believe what you typed.

Femanon ignore the anons here.
I hope you find someone who treats you better.

>>84974093
Thank you but idk

Robots are too buck broken, some people can't be saved and need to look within

>>84972864
holy fucking shit. I feel so fucking cringe now. I did this shit.
I was never mean to her, but I did the desperate messages.
I should fucking kill myself.

>>84972892
Stfu faggot

>>84972864
Good thing he's your ex now nona. Don't waste your time missing him, just find someone better :)

>>84973087
>Single males are hard to find
What makes you think that?

>>84972864
>I asked him to not lay on the bed with clothes from outside/asked him to please use dish detergent, and not just rinse used cutlery from the sink with just water.

These are weird requests imo. You don't have to use dish detergent for everything, especially simple cutlery. Also wtf is "clothes from outside"? lol. Are niggas really this autistic here?

you sound underdeveloped and helpless, it's just sort of obvious a child brained baby woman would end up with someone who takes advantage of that until he realizes "oh my god she really IS just a child, holy shit I'm out"

>>84973137
The line is drawn when they're unwilling to fix those issues.

>>84974221
>You don't have to use dish detergent for everything, especially simple cutlery
you do if you put it in your mouth.
if you cut anything wet, you have to use it, even for fruit.
what the fuck are you on about?

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>>84974207
>Stfu faggot
No, he is right, roasties are always wrong.
You people are demons.

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And all that and I always had to beg for him to apologize but still claims he loves me(he send this before coming back)

I don't know listening to me when I am telling you how your behaviour makes me feel is pretty easy in my opinion

>>84973320
She's talking to ten other guys at least

>>84973516
Holy snowflake, it doesn't matter how you say it faggot, if you're using a floor rag on clean dishes you're lucky you don't get your ass beat

Women love narcissists with anger issues. Lmfao

>>84973871
She's a woman anon cut her some slack

>>84974221
>These are weird requests imo
Probably just because you're a dirty nigger that doesn't shower. Outside clothes are dirty, you don't want your bed dirty, so you change them. It's called basic hygiene.

>>84974228
He said he was trying, but when it is the case to try or atleast take a break if you are too upset to calm down, he would block me/ break up with me

>>84972864
>My ex boyfriend, who I met from here
Like poetry.

>>84974285
Egh I would be ok with him if he you know actually tried to listen to me

>>84974273
He may have said he was trying, but his actions said otherwise. Honestly, if he's getting mad because you want him to use soap to clean the dishes, leave him. Sure people have their own issues, and they can try to fix them, but that doesn't mean you have to deal with them while they do. Let him figure it out alone

>>84974313
Assuming your story is actually real, I'm not sure why you thought that getting into a relationship with someone from 4chan, let alone /r9k, was a good idea. Not only that, but you also met in person. Everyone here is fucked up, and it's generally not a good mix when two fucked up people get together.

>>84974321
Idk how is it not an instant choice/within your control when you are intelligent which he was. I am retarded and autistic and still could remain calm

>>84974345
I am here for years and I atleast try to be a good girlfriend so why can't others. I can't do normies I tried and r9k people are the only ones who worth it cause I actually enjoy talking to them.

>>84974368
I wouldn't be able to date a normie girl either, but I have zero faith in girls who spend time in predominantly male spaces.

I'm curious what types of things her abusive bf posts here. Lmao

>>84974394
Idk what that means cause yes I have flaws but what I will say is that I do try my best to be calm, kindand make things work

>>84972864
>my retarded boyfriend i met on /r9k/ is a dick
Is this supposed to prove you aren't fucking retarded?

>>84974599
My claim is that I try to be kind not that I am not retarded. I am retarded but he is smart, if only he would choose to be nicer

>>84974347
There's a big difference between "smart" and "intelligent", if he was intelligent there'd be no problems. Chances are he was a 115 IQ know it all that tricked you into thinking he was intelligent, just like everyone else on this site does

>>84974565
You sound like a sweet girl, I recommend staying away from 4chan if you want a real relationship. There are plenty of irl spaces where non-normies gather. Card-shops, bookstores, libraries, game stores, etc. Lots of them have events where people with similar interests can get together and meet

>>84974664
Idk I think he actually was since he was more academically gifted than me (easy bar tbf) but also had vast strongly held opinions on philosophy/life. Which is what made him different from other men I have talked to

>>84974701
>strongly held opinions
Oh like a narcissist??? Lmfao

>>84974693
Thank you anon. Idk those types of guys was the ones I tried the regular nerdy guy and we didn't have much in common, I feel that imageboard culture is unique to some extent due to the limitations of the media. I choose to lurk here for a number of years now since I do enjoy opposing opinions since I like questioning myself but also as an autistic woman I like how autistic traits are more accepted here in a weird way

>>84974565
I mean that I don't trust girls who spend time in guy only (or mostly guy only) spaces, because you'd always have orbiters around you. So the slightest friction could result in you flipping on me and moving onto the next guy in line.

>>84974701
>strongly held opinions on philosophy/life
Like I said, a know-it-all.

>>84974628
>choose
It's not a choice, he's an asshole because its ingrained in his personality. It's not that fucking complicated dude. Get it together you child, can't believe they let you guys vote.

>>84974797
That can happen no matter where the chicks hangs out, anon. There are always dude who will fuck her, she could go to the grocery store and find dick if she wanted.

Im noticing that foids here really love dating guys who are fucked in the head and probably sociopaths.

>>84972864
>lay on the bed with clothes from outside
This sounds pretty crazy. Is this a thing that people actually care about? I've never seen anyone make an issue out of this before.

>>84974837
I'm a fucked in the head sociopath, how do I get them let me live in their filthy apartments and fuck them?

>>84974837
>foid complains no bf, gets a million simps
>foid talks to "normal" (for r9k) guy :|
>foid talks to psycho :o
it really do be like that

>>84974859
Well probably find girls who have low self esteem and cut themselves like on twitter and probably here

>look how pathetic my shitty ex is, still wanting me, teehee
Every day my volceldom is reinforced by the people I see

>>84974829
More likely to happen when the woman surrounds herself almost exclusively with guys. So yeah, not my thing and never will be.

>>84974345
Not everyone on 4chan, even this shithole of a board, is a psycho. I've met a couple anons and nonas who were worth talking, certainly moreso than any normie; you can only talk about sports and TV so much.

that sucks. but you should be more careful with the people you meet on this place. there's a reason they're here, and there's a reason you're here. that reason is bad, more often than not

>>84974938
>moreso than any normie; you can only talk about sports and TV so much.
As opposed to what, video games and anime? Two sides of the same coin

>>84974972
They usually have deeper more interesting things to say about those things than typical sportsball conversations at least, and you can have conversations about philosophy or some other random shit if that's your cup of tea. I don't agree with most people on nu4chan's philosophical takes, but they can still be entertaining to read. Compare that to:
>hey did you see the game last night? The part where Billy threw the ball and Delontarquavious caught it and ran was such a great play

>>84974965
I mean I have been here for years and I try my best to be a good girlfriend

>>84974938
So what do you guys talk about? if not sports and TV?

>>84975009
Sportsgroids still talk in-depth about their interests, it's just not an interest you share so you don't care to know that. Get off your high horse faggot

>>84975010
this sounds like this is not your first rodeo. what's wrong? why are you looking here, out of all places?

>>84975018
>>84975028
Random shit. Why do you take it personally that a lot of people find sports boring? It's not even all sports, I used to like amateur drag racing and trying to guess 1/4 mile times based on what people had done to the cars when I was younger, but there's only so much you can talk about football and basketball, it's nice to talk about other things.

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>>84972864
>I asked him to not lay on the bed with clothes from outside
what? this one is weird but also wearing 'outside clothes' indoors isn't very comfortable. i usually just change out of habit. who the fuck is wearing jeans and shit in bed?

>asked him to please use dish detergent, and not just rinse used cutlery from the sink with just water
what the fuck am i reading? i can't even complain since i'm a shut-in who would rather not be in a relationship right now, but it's crazy to see these people getting gfs.

>come to a place full of complete and utter fucking losers
>maybe some are better than others at being decent, respectable human beings
>you, being a woman, still value physical attraction higher than anything else
>so you pass up on the balding, older guys etc. with physical defects you deem unworthy for you (lol)
>the few guys left who aren't balding and are okay looking have a combination of atrocious personality from being blackpilled incel fagots to knowing their looks can make them get away with certain things
>the result is the OPs situation
enjoy it, you optimized for it

>>84975132
"Outside clothes" in this context does not refer to heavy pants and jackets, but simply clothes that have been outside the apartment for any amount of time. And if you used a knife to dice a banana for ~five seconds, or had some snacks in a bowl, would you always then take the time to wash it thoroughly with soap? I wouldn't, because unless you left it out a while, any stain disappears from the first second of being rubbed in hot water. That's what it is.

>>84975103
All i was asking was what other things you talk about retard

>>84975159
Are you bald bro?

>>84975159
>>so you pass up on the balding, older guys etc. with physical defects you deem unworthy for you (lol)
>Date a man you aren't attracted to
>Leave him instantly cause you need to be attracted to your partner

>>84975103
>Why do you take it personally that a lot of people find sports boring?
I also hate sports, I just hate tismoids more

>>84975213
no and I'm also not short (6'1) but I have this thing called empathy which most people on this board don't seem to possess and it makes me laugh when genetic garbage on here (most femcels) try to have similar standards as normie stacies

>>84975185
>And if you used a knife to dice a banana for ~five seconds, or had some snacks in a bowl, would you always then take the time to wash it thoroughly with soap?
Yes, because it's dirty anon.
You people disgust me

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>>84975185
>"Outside clothes" in this context does not refer to heavy pants and jackets, but simply clothes that have been outside the apartment for any amount of time.
ah. so... even if it was like pajamas and you were out taking out the trash or checking the mail? that sounds even more psychotic to be honest.

>if you used a knife to dice a banana for ~five seconds, or had some snacks in a bowl, would you always then take the time to wash it thoroughly with soap?
well, yeah, but this is coming from someone who cooks a fuck ton and usually hand cleans with soap and warm water. even if the snacks are gone and the stains aren't visible, you still get grease and other stuff that gets swirled around in the hot water if you don't use soap. same with knives, i keep them clean, dry and in a wood block so that the edge lasts as long as possible. it just makes the most sense to me.

>>84975277
Then you're wrong, too. You'd just be standing there trying to polish off the soap stains. Most things rinse off immediately if you do it right after you use it.

>>84975298
Yes. Especially so for taking out the trash, actually. About soap, I'm still not convinced. I usually go by touch and I'm convinced I can tell when it's clean, and it is after just hot water. Maybe I could be convinced on this point though.

>>84973158
>he is the
I'm not reading that trying to make sense
if you're going to censor names, at least color code them

>>84973387
All the stuff you complained about, I would also ask the other to do/not do / whatever the right verb is.
I'm okay with the dishes to floor towel as long as it's only one way, i.e. once you clean the floor with it, it's not a dirty towel.

>>84973672
>only sold in his country and the people don't speak English.
You know what. You kind of deserve it for dating a foreigner. What part of "they don't care about you, only seeing you as a piece of meat" do you women fail to understand.

>>84974221
>Also wtf is "clothes from outside"? lol. Are niggas really this autistic here?
Clothes worn outside. Firstly, I wouldn't lay on bed with casual clothes in the first place, but secondly, you don't want pollen getting in the sheets. Allergies and etc.

>>84974234
For fruit I think water is fine if immediately, as it's just to get the sugar off. Meat and stuff, yeah, soap needed.

>>84974238
>beg for him to apologize
this is stupid. an apology requested means nothing. an unprompted apology is when it matters, because it shows they reflected. a requested one is just "lmao I'll say whatever stop bothering me faggot"

>>84974565
Firstly, the way you describe yourself is a good thing. Please don't change.
That being said, women who spend time in predominantly male places (vidya games, 4chan, etc.) are notoriously mentally ill and/or whores.

>>84974854
See above. I care about it quite a bit, because I want my bed to be "clean". I also shower at night before getting into bed as well.

>>84974972
Anime and other stories allow you to talk about why a character did X, what the author was trying to convey, themes, etc. Sportsball is just "hey did you see the nigger throw that ball? He threw it good today I tell you what"

>>84975321
Imagine cutting raw chicken. Now run it under just tap hot water. Clean enough for you? If yes, enjoy food poisoning. I'm fine with just rinsing for bread and fruit and other such things, but not for meat.

>>84975494
>Anime and other stories allow you to talk about why a character did X, what the author was trying to convey, themes, etc.
Sounds painfully normie anon

>>84975494
>>84975494
I'm not talking about raw chicken. Yes, obviously I would take time to make sure that's sanitized and all. I'm talking about fruit and lightly used bowls because that's what actually happened and was complained about.

>>84975560
as opposed to what? you fucking dickwad.
Not every conversation has to be metaphysics, politics, science, or whatever other pretentious shit you claim to be into.
Good conversations are those that lead somewhere. Small talk can be fun and engaging when done by a creative person who thinks of connections instead of just awkward silences and one-word answers.

>>84975604
>Good conversations are those that lead somewhere
Conversations about anime lead nowhere. Idgaf about science or philosophy I like having normal conversations with normal people not schizos

>>84975638
>normal people
>Sounds painfully normie anon

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>>84975321
>I'm still not convinced
that's fine. i was just giving my perspective. also another reason i wash everything is because of ants and gnats amongst other things. those little fuckers are the definition of 'take an inch, take a mile'

>just rinse used cutlery from the sink with just water.
I do this too but I also wash things immediately after eating and my sink has one of those spray things I use steaming hot water

>>84973135
its very obviously roz

>>84975638
A wealth of anime watching leads to stupid conversations like "if you were isekai'd with power over only an element, what would you pick?"
It's a creativity thing so much more then "hurrdurr who will the lakers draft" or whatever.

>I'd like water because you could use it as steam also to fly via hot air balloon method if you had the right materials and-
vs.
>JAMAL THROW GOOD THIS YEAR

>>84972864
cant really tell which participant is which, use diff colours next time

>>84972864
I think that you will be happy again and find someone one day

My anxiety is back again so sad

>>84972864
The cloth thing is a bit nuts unless they were very dirty, and thats just 1 of those things you tell us, there is probably alot more. I wouldn't say he dodged a bullet but you might want to reflect on how you interacted with him deeper.

>>84977358
Nah, she dodged a bullet