>>84975239
I'm like this sometimes but I'm just autistic. I've never ghosted someone before though

>>84975239
>I tried to talk to a mentally defective skank from 4chan
>she acted like a mentally defective skank from 4chan
Lmao the women that post on here are fun to fuck with but they aren't wife material. Most of them will get beaten to death by some psycho they meet up with from here. Being alone is better anon.

>>84975251
How do those psychos even hold their attention?

>>84975247
Eh, I'm autistic too but I actually put in effort when trying to get to know someone

>>84975239
You have to cut them off while they are still interested.
Like a Netflix cliffhanger.
Sometimes this happens organically.
But you csn force it too, and it's advantageous.
If you are having a great convo but have ti go to work for example
She has to wait
and while she is waiting she is thinking of you
pining even
LET HER
only an idiot would take that away from. her.
Yes you are ABLE to use a sick alway and keep talking... but then she will have her fill, be bored and move one which sounds like your experience.
LEAVE THEM HANGING.
KEEP THEM THIRSTY.

>>84975261
By making them feel like trash and that they have to prove something. I've fucked 3 girls from /r9k/, they are pathetic people. After a while you just want to bash their heads in.

>>84975276
I'm too autistic for these normie ass mind games

>>84975293
>Message them for one day.
>Delete the message history and wipe her contact from your phone.
>Wait for her to contact you back, send one message, and wipe her contact info again.
>Repeat until pussy
I didn't believe this worked until I tried it myself to astounding success.

>>84975288
>>84975311
I don't think I could make someone feel like trash even if I wanted too, I'm too empathetic

>>84975267
Well I do put in effort but sometimes I just don't know what to respond to stuff with. So I'll just say "lol", "mkay", or "TwT'

1. Avoidants are trash.
2. Drop them as soon as you notice somebody is avoidant.

>>84975324
Let me guess, then the next day you don't initiate conversation because you feel guilty

>>84975276
the only valid answer, and the only thing that's ever worked for me. many times over.
but the problem is when you do start to genuinely have feelings for them. they will resent you for going soft, invariably.
i remember casually saying i'm not talking to any other girls rn cuz why should i, and this was at the point where she was already saying i love you, after a few months. the unhinged and intolerable shit tests ensued practically immediately and i had to cut her off.
she came crawling back several times but once they disrespect you on that level it's fucked.
so just keep in mind that however well it's going for a while and no matter how successful you are with them, they remain crazy whores and it's always got a shelf life.

>>84975320
Then die alone!

>>84975332
No I do initiate and I double text. I just don't know what to say in the moment. I have a boyfriend, so I think it's working fine. He's also autistic and texts the same way.

>>84975339
Like I said in the OP, it hasn't always been this bad

I could sometimes get to know a millennial girl just by talking to her normally and trying to by funny and engaging, but I guess that's not enough in the age of Discord orbiters

>>84975345
What did your bf do for you not to ghost him after a day?

>>84975293
I was too.
I'm autistic af.
I wonder why people can't be genuine.
Trial & Error, fren
I'm sharing my lessons so you don't have to learn the hard way

>>84975374
I'd just feel like an asshole playing that song and dance

>>84975239
>Am I really just that boring/uncharismatic?
No you just have nothing in common

>>84975411
Sometimes yes, sometimes no

A couple weeks ago I was talking to a girl and we were practically finishing each other's sentences but then she disappeared

>>84975371
Like I said before I've never ghosted anyone before. I think it's rude. But I can tell you what attracted me to him. He's someone I can confide in without being judged, so that lead to me being happy to be myself around him. And he's very blunt and honest, which I like

>>84975437
You're competing with 10+ guys at all times. When she pulls back that means another guy pulled ahead. You're not safe from this even when you're living with them. Now imagine how much more freedom they have to pull this shit when it's just online.
You need to be completely unattached. When she pulls back pull back harder. Delete her immediately. That's the only way she'd maybe be interested again, but even then you'll be doing that for your own peace of mind and dignity. Talk to many at the same time so you're less desperate. And never believe a single thing they say.

>>84975451
I see

I'm also very non-judgemental, but it's hard to get a femanon to talk about her hobbies, let alone anything deeper

>>84975320
Same abon as KEEP THEM THIRSTY anon
You don't HAVE to make them feel like shit.
What if you legitimately had a busy life?
9 - 5,
Project truck,
Volley Ball or Tennis League,
Meal prep,
Maybe lifting,
You had a book you're into,
Hosting family in a couple days/Saturday so cleaning the house / getting things together for that,
Church Sunday,
Sunday hike,
more project truck,
Friend wants to get lunch or help moving
...
where in there is time for a foid?
there isn't.
where in there, when you're too busy to message, how are you being an asshole? You're not.
If you think you are being an asshole by living your life, the feminists and radical left have really brainwashed you.
If you don't have a busy life, we'll there's your problem. Why would a woman like a boring person if they aren't Chad? They don't.
Be interesting enough to enjoy your life without women.
They should feel PRIVILEGED to be a part of your life. And in fact it IS a privilege.
Only a cuck-brain would think giving someone a privilege is is being an asshole or makes someone feel bad.
You got a lot of learning to do fren.
That's ok.
Focus on a super fulfilling life for yourself.
Women will see your happiness and be attracted to it because... they want to fucking ruin it. Tame the tiger. Put you in a zoo.
Just keep paying attention my man.
Your autistic so you'll recognize the patterns, you'll figure it out.
You just need experience.

>>84975458
>Delete her immediately
As a fembot dont do this lol just try to vc or something more intimate instead of just texting

>>84975470
I'm not asking a fish for fishing advice. And the deleting is obviously for the beginning stages, not when you've hooked her.

>>84975458
>Talk to many at the same time

Where are you finding all these femanons to talk to

>>84975465
Holy shit that would be utterly exhausting

>>84975505
/soc/. if you're reasonably handsome and interesting you'll get many adds. and you can get proactive too but it's little use because the women that post are far worse than the ones that only lurk. i've had the best outcomes with those that only lurk and never post.
also maybe try duolicious. had decent luck there too.

>>84975463
Well sorry to hear that anon, I hope you can find someone soon. I don't really have any advice on that cause me and my boyfriend love talking about stuff we like

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>>84975524
>if you're reasonably handsome and interesting

I'm a 33 year old virgin for a reason

I'm already on Duo as well as all the normie dating apps

>>84975557
well then i dunno man

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>>84975505
>Holy shit that would be utterly exhausting
Basically these guys are so thirsty they are willing to take up a second job of trying to get girls online, on the possible chance they will hook up with a girl. It's like going to the casino.

You get more bang for your buck and less emotional/time wastage by seeing a $60 massage girl.

>>84975586
I was moreso talking about taking up all sorts of dumb hobbies and side hustles and normie nonsense just to seem more interesting to girls

>>84975524
>tl;dr be chad

Amazing insight

>>84975239
This has only ever happened to me on /soc/ because shes also talking to the other 15 dudes who have added her every day the thread is up and the 5 or so who add her every day AFTER it hits the archives.

>>84975617
>I was moreso talking about taking up all sorts of dumb hobbies and side hustles and normie nonsense just to seem more interesting to girls

If you are hot enough they don't care

>>84975538
I feel bad your boyfriend

>>84975701
I said reasonably. Idk what you consider chad. I've been on this board for more than a decade.
Do you think you'll just be desired for ''who you are'', whatever that means? You#re defined by the value you bring. That includes biological value. It defines you, there's no such thing as a colorless, valueless soul substance that's your core or some woo-woo shit. You are what you are. Women will desire you for what makes them desire you. Deal with it or kys ig

>>84975742
You'd be an incel if you were ugly

>>84975751
Oh yeah? Guess the Lord loves me then. Calvin be praised

>>84975757
Even being average isn't enough to get added on soc anymore

>>84975458
have you ever asked yourself if you might be the problem? or do they not teach that in Sunday school?

>>84975739
Why? What am I messing up on.

>>84975792
Honestly it's gotten far easier in my opinion over the past 2 years. For some reason there's been an immense influx of unhinged zoomer whores.
I've heard the same from other Anons. They're very easy and cam with you and send nudes very quick, too.
And I'd put myself as a light 6 on a very good day. That is through my man eyes, meaning i consider it a bell-curve. So upper territory of average. Naturally women have it all fucked up but then I reckon I just hit the niche for a certain species of unhinged woman.
Maybe try being aggressively funny?

>>84975830
I find it hard to be funny when I barely know someone and they don't give me any information to work with

>>84975288
>3 girls
those were men in long socks anon

>>84975813
Why would I be the problem? All people are on the internet now, so internet problems are real-life problems, just as a preface before you start screeching.
So considering that I'm still very aware where I am, 4chan being the toxic waste dump (that I love). So I know that I'll keep landing three eyed carp because I fish at the toxic waste dump. That's my choice. And every year even the normie women become more unhinged and start resembling what I considered insane 4chan girl behavior 5 years ago. So sooner or later every man will have to move that way.
But all I did above was explain my strategy. And my strategy works very well.
So what's the problem? And why am I the problem?

>>84975839
I'm more talking about canned lines that disarm. And if it doesn't work you just move on. Don't get attached. The name of the game is whoever grows attached first loses.
I didn't make the rules.

>>84975867
Hard not to feel invested when you're getting maybe an add per month

>>84975239
>try to fuck women off /r9k/
>they behave exactly like you would expect a woman on /r9k/ would
antagonize them until they either become sexually excited from the friction or specifically tell you they dislike you and block. they already do but are pussyfooting around it because they feel outwardly saying it will make them the bad guy. average person male or female cannot abide anything that makes them consider they might not be the victim in every situation. your worst case scenario is that she posts screenshots of it but she was always going to do this with at least her personal group of friends. keep this in mind
>>84975850
dont care about whatever larger slapfight you two are having but
>And every year even the normie women become more unhinged and start resembling what I considered insane 4chan girl behavior 5 years ago
yeah whats up with this. this is affecting all ages of women so it cant be a purely zoomette grew-up-in-internet-tribalism thing. they have the entire wider internet to emulate and they are all choosing to behave worse than traditional 4chan bpd camwhores. why? because thats what the entire internet is now, monetized bpd camwhores in every possible interest shoved down your throat 24/7 with ads? not even for raid shadow legends anymore

I added someone from here last week, she seems nice, this hasn't happened yet, I'm still traumatized by what happened last time I tried this so sometimes I ignore her

>>84976375
Keep doing that

>>84976398
>keep ignoring her
>ignore every message she sends
>ignore her phonecalls
>ignore her selfies
>ignore her nudes
>ignore her videos of her fucking herself
>ignore her sending me gifts
>ignore her letters
>ignore her voicemails
>ignore the dead pets
>ignore her outside my house
>ignore her in the peripheral of my vision for years
>ignore when she starts setting buildings on fire so i have to come out
>ignore her when she holds a gun to her head and demands i ask her out or else
>ignore her funeral
feelschadman.jpeg

>>84976105
>yeah whats up with this.
4chan became a glowie op on how to make everyone hate each other and it's been spread through mainstream internet because the retards in charge think it's a good thing if everyone hates each other.

>>84976398
at least it'll take longer before she gets bored of me, she is fun to talk to though she can actually maintain a conversation unlike most people I've added from here (she is not a regular here so that makes sense)

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>>84975251
>>I tried to talk to a mentally defective skank from 4chan
>>she acted like a mentally defective skank from 4chan
Not OP.
I've never talked to a girl off of 4chan but I can 100% confirm this is 90% of women now a days.
>OMG I'm so lonely and have no one to talk to
>Here are my socials
>once you message her, you get one word responses if a response at all.
>Doesn't get jokes or have interests
>eventually stops responding
The funny thing is it seems the reason women are like this is they have 50 other guys giving them attention.
And rather than women taking qualitative approaches to who they speak with they take a quantitative approach and never assume that they are the ones who may be boring and if they get even the slightest bit upset even if they misunderstood something.

I find the solution is isolating women and refusing to help them. When they complain about men not doing things for them ask them why a man should.

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>>84976423
i think you forgot to attach this, king

>>84975239
>Am I really just that boring/uncharismatic?
Stop blaming yourself jesus christ, if a woman is responding like most likely SHE is the boring, uninteresting cunt, as like 99% of women are

>>84977561
You see it on here. Some fembot posts (usually a fucking homo LARPing) and the sad sack losers line up to fluff "her" like she's going to be their wife one day. It's fucking sad. Men have a share in the blame with how desperate they chase these mid ass chicks.