I tried therapy and I had a breakthrough.Here's the reality. People will call me an incel or whatever and insist that's the problem but it never was.I mean I am involuntarily celibate but nobody asks why. They tell me it's because I hate women. But I see dudes like Hasan Piker who are like... actually misogynist. Who truly have a problem with women, woerdly especially Asian women. And they're drowning in sex.So, can't be that. Even if I did had a problem with women, being misogynistic is not in and of itself unattractive enough to shackle one to a lack or intimacy. Now I understand I'm an average looking dude. Gymcel so it's not my physique. Blessed to be 6'2 so it's not small.Gotta be something I'm doing.What am I doing?I'm taking no for an answer, when I don't get what I want I smile, nod, agree and then go back to minding my own business.The reason I'm not pursuing after an initial "no" is because I'm a fundamentally passive personality. I'm a fundamentally passive personality because any attempt to be active and share my interests and engage with people was beaten out of me in childhood by bullying.Why was I bullied? Because I reacted to the bullying, and the teachers were able to blame me for it because of the reaction, so bullying me was without consequence.My only escape was being passive.So it all comes down to a behaviour learned from childhood trauma.It is Saturday night in Australia. I am about to go to the pub with this newfound understanding of what my problem is. I feel good about it. Wish me luck.
This world is basically neurodivergents vs soulless neurotypicals
The bullying made you passive, but it made me angry and aggressive. And it made me feel like the world and God owes me BIG TIME. You're not passive because of your environment. You're passive, because of GENETICS. I bet you're a white man too, most white men are liberal 501boi bitches now, especially because the jews are marginalizing the white race on top of white men being gentlemen.
>>84987241Thank you for this post, I'm pretty much the same as you.
>>84987241therapy only works for normfags.
>>84987241>tfw passive without ever being bulliedOr maybe I'm just that lazy
>>84987241I'm same kind person, but I expect people to put effort in to things, and if they don't I dont bother with them. I can't stand people who wait to be ordered like dogs
OP here again.I remained persistent with a girl who initially told me she wanted to be alone. Panicked and told her "Great, so do I"Out in the beer garden I let her bum a cigarette, she gave me her phone number.I'm gonna make it.
>>84988343I see a normal life in your future. Godspeed, prodigal son.
