I'm 35 and have never asked out a woman.Is it kind of my own fault im a virgin or an "incel" as they say.
>>84993979You've done exactly what society and women expected of you, how they want you to act, and this is the price you pay.
>>84993979It's joever at this point
>>84993979I'm 35 too brother. Feels fucking awful.
>>84994065Also we need a board for millenial incels and losers, sharing this shit since the zoomers invaded with their retarded bullshit sucks.
Regardless, I was thinking about chatting up women I'm not attracted to as practice. I don't think they'd like me anyway.
>>84994055Shut up faggot. Women don't want non-Chads talking to them and ESPECIALLY not asking them out. You're such a gay dumb faggot.
>>84994094That's my point exactly. He wasn't Chad and now he pays the price socially and emotionally until that manifests in physical downsides. Nothing gay or dumb about it.
>>84994083It works but you'll feel like shit. They'll get feelings and either you'll be too chicken shit to step up or you'll break their hearts when you make up an excuse to not see them. Been there done that.
>>84994132You think Chad is a state of behavior. No. It is a state of being. Chad is born, very rare, and you cannot become Chad. OP was born just another guy, like you and me, and yes, he paid the price for it because women are entitled cunts who think every guy should be the top 2 percentile of guys like Chad is.
>>84994083Way to put yourself out of the game, as usual. Be bad at first so you can be good later. Any skill you do you're bad at then you get good over time it's like the only thing human beings are good at.
>>84994150>>84994151Ok so which is it guys? Can OP build his way out of it or is he fucked because of his genetic loserdom?
>>84994150I never claimed Chad was a state of behavior. He wasn't born Chad and now he suffers. That's my point. The reason he was forced to act in an inferior way by society and women is because he wasn't Chad is the deeper point, but he already knows that.
>>84994168People who believe or identify with the chad shit are retarded. Keep away from retards like that.
>>84994161OP is totally fucked, it's OVER. He needs to focus on something else and see the truth about women and how unfair they are.>>84994168Great post. Chad does whatever he wants while other guys are held to rules and standards of behavior, I've seen it for YEARS. A guy like me acting like Chad is a surefire way to get filmed, shamed on the internet, beat up and arrested.
>>84994194>He needs to focus on something else and see the truth about women and how unfair they are.That's kind of how I look at life now. Gave up on women but have worked on building a life that's still enjoyable. Think about just fucking a hooker at some point. Worked with a boomer who was big into fucking hookers and he honestly seemed pretty happy.
>>84994194No op made a bait thread and you are most likely him. You lost Chad threads all the time because you think it helps you but it only makes you look incredibly insecure and manipulative
>>84994203Yeah, honestly, this is something that will consume you the more you let it bother you. Like the old tropes about how if someone is pestering you, ignore them, and they will get bored. And someone in their 30s should have had enough time to grieve and reflect and get that out of their system, it still sucks, but what can you do. As for hookers and escorts, that is an alright route if you can stay safe and the women are trustworthy, but it's also full of risks if you aren't super careful.>>84994206I didn't make the thread idiot.
>>84993979yo>>84994065if you need some emotional support maybe _threshold_>>84994073well the zoomers are sorta who we need to get with
>>84994194Fuck this guy >>84994206 LMAO. Actual normans in this entire board. Type of faggot who's never experience any pushback a day in his life.
>>84994227Look at you throwing a tantrum>>84994257You got called out in your 2 bait threads. Go take a break and work on yourself
>>84994278Is the other anon right? have you never experience suffering?
>>84994255>well the zoomers are sorta who we need to get withYou mean fucking zoomers chicks? I thought about that for a while but a lot of zoomer femanons just aren't the same as the old femanons we used to have. They are way performative and attentionwhores, I think it'd rather just die alone. I miss the old gals, they were solid.
>>84994278I'm a random faggot and a real /r9k/ user, not some tantrum-thrower to fit your schizoid fantasies. Not baiting anyone, simply agreeing with the truth. >>84994286Good question. I want to see him answer it.
Narc tantrum >>84994286>>84994302
>>84994314I just wanted to know if it's true you're a normie or not. seen you post in other threads and just wonder about it.
>>84994314Screenshots can't prove much tbdesu but any sentient person viewing this thread will know you are off your rocker and unfit for conversation on this board.
>>84994278What the hell is your problem here? I'm not throwing a tantrum, I'm just trying to help an incel in need. True wizardry dictates that you must have that crystal clear moment of realization that allows you to move on from your current suffering. Sometimes, people need a push for that to happen. Being 35 and wondering if there is still hope to get women is an insane exercise in suffering.
>>84994330He doesn't believe 3 rational human beings are calling him out for his faggotry. It's unreal considering the amount of self-selection and survivorship bias needed to use 4chan on a daily basis.
>>84994325>>84994329>>84994330>>84994340Same fag much?Posting on PC, mobile,cell all give different (you)Calm your tits. Stop freaking out because I bruised your ego. Have fun. No need to be like this
>>84994297some are still around but older gals tend to be more bitter and the nice ones are already in relationshipsit really depends tho i don't discriminate by age just sayin tho
>>84994330Making the 35, height bait threads is an extreme exercise in narc manipulative bitch fits. Take a break. Smoke a cig. You can do better. Try
>>84994398Yeah that's fair man, keeping an open mind is probably better than dismissing chicks. I'm just too worn out for this shit.
>>84994392>>84994407You look like a complete retard to us, and yes that's all three of us. LMFAO. The only narc, manipulator, and the like is you. This is what we believe in, this is what real /r9k/ users believe. You can bully and spew false accusations everywhere, but when there are two other humans and countless others viewing this thread it's a little bit silly when I only see two (you)s as you quote me.
>>84994422Same fag narc ego bruisedhttps://www.bolde.com/14-things-narcissists-do-when-their-ego-is-bruised/
>>84993979It depends.Did they ever give you any hints of interest before?I have never asked a girl out because none of them seemed to like me, they never approached me, seemed like they wanted to hang out or give me any kinds of long looks or flirted with me so I can only assume that they would reject me because there has never been an indication of interest from them.
>>84994475I despite religion but it always ends up being correct about people. I wonder why.
>>84994475>https://www.bolde.com/14-things-narcissists-do-when-their-ego-is-bruised/So basically all options of how a person can react? What an useless articleNext article of theirs: What Hitler ate and why bread is evil
>>84994485Good advice>>84994487Is just not worth responding to
>>84994480That's too bad to hear Colton. Work on yourself. Be a better person.
>>84993979I had a crush who dated someone else and asked 2 random waitresses and got a no so I guess that just my life.
>>84996069Honestly if you're asking random chicks out you're doing way better than i am even if they say no. Wish i had the balls to take that risk.
>>84996079I thought they liked me so I tried but It was just a brief delusionNow I know zero people in my life and won't be expecting to try that anytime soon