>>85012630
I'm the exact same way. For me, it's due to an ingrained sense of pragmatism and strong aversion to banality that causes those types of feelings. Hell, I barely even like interacting with more than a handful of people online.

>>85012630
uhh anon if you're attractive and you don't sperg out she'll fuck you, you retard. women don't agree to a date if they aren't already considering fucking you. because i've fucked on the first date a few times now, whenever i go on another date with a woman i know what i'll be doing. i go through the bullshit quick conversation or whatever, then invite her into my vehicle or have her follow me or whatever to my place and then we fuck. it's not rocket science. i can do this shit in my sleep now honestly, probably why my motivation for further dates has dwindled, i figured it out so the magic is sort of gone

>>85012657
Because of life circumstances I live in a mancave though. A literal hole with stuff around and boxes. It's clean (no dust, smells, foods all over) but looks messy.

>>85012630
go on the date and pretend/talk like you're in a movie. then report back here on how successful you were

>>85012657
I'm tired of fucking fat chicks from the internet, I want an actual relationship but i don't think it's going to happen mostly because of my own issues.

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Maybe I should go. It's just a coffee. I'll just have as a goal to enjoy the coffee and cake..

>>85012630
>What's wrong with me? Why does all this feel so tedious?
Nothing. Dating, and relationships in general, is for women. That's why Valentine's day is about you doing something for her. Same as relationship anniversaries. Women love to bitch about emotional labor, but it's typically the man cattering to the woman. The exception is abusechad using her for sex. If you ain't him, it ain't worth it. Too much squeeze. Too little juice.