>walking outside in the summer heat>pass into a narrower street like i usually do for this route>a few little boys are playing probably only 10 years old at most>bump into one fat kid accidentally >he is my shoulder length or so (im 5'4 at 20)>the other kid says something i didnt hear then they both laugh>i pretend nothing happened and walk awayholy shit man embarrassing as hell
>>85048719What the fuck is wrong with kids. It's like they don't possess a sense of self and empathy.
>>85048719How tf can someone be 5'4 at 20 what the fuck no offense but that's insane. I forget to thank god everyday for making me reasonably tall
>>85048739because i didnt eat as a child and had no sport activities, even today i can only really eat a small breakfast or lunch and a small dinner before i get too full and start throwing up
>>85048754it's mostly genetics anon. nothing you can do
>>85048761my brother and sister and our parents are all taller than me lmao
>be me, walking through city centre>cross paths with a group of 'new citizens'>almost trip because I'm too lazy to properly pick up my feet>the whole group says something like "don't fall!" while laughing>shrug and forget about it a minute later because it's retarded to get hung up on stuff like thatLife is a lot more comfortable and easygoing when you don't get upset over the reactions of people you don't know. I could recommend it to all of you fuckers.
>>85048780Until their opinions affect your employment, social status, and opportunities. Yes this applies to people you don't know, like the recruiter you met 5 minutes ago. Shut the fuck up please.
>>85048780Not op but it's hard to just get over embarrassing situations or things like that. They'll linger in my head, replaying over and over for hours. Maybe even days depending on how bad it was. It eventually goes away and I stop thinking about it... but it takes a while. "Stop caring" isn't that good of advice IMO
>>85048800How often does your employment, social status and perceived opportunities get sabotaged because of the opinions of literally whos? Be honest.
>>85048719I would've threatened to spike the lad on his head if he even looked at me funny one more time, and no i'm not kiddingi would beat the piss out of a bunch of ten year olds and sleep like a baby afterwards
>>85048805Every single time I'm summoned to in-person engagements. The only times I've succeeded is in environments based purely on merit or based on people who were forced to work with me and realized I was actually a pretty good team player.
>>85048803"Stop caring" is actually fantastic advice. Or do you really think that random strangers think as much about you as you yourself do? If you actually do think that it might be time to go offline so you're not stuck in your own head 24/7.
>>85048813>I'm summonedAh so you let yourself get jerked around like a plaything by others. Yeah I can't help you with that mate.
>>85048719>im 5'4 at 20sorry man, I know this shit sucks, I'm 5'6 so I'm lucky enough to barely scrape by when it comes to things like finding clothes that fit So i can imagine how much worse you have it
>>85048816If being called up for interviews and meetings means getting jerked around like a plaything I guess...
>>85048814No it's not. Because you don't choose to care 99% of the time, therefore you can't just stop. >Just stop caringThanks I'm cured bro
>>85048719I'm 5'9.5 and 5'10 with shoes on. Am I allowed to be included in this discussion?
>>85048820>applying for being an utterly disposable beast of burden >HR Karen gets to decide your fate depending on her ick listI'll never understand why people would do that to themselves honestly.>>85048824Actually if you choose to be extremely passive about dealing with those feelings and just.. complain that you feel those things all the time you do choose to care about things you shouldn't care about. Stop doing that, dumdum.
>>85048780you probably arent a manlet then>>85048819i have to wear xs sized clothing on top of all of this, and there arent a lot of xs mens clothing to go around over here so i make do because the average german height is like 5'10 or 5'11>>85048824>>85048814even then, people actually do care about you randomly even if they dont know youm have you never looked at social media recordings of total strangers being made fun of? or overheard people gossiping about some total nobody?people care and people are vicious in their care
>>85048850Yes I know most normies are callous crabs in a bucket retards who'd eagerly mock strangers to look slightly better in comparison (or so they believe). Still doesn't change the fact they'll just forget about you after 10 seconds though. If you let yourself be haunted by the shrill laughter of people you'll never see again idk what to tell you.
>>85048719>5'4 at 20>>85048850>xs sized clothing COOKED
>>85048850>top of all of this, and there arent a lot of xs mens clothsame sameand still, I gotta cuff all of my pants so they're not too long and often I have to shorten t-shirts so I don't look ridiculous Though at the end of the day I probably I still look ridiculous
>>85049233i have this one pair of pants that look good but are too big for me so they constantly fall off so basically a waste
>>85049552>constantly fall offbuy a belt, dude
>>85049684i never wear it so i dont need the belt
>>85048850I am not german but i am similair height and in britain you can often buy clothes that are like 12-14 or something similair and those fit, maybe there is a german equivalent?
>>85048850>arent a lot of xsthey're never in stores but you can't buy them easily online though just because they're xs doesn't mean they'll fit right
>>85049757being small in a tall society is hard even for clothes
>>85048719What's embarrassing about this? Did you speak? Say sorry, excuse me, etc?We need a tismoid genocide asap
>>85048800Nobody has any respect for you if you care what they think about you. (Hence why they all avoid you anon)
Stop whining, be like George Costanza retard
>be walking somewhere outside>see other people blocking my path>turn 180 degrees and go another way
Being under 5'10" is like being raped 1000 times a day every day until you die
>>85050544its embarrassing because literal children are almost as tall as me
>>85051658Yeah and one day they'll be adults that are taller than you. Did you just wake up and realize you're short?
>>85051015>Come to homecoming with me my little porkchop
>>85052118no, but this was yet another case of being reminded of my short height
