>>85075750
Chad says stuff woman like how original

>>85075750
Didn't I say this guy has downs? This proves it

>>85075750
>one of the most famous athletes on earth giving advice to normies on women
So tired of this shit man

>>85075750
>be autistic
>go out and socialize
>people realize i am mentally ill and I become a lolcow

>>85075750
The way women treat him and the way they would treat a black man who looks exactly like him is black pilling
Dude looks like stereotype of black facial features and women call him cute and autistic

>>85075750
>I was single for quite a while myself
Not surprised with his face

>>85075750
>Look inside
>Childhood friends from the same town that played at the same football club who only began to date a couple years ago

>>85075750
>By choice
Yeah, because I don't wanna be treated like a betabuxx retard begging for attention

>>85075750
The typical survivorship bias advice

>>85075750
sfdfsdf

Erling Haaland stands at a height of 6 feet, 5 inches (1.95 meters).

He is right though. Worked for me

>>85075970
I, too, see myself and my own experiences as the golden standard for everything in life so if people can't do what I did then they should just try harder hahahaha I'm the only person that matters!

>>85075982
Let me rephrase. The more time I spent online and on my phone the more depressed I became. I met the girl I am seeing right now completely by chance. I think what he is trying to say is that working on yourself and doing what YOU enjoy and what brings YOU meaning will naturally attract and put you in contact with like minded people as opposed to the isolation that social media paradoxically necessitates.

TLDR touch grass. The sun feels nice!

>>85075750
hes a famous and rich football player and still had to settle for some brown latina just because hes white and ugly. take away his money, fame and height and he would be virgin for life

>>85075750
Lmao he got humiliated by her. She said she loved his best friend.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wMyxcBy11JU

>>85075750
>If youre always looking for a girlfriend, youll never find one
He says this because hes a chad who women throw themselves at, this advice doesnt work for average or below average men

>>85076090
>take away his money, fame and height
that's not disingenuous at all

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>>85075750
i notice there are so big many athletes whose gfs look worse than me. and here i am being a neet. guess i enjoy misery.

>>85075750
coming from the athlete that's like 6'7" with an enormous frame.

>>85076156
>so many big athletes*

>>85075750
I found my gf on my phone thoughever

>>85075862
Me and my coworkers literally call him a chimpanzee.

>>85076090
>settle
He thinks Chads still dont have thousands of foids blowing up their phone even after marriage

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>>85075750
>professional athlete trying to give me life advice
Fuck all the way off. Next you'll be telling me to put cheese in ramen.

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>>85075811
lol made me laugh. Yes you did.

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>>85075750
>work up the courage and motivation to go to a bar.
>have no idea how to socialize, just get drunk and sit in the corner.

>maybe I can play D&D at a local place?
>have some fun but nobody ever seems interested in taking it beyond the table. All groups end within 3 sessions.

>never been to a casino, maybe that's a good way to socialize.
>just games for an hour and leave, no real opportunities for socializing.

>never been to a rave, maybe I can meet people there?
>don't know how to socialize and nobody seems interested in chatting with me. Get drunk for a few hours then go home.

>a local standup comedy night? Maybe that'll be fun?
>I'm the only white guy in the audience. Comedian directly references me as the white guy in the audience and makes a mass shooting joke.

Idk man this socializing stuff really hasn't been going all that well. Every time I work up the courage and motivation to leave my comfort zone nothing productive comes from it, or worse.

Men are lonely by choice.

Just be a gentleman and take women out to dinner

>>85076259
>>a local standup comedy night? Maybe that'll be fun?
>>I'm the only white guy in the audience. Comedian directly references me as the white guy in the audience and makes a mass shooting joke.

This didnt happen but i really wish it did

>>85076388
It did. Idk if its normal for stand-up but he interacted directly with literally every member of the audience multiple times(it was an audience of like 20 people). Since I was the only white guy, he made white people jokes.

>>85076259
the problem with socializing is people socialize mostly about the things they got going on currently and experiences that happened to them in past.

and for me i've been a neet for most of my life so i have nothing to talk about, nothing has ever happened to me, i'm just a blank slate.

so instead i just avoid talking and keep to myself.

>>85076182
Same. It's whatever way makes sense and you find fun. I was definitely hunting for a gf, but I tried to have fun with it and shook off my inital desperation.

>>85076628
You're half right - people like telling stories, but the other half is that people like people who listen to their stories. If you're clueless or inexperienced, then you can still be curious and ask polite questions to encourage their story. This will eventually gain you friends over time if you're consistent enough.

>>85075750
Nah I tried with what I thought was a win-win girl. Nope she wanted to find herself and became a pooner.

>>85075750
>Just go outside and let them approach you
>t.Multi-millionaire 6'5 famous athlete

>>85075750
This advice made sense when there were actually single women outside, but now it's like telling someone to go outside a spaceship into the vacuum of space, without a spacesuit on. Nothing good will come of it.
Also "stop hunting for a girlfriend"? Why the fuck do I need to go outside then? Huh? Fuckin' asshole.

Thanks for the advice, tall famous rich Chad, I'm sure it will apply nicely to me.

>>85075848
He didnt say anything about socializing you retard. Just fucking go outside and enjoy nature you fuck
>>85075862
People idolize athletic black men you braindead retard
Holy shit. R9k is full of mouth breathers. No one likes you because you're a bunch of morons >>85075848

>>85076678
There's a veritable gold mountain of qt virgin black and brown femcels to be found online if you're normal+ looking mentalcel

>>85077526
ok sounds great but i'm gonna need a detailed step-by-step guide.

>>85077270
>Just fucking go outside and enjoy nature you fuck
Wont help you get a gf. It will have the opposite effect actually
>>85077526
They want attractive guys, not incels

>>85077720
im mixed and I dont care if the guy is attractive or not

>>85077900
I notice you didn't say you don't care if he is a mentalcel or not

>>85077647
Duolicious and soc and 4chan theme discords, that's it.

>>85077720
>They want attractive guys, not incels
That's what I said, you gotta be at least over 5/10 physically and have something going for you, like a job or your own place or an impressive hobby and if your only problem is truly being a mentalcel then this helps a lot cause its easier to make a move when it's clear you are both there to try and date

>>85078052
>>>85077900 (You)
i dont know what mentalcel is

>>85078136
>A mentalcel refers to individuals whose inceldom is due to psychological factors-- the Incel Wiki (lol wtf that exists)
basically not an incel because of physical attributes but mental ones. Covers everything from depressed avoidant types to actual psychos. Although I'd be willing to bet most socio/psychopaths do pretty well in the sexhaving department, disqualifying them as an incel

>>85078059
i'm too shy to do that you're gonna have to do it for me

>>85078203
I know this guy from my class he disappeared after like a month of school, he was assigned to sit with me in German class he exhibited like some odd behaviour he would shout when the teacher was teaching and just really high energy he told me that he had a list of disorders I thought he was just joking but he wasn't because he would be gone for several days and I asked him when he would come back one day what happened and he said that he was at the mental hospital so yup, also everyone was mean to him and thought he was weird I dont. now I reached out to him after some months ( I found his number dont ask how ) and asked if he wants to hang out with me and he said yes. I don't stigmatise people with mental issues sorry if my text is hard to read

>Be a tall (good looking) famous wealthy star sure knows how its down in the gutter, thanks for the advise bro.

Also notice how he know that its about GF, he know that women can hook a man at any time.

>>85076628
Yep, all I got going would be how I replayed another levle for the 50th time.

>>85077647
Just be confident and yourselfe bro, or fake it till you make it.

>>85078091
Well the 5 for women is acutally a 9 in the genetics world.

>>85076981
also
>6'5 multimillionaire top athlete
>was single for "quite a while"

What's the point of a girlfriend? Living with some retarded stranger who subjects you to constant humiliation rituals and time-wasting excursions for the promise of """love""" and sex which is far worse than masturbating anyway. Annihilate everything that exists.

>>85078318
Good for you, reaching out to him like that. Knowing someone thought enough about you to reach out can make a world of difference. Someone like that would be a little further towards "obvious mental issues" than other anons, but yeah that's the idea.
and your text wasn't hard to read, I understood it.

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>>85075750
>you find your girlfriend when you least expect it.
super truth nova
i found mine here of all places and i couldn't be happier, i must have exhausted the entire world's stockpile of luck for the next century on this alone

demoralization aside, i'd say look for friends first and a gf second if you're not doing that already
if nothing else you get to hang out with some cool people, it's not ideal but it helps more than you'd expect
heart goes out for all of you, brothers
my hopes are on you, wagmi

>>85078458
This is terrible advice some people are just too ugly to date for it to happen naturally do you realize for incels they are below the threshold for these random events to trigger that's why they struggle so. Also your e relationship with neptunia doesn't count.

>>85078435
>Annihilate everything that exists.
that's the reason. men need a loving relationship young otherwise they will destroy the whole world.

somehow people don't get this and now it's too late.

>>85078458
Sure, I've got no use for female friends though.

>>85075750
come on niggas what did you EXPECT him to say?

start spewing off the blackpill or something? like come the fuck on. of course the famous soccer star is going to give the basic bitch tier advice and move onto something more interesting instead of creating a stupid controversy he's not interested in.

i swear you're all autismos

>>85078480
>too ugly to date
oh my sweet summer child, you should try looking out your window some more, lol
you can see some real ogres and ogresses fucking married (and happily so) just by doing that
looks count but not nearly as much as you guys make it out to be, lol

>your e relationship with neptunia doesn't count.
duh, not yet, not to you at least
but don't you worry, when we meet up later this year i'll be sure to give you guys a couple pics to see if that inspires you better :>

it all becomes much clearer once you realize that all these things people say to incels/virgins and all their advice ONLY applies to mentalcels. if youre a real incel dont bother listening to it

>>85078483
There is no love for one such as me.

>>85078516
>oh my sweet summer child, you should try looking out your window some more, lol
>you can see some real ogres and ogresses fucking married (and happily so) just by doing that
Dude I hear this every day from normies and it drove me crazy so I actually started counting the suspected couples I saw outside. All I see are mostly looksmatched couples where the guy is usually 5 inches taller and slightly better looking and fat girls out of the 18 couples I saw I only saw one where the guy was an actual ogre except for old couples obviously where hypergamy wasn't as bad and they both let themselves go. In any case using examples to refute statistics is just dumb
>i'll be sure to give you guys a couple pics to see if that inspires you better :>
I mean I'm happy for you dude, but it has nothing to do with inspiration. Besides you don't actually come in good faith and care about the people here and care about their success. You mostly want to assert your worldview and feel better than us. If you truly wanted them to succeed you would advise looks maxing and other PUA/redpill strategies.

>>85075750
>old (for 4chan)
>average height
>out of shape (I can fix that in a couple months, but why bother)
>5/10 face
>unemployed and unemployable
>socially isolated (friends all have lives and moved on)
>no hobbies. seriously, none.
single by choice? I can MAYBE fix one or two of those.

>>85078542
it only works on fakecels.

"just go talk to women!" doesn't work on a mentalcel with crippling anxiety, shyness, introversion.

>>85078572
>All I see are mostly looksmatched couples where the guy is usually 5 inches taller and slightly better looking and fat girls out of the 18 couples I saw
18, huh? man ain't that a lot of people
living in a big city and heading out to work 3 times a week, i see a lot of those "odd couples" so...
but you're right, it's not the best example since it really depends where you live, but for a lot of the people i talked to, and a lot of the places i've been to, that has been what i was told and experienced, but you can choose to believe that
at the end of the day it only means you get to find a looksmatch yourself, lol

>it has nothing to do with inspiration
i don't see many (if any lately) success cases of couples in this site, i only see constant crying and bait spam, demoralization and whatnot so i figured maybe that'll do some good for some people, you know?
it's my hope at least

>You mostly want to assert your worldview
um... i'm open to changing them if they make sense, but what people say here and what i see out there are so disconnected that it usually has no effect, kek

>If you truly wanted them to succeed you would advise looks maxing and other PUA/redpill strategies.
man, if those make you feel better then do that for your own fucking sake, not to get laid
i want you guys to be better, to be happier, with or without someone else in your life, however i do believe you being in a good state of mind will make you more fun/nice to be around and improve your chances, hence go make friends
whatever you do, put yourself first and make yourself happy, someone else will come along and add to it

that's what i want for you guys
bee happy !

>>85078433
Yes as in only one per room instead of the usual 3.

>>85078516
>looks count but not nearly as much as you guys make it out to be, lol
Yeah like that one time back in school when I feel hard, too hard to get up on my own, some bitch tried to help me, but (always was) so put off by me existing she tried to do it with an absolute minimum amount of contact.

Or when they walk up to me and ask directly about my visible shortcomings, forgetting all social etiquette.

Thats bullshit, at best I see looksmatch or she is always uglier, but he is always taller, never seen where he was 5 inch shorter.

>>85078574
>average height
Annon treasuer it, maybe it wont elp you too much but atlest you escaped the worst circle of hell by just that.

>>85078623
mentalcels are fakecels. 99% of mentalcels get a gf before they turn 30. its just shy men who wont talk to girls, wont hang out anywhere and then complain about being lonely on the internet to actual ugly, short and genetically fucked incels.
>i could get a gf but im afraid to talk to girls, im just like you
its shameless

>>85078456
thank u

life is too short im happy I stayed in contact

>>85078672
oof, i'm sorry you had those experiences, anon
you sure don't live around a nice bunch, huh? here's hoping you meet some actually decent human beings in the future

>he is always taller, never seen where he was 5 inch shorter.
i'll let you in on a lil' secret
one of my former uni colleagues is legit 162 cm tall (5'4 basically) and he's with a 170 cm tall (5'7) girl these days. way prettier than him (he has a lazy eye and the $oijak neckbeard...)
had a chat with them a month ago or so and they're head over heels for each other. don't lose hope, man. shit happens.

>>85078702
what's the difference if they both end up without a gf for their whole life.
>genetically fucked
your mind and behaviour depends on genetics too.

>>85078758
So I wont be a mnalet (a real on no hueuee I am 5`11.5) and my fucked up eye as well as my foot wont matter if I am confident?

>>85078702
crab bucket mentality bro.
>If you are truly such an ugly freak, why don't you get rich? bitches love rich guys!
And before you start arguing with that terrible advice, yeah that's my point. Never as simple as "just have confidence" or just make money."
For mentalcels it's not about being shy, it's about not being neurotypical and having no baseline for normal human interaction.
t. mental cell over the age of 30

>>85078901
Nta but there are tiers of incel. Yeah, you are the bottom, but it doesnt mean an anon above you on the tier list isnt also an incel, you're just more fucked than the tier above.

>>85078714
That's very sweet. I'm sure he feels the same.

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>>85078943
...Thanks?
Your point being?
The argument was that there is a certain point, a cast if you want of incles that dont have a fucking chance not that there is nothing above.
And that those above should realize that they are not the bottom, but even that wont help them.

>>85079081
That if some mentalcel wants to complain, thats valid.

Autism is a huge turn off, im autistic myself but i would never date an autistic man, no matter how tall or hot he was. I dont have casual sex, but that's the only way id entertain an autistic man.

I need someone neurotypical. So yes, whilst short, unappealing men are screwed, so are autists. Its very very difficult to find a man that ticks the right boxes.

We both suffer, and no one is happy.

>>85075848
lolcows get gfs

>>85079267
Well my standarts are not high dont be (too ) fat (since I am gurtting out myselfe.
And dont be a cheating runthrough whore.
(race does play a role but thats only a concern when it comes to kids)

>>85079029
yippi

Literally the meme
>Chad friend: Bro, just go up to girls and talk to them, it works all the time for me.

>>85078659
>man, if those make you feel better then do that for your own fucking sake, not to get laid
>i want you guys to be better, to be happier, with or without someone else in your life, however i do believe you being in a good state of mind will make you more fun/nice to be around and improve your chances, hence go make friends
>whatever you do, put yourself first and make yourself happy, someone else will come along and add to it
Yes, but it won't help them find a girlfriend. Listen to me and do what we say if you want to find a girlfriend. Listen to this kind of stuff if you want to better ways to cope with being alone forever. In the end therapy and that kind of stuff will make it harder not easier to find a gf, but it might make it easier to cope with being alone. I promise solutions to their problems. You promise sedatives and shifting their goalposts for their problems. If you're optimizing for happiness, then they're both valid excuses but don't underestimate the self-esteem and happiness boost from ascension and getting people who actually love you, you can't deny this with how much you simped for your egirl. This is the problem with society in general, most offered help isn't to make people healthy and happy by helping them escape a situation where it's nearly impossible to be happy inceldom industrial society etc what is given instead are opiates, drugs therapy that is there to help people cope with the uncopable.

>>85078659
>i don't see many (if any lately) success cases of couples in this site, i only see constant crying and bait spam, demoralization and whatnot so i figured maybe that'll do some good for some people, you know?
Most people here aren't here for inspiration or even advice mostly just reality affirmation and validation. They have been lied and gaslit by society all their life with shitty advice and dismissal like just go outside or just be urself type stuff so they go here where there's no spci consequences, where talking about hypergamy isn't hatespeech beyond the reach of feminism to make sure they aren't insane.

>>85079277
true. being famous for your flaws is painful, but it opens up a path to getting relationships. if you can tolerate the pain of fame. even Chris-chan had gfs.

yeah, i went take a nap but i guess i'll keep myself from bumping this, i'll leave something for the archives

>>85079881
yeah, i get what you're saying, having people to love and who love you is a big boost to someone's life, but a lot of what i see here are people with toxic views on things, people with the wrong mindset
honestly that pushes others away more than anything, when you don't know someone's heart very well and what you see is something that'd only harm your own sanity when nearby, you'd want to stay away from that
that's why my best suggestion is to find things that'll make you and others around you happy, give yourself a chance to be happy, whether that's a silly hobby like playing games, drawing, diving into science books, etc. so long as it drags you out of a bad headspace when you do it
this gives strangers reasons to stay, and you should give them those before you should give them reasons to fuck off

so do what it takes to be happy, with or without them, do so in a way that them being around amps it up (lots of options in that regard)
that's what i mean, whether that's looksmaxxing or some other silly hobby or whatever, do it for yourself first
the others will come along if you let them

>>85079907
>to make sure they aren't insane
instead they're in an echo chamber... of insane people, it looks to me
just changing the "mainstream insane" for the "niche insane", that doesn't help much
sigh... valid point, but i think we've been overcomplicating things so much. i hate that, and it's making everyone unhappy.
fuck.

i can't say much other than "try to filter that bullshit out", which doesn't always work (working on that myself)
all i can do is hope.

thanks for talking to me today, anons
i appreciate you

>>85078480
hey :'(
>>85078572
>If you truly wanted them to succeed you would advise looks maxing and other PUA/redpill strategies.
maybe the fact that every redpill loser/looksmaxxer is unsuccessful and/or in a dysfunctional relationship is a sign that nonsense doesn't work
hmhmhmmm yes yes food for thought...

>>85078702
>who wont talk to girls
There so girls anywhere and youre not supposed to bother random women in the street
>wont hang out anywhere
We hang out, but litteraly nowhere has women even muh heckin reddit honby clubs are sausage fests

>>85077900
You do but you wont admit it

>>85080982
>maybe the fact that every redpill loser/looksmaxxer is unsuccessful and/or in a dysfunctional relationship is a sign that nonsense doesn't work
>hmhmhmmm yes yes food for thought...
"Redpill" advice is the most generic and helpful advice in general. Most people are doing whether they realize it or not when they decide to 'be themselves' aka. not be themselves and retrain their personality to be assertive.

Never thought of it like that.

>>85077270
He literally says "go out and socialize" you fucking pigskin.

>>85075862
Women will consider pretty much any physical imperfection 'cute' or 'endearing' if they already like you. They don't work like men, anon. Looks aren't nearly as important to them and if they do like a particular guy as a person they will talk themselves into liking the rest of him too.

>>85075750
His advack is worthless since "his" girl had her holes probed by other men.

>>85082617
If I could make all robots internalize one post, it would be this one. This is the truest thing ever said on this board. Female sexuality is just axiomatically different to male sexuality. They really do not care. If they are in love with you, they are in love with you, all the ifs and buts end there.

It's not really something I can convey with text. You need to see it to fully understand it. A really hot girl staying with a broke disheveled drug addict because she loves him and her love is unconditional - it's honestly quite sweet and beautiful.

Sad how young men seem to be going off in the opposite direction, putting appearance above emotional connection. Shooting up steroids and smashing their jaw with hammers...

>>85082762
Yeah because they cant be attracted to an ugly or a normal man so you have to be uberattractive
>Shooting up steroids and smashing their jaw with hammers...
I agree thats dumb. Because that wont change your genes. If youre not attractive no woman will ever want you unless you magically become famous and rich

>>85082762
>They really do not care. If they are in love with you, they are in love with you,
For them to be in love with you, you have to be attractive on the first place
Also
>because she loves him and her love is unconditional
Doesnt exist

>>85082767
>>85082773
i hope you keep trying, so you learn how wrong you are one day

>>85082782
I have no idea what youre talking about but real life isnt a movie they cant like you unconditionally. And no unattractive and non famous guy can date

>>85082797
haha okay man, best of luck in all future endeavors

>>85082762
>If they are in love with you, they are in love with you
ok but deflecting everything into love doesn't really mean anything.

what makes some men unworthy of ever being loved then? some men go their whole lives never having a woman being in love with them.

obviously there are factors that make a woman fall in love with certain men above others.

>>85075750
>I was single for quite awhile myself
That's because he's ugly as hell but wasn't famous yet. You can be a 6'5 GOAT athlete but if you have a troll face you still don't get any pussy until you're globally famous. unintentional brutal blackpill.

>>85082837
Yeah, that's a fair enough complaint honestly. Whatever "it" is, some men have it way more than others. If you're lacking "it", because you're like, autistic or something, I think it's fair to be a bit upset about that.

All I'm really asserting for certain is that physical appearance is secondary to women - there's an intangible "something" that's much more important to them. Men who think otherwise, who wrongly believe women choose men based off of their appearance, are just projecting their straight male sexuality onto women.

>>85076090
>take away his money, fame and height and he would
have an asian girlfriend instead of a latina.

>>85082913
>something" that's much more important to them.
Thats something being being a 6ft5, multimilionaire footballer which is what the op posted
>women choose men based off of their appearance
Thats litteraly the case though

>>85082934
>Thats litteraly the case though
no, no, that's not all there is to it.
you have to be rich and famous too.

>>85076259
>>I'm the only white guy in the audience. Comedian directly references me as the white guy in the audience and makes a mass shooting joke.

Lmao

>>85082934
>>85082935
hard disagree, it's absolutely a personality thing over an appearance or status thing. i've seen countless women fall for literal who broke medicore guys because they just like their personality. it's always the vaguely artsy, emotionally in tune sorts. /r9k/ doesn't get it because everyone on this board is a detatched gigautist, about as far away from the archetype i'm describing as you can get.

>>85082982
> it's absolutely a personality thing over an appearance or status thing.
Being 6ft5 and a multimilionaire celebrity isnt a personality
>i've seen countless women fall for literal who broke medicore guys because they just like their personality.
Wow me too! I have seen so many broke 4ft11 indian janitors attract so many women because they were just so heckin kind and funny.
>it's always the vaguely artsy, emotionally in tune
If hes attractive, if the guys a uggo he can do all the art he wants and he be completely unwanted

>>85083000
I've known many totally average, or even ugly guys who ended up with hot girls because the girl felt a spark, I'm sure you do too. Women aren't lying when they talk about personality and emotional connection, anon.

But whatever, you seem certain in the vanity of women, no point in arguing this further i suppose.

>>85078572
>f you truly wanted them to succeed you would advise looks maxing and other PUA/redpill strategies.
LMAO! Did you blow in from Tiktok or something?
>Brooo, just buy this course! The ladies will love you if you follow this pseudo-science techniques thag will surely make your chin look less fucked and magically no longer socially retarded

>>85082982
>the vaguely artsy, emotionally in tune sorts.
we already know women are attracted to faggots, because they provide an emotional tampon without an expectation of sex in return. those women are still fucking chad on the side either way.

>>85083065
>missing out on easy sex with hot girls because you think emotionally intimacy is gay
i dont think they're the fags, anon.

The part that's true about what he said is the "stop hunting" part. The go outside and get off phone thing is padded bullshit, he was just trying to sound more profound.

I didn't need to start going outside to date, at least not to places that were anywhere other than my job. So if by "go outside" he means "get a job", then I agree with that, but most people with common sense have a job, that isn't advice.
Girlfriends suck anyway. They are only for guys who have the idea in their head that they wanna compromise for a family because they believe family to be this sacred, utmost important, powerful thing. A lot of us didn't have families so the sacred family values thing is a literal nothingburger to us, not even in the realm of thought.

>>85083057
In my circle I don't know any ugly guys with hot girls. What do we have:
Middle rich guy 5'8" marrying hottest girl
6'5" hot Chad (but working as chauffeur) marrying former athlete 6' hit Stacy.
Chopped Chud electrician marrying middle redneck wife out of school, divorced after one kid, now single for 10 years
Hot Southern type slayer Chad who after many romantic adventures married his biker girl oneitis, divorced without kids, now he is fat and not so slayer.
Shy autist type middle professor (who looks and acts like eternal student), but he is 6', married in university 4/10 tiny shy Becky girl.
6"5' rich (but now fat) Chad marrying tiny hot girl 5 years younger.

>>85083057
Not thats 100% a larp they make those kind of excuses up when they feel the need to justify their choice.
I have litteraly never seen an non attractive guy who wasnt visibly rich wity a gf
>Women aren't lying when they talk about personality and emotional connection
Again being a 6ft5 milionaire supermodel isnt a personality trait

>>85078458
I genuinely am happy for you, anon but I'd like for you to reflect on why people like you in that situation seem to be completely comfortable giving advice in a realm that has nothing to do with them
>I got my gf in an extremely niche way where tech and autism contributed to my lightning in a bottle scenario
>ah, now I know exactly how to recreate this scenario in any average situation
>I will now proceed to give the same stock bullshit advice to other random anons even though it had absolutely no bearing on my lucky situation
What goes through your head to reach this expression of your experience? You didn't meet your gf through
>friends and cool people and being casual
You did it through the most autistic, niche interest imaginable. I truly am curious how random dumb luck strikes you and something in your head convinces you it was actually a series of well thought out actions that the universe rewarded you for. It's not just robots that do this, normies operate on this assumption 100% of the time and it breaks their reality to think the social validation they seek wasn't the result of making correct decisions and actions.
Men especially seem to think if a woman "chooses" them, it means they must be doing something right, where we can look at the decisions women make are typically self serving or impulsive at best. This is another form of putting women on a pedestal, as if they have super human ability to choose the best of the best from humanity and if you're not chosen by one, you must be a failure/piece of shit/bad person.

>>85082617
>Looks aren't nearly as important to them
LOL

>>85075750
>I was single for quite a while myself
If a literal football superstar is unable to get gf reliably, how absolutely incomprehensibly fucked is the world for everyone else?

>>85083425
Yeah this "I see ugly dudes with attractive women all the time is complete LARP," which you can ironically disprove by actually going le outside. A majority of couples I see out and about are 30+, probably more like 35+. Whenever I do see a couple in their early 20s, the guy is ALWAYS tall and they all look nearly identical in terms of facial structure, hair, etc. no matter how busted the girl looks. It feels incredibly cynical and gross and it's part of the reason I started hating women in the first place. Plus, you have to remember when they say "ugly guys" and "hot women" they're talking about totally average people of both genders but because men are le bad and women are le good, they characterize it in that way.

>>85081815
i dont but oki

>>85084205
You do. You just dont want to admit it to virtue signal.

>>85084220
u dont know me

>>85082802
you're not getting the last word, lol.

>>85082913
tell me you've never seen a chad in real life without telling me.

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>>85075750
millionaire checker ball kicker tells neet and freets such as I just be less incel bruh.

K bruh was over for me in highschool even if I'm over 6 foot(I have no rizz, or game and minimum swag which is outdated).

>>85084275
now smooch

I would agree with this being normal fag larp, but then i actually started talking to people and started being myself and life has become better desu

>>85084185
>couples I see out and about are 30+, probably more like 35+. Whenever I do see a couple in their early 20s, the guy is ALWAYS tall
According to average height half of the young men in my country should be shorter than 5"10'. But not only I don't see them as couples I don't see them in public places at all, looks like they completely withdraw themselves from going out.

>>85084348
IoI don't lower your guard faggot

>>85084185
>>85083425
Not >>85083057 , he's close to the right answer but all of you are a little off. It's not just about "personality," neither is it just about appearance.
Women are attracted to a projection of power. Because that means they have status via her partner, and that means protection. Physical appearance is an easy shorthand to look powerful (even if you aren't) which is why that is the simplest one to notice, and most prevalent in our hypergamous world. Being rich is another obvious way.
But that also explains the occasional ugly (from our perspective) guy with a more attractive woman. He is offering something intangible to us, but she feels protected, secure, and within her social circle, high status.
The big problem is that now the dating market is global, the standards have risen so much for "status" and "protection" that normal guys struggle to compete. Thus, chad and rich wins out.
Thank you for coming to my TEDtalk

>>85084396
im not who u are talking to hehehe

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>>85075750
The ladies love Shrek