Anything more than double texting is a sure sign of desperation

why would i double-text, thats gay as fuck

I match the response speed, and slow down heavily if she does.

>>85078838
If she was into you she would respond quickly, if shes slow responding and giving one answer, low energy responses its over

>>85078860
Shouldnt you do a little bit more time than her so it doesnt seem so reactive

>>85078838
Usually I'll still respond but I won't make it a priority if I'm not a priority to them. I don't mind if someone doesn't respond instantly but to take multiple days is kind of a deal breaker. Especially if I know they're not busy or responding to others. Usually I'll just unadd them in that case.

>>85078838
I do the classic "pls respond"

Works every time.

>>85078838
If she is taking too long to answer:
>1. she is also talking with other guys so you are not a priority
>2. she is mad at you for something

>>85078838
It doesn't really matter what you do.

>>85078867
Nope, I'm attempting to pavlov her into responding faster. Hasn't worked yet, but one of these days it might lol

>>85078918
Seven words full of wisdom. Needed that tonight, thank you.

i str8 up delete em. it's the right play because the worthwhile ones will add you back and try harder. with the other ones you weren't a priority anyways so nothing lost.
same with starting out sexual early on. those that react negatively would've made you jester for weeks without promise of getting any. those that really like you will make it very easy.
note that this works best when you have a large turnover. and it's a numbers game anyways so you should just buckshot the soc threads and duolicious. i get one that does anything i want every few weeks. no jestering. and harassing and fucking with the others is great fun.
obviously don't break rules 1&2

>>85078949
I basically do this. If anyone is wasting my time it'll be me. Not going to waste it with a woman who cannot respond.

I live by this "If she wants to talk to you she will find a way" you'll get excuses that she's busy or doing some bullshit. Women text like crazy doesn't matter most circumstances. If she wants to talk to you she will it only takes them a second or two to respond. So if she's taking ages to respond she's just not that into you. If she's not into you why even bother wasting the time. As the other poster said if she wants you and you remove her she will flip and try getting you back. Though I find the "try harder" aspect temporary. They generally end up falling into the same pattern shortly after.

>>85079060
Does having way more options than men really make them so spoiled that they act like bitches with texting ie texting two words or taking forever to respond?

>>85079060
that's cuz they're talking to 10 guys at any given moment and you're constantly competing. even if she's spreading her pussy saying i love you every night. doesn't matter. so if their enthusiasm fades and they start being less responsive that means another guy pulled ahead in the race.
you can't control that. but you can control your response which should be indifference and unavailability. that way you'll have a stable rotation of whores crawling back for attention. if that's what you want.
as the great prophet said: your girl is going, bro. she's going. your girl is going.

>>85078838
If you really like a girl, how many days of messaging her without any replies, could you do before giving up?

>>85079114
Don't know don't care. It's not my problem to fix solve or figure my way around it. If they start acting that way they go into the bin where they belong. Got my own problems to deal with not adding theirs to the list.

>>85079227
after 2 days you should ask if something is wrong or if she is mad about something.

>>85079256
They always lie and make up some bullshit.

>>85079272
idk this happened to me one time and i was honest about what upset me. i'm talking from a fembot perspective here.

>>85079288
Your opinion is worthless. Fish can't teach a fisherman

>>85079288
What if I ask and she still never responds

>>85079364
Then she wants to be left alone

>>85078838
I don't initiate the next conversation. That's why it always fails.

I have nothing to tell them though. I'm sorry I'm not entranced by your magnetic personality after a single short convo, it has never been my game, and I have no clue how other people do it.

>>85079378
But that hurts me

>>85079394
That's life anonito. I have been hurt too by disinterest. You will forget after some time and fall for other people.

>>85078838
usually I just wait her out (they never respond), but recently... idk man.
I've had some short but deep conversations with a girl over a week, but then she went dark. I can't exactly ask her if she's mad/what's wrong, we don't know each other that well. But I thought we really clicked. Like finishing each other's sandwiches clicked
Do I just let the silence ride?

>>85079562
>I can't exactly ask her if she's mad/what's wrong, we don't know each other that well.
Just ask her

>>85079562
Unfriend. Some other guy is talking to her now. Women are in constant need of attention and personal connection. If she's not getting it from you she's getting it from somebody else. They're always getting it from somewhere.
Unfriend and maybe she'll chase you. Never chase them. Never, ever ask if they're mad. She'll feel about you as a weak simp. Don't do it.

>>85079587
She's not gonna chase him lol. She will ALWAYS have options.

>>85079602
So he's better off keeping his dignity. I've had plenty chase me. With this same method.

>>85079602
Fr. i would just accept that he doesn't want to talk with me and never talk with him again. This method of making a girl humiliate herself for you only works with bpd women and for sure is going to come back to bite you.

>>85079619
Womanbrained advice is of no value here. If you go dark on me I'm cutting you off. First and foremost on principle of not wasting my time and maintaining my dignity. And if you actually did want me and were simply spazzing out you'll pursue me. It's happened enough that I know what I'm doing.
The less you invest in women the more you gain.
Naturally you need to be reasonably handsome for this to work

>>85079641
>Naturally you need to be reasonably handsome for this to work
Great advice to give here chadanon

i kill myself, anon. that's the only option

>>85079655
I'm staring to consider this option

>>85079652
It's better to keep your dignity than be some whore's emotional tampon and part of her 10 guy chat rotation. You're replacable to her. You'd be a fool to not feel the same about her

>>85078838
Maybe two or three times to connect back but if she still doesnt respond i'm out

>>85079673
I don't care about my dignity. I just want her to talk to me again and play video games with me.

>>85079692
Then you're fucked. No woman is genuinely attracted to that in a raw fashion. You're a diversion. An emotional tampon. A spare

>>85079602
>>85079607
>>85079619
I don't want to get too specific, but our previous conversations indicated she preferred to be very direct, both towards others and for towards herself. If she wasn't interested she would be very blunt about it (at least I was pretty sure...)

>>85079705
>>85079673
This guy thinks he's him

>>85079715
Bro. Please. Have some self-respect. If she was gonna do it she'd have done it. If she wanted to, she would.
She's talking to some other guy. They never go without attention. If she's not getting it from you she's getting it from another guy. Women are ruthless.

>>85079721
It applies to any man, you troglodytic mongoloid

>>85079729
>They never go without attention.
You dont know anything about women outside of bpd whores lol

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Men having to dance around like a jester just get get any attention back from a woman is the biggest humiliation ritual for the modern man. It becomes easier every day to see why men follow the path of incels. Relationships are fucking dead. It's so hard to build a connection with someone when they can just find someone new in an instant.

>>85079736
Not true. I've had loving, stable long term relationships with non-mental women where I lived with them. All women are like this. You are like this. Women die without attention. And you'll know when she's (emotionally) cheating, immediately. Because the signs are the same all the time everywhere. Less affection, less interest, bitchiness, more nagging, disrespect.
This isn't about sone FP shit. And the same way you're calling it bpd I could go and say all women have traits of rudimentary cluster b illnesses.

>>85079757
>You are like this. Women die without attention.
You are just attracted to whores. It's like when some women say all men are bad. Those women are attracted to evil guys and you are attracted to sluts.

>>85079761
No. Aforementioned women were virgins. Can you please engage with me and not with the 2d crap you're projecting onto me? I'd have a proper conversation with you if you'd only try. Pinky promise.

Fembots, what makes you want to stop responding to someone?

>>85080750
unless you're saying slurs in every sentence and being a dick i always respond to people, lol idk what the anons are on about

>>85078838
Some fembot didn't reply to me for a whole month once which drove me fucking nuts so I flipped the fuck out on her ass. I was really in a bad headspace at the time. Now I've "matured" and if someone does me like this I just spam the shit out of them with random bullshit messages to be annoying till they either respond or block me.

>>85080797
I'm currently being ignored for about 3 weeks.

>>85081015
How many messages have you sent?

>>85081030
Lol multiple a day until recently. I couldn't take it anymore and unadded. But she won't accept my add when I tired to add her back.

>>85081035
LOL I did the same shit. I deleted her, asked her to add me back, she explained why she never responded and actually readded me, but then STILL never talked to me again anyway until I went nuts on her a month later. It was such a confusing experience. I didn't message her every day like you have though, just a couple messages and a few emails. I wouldn't worry about it anymore if I was you, just find someone else to talk to that's what I did.

>>85081073
Why did she stop messaging you and what happened after you blew up on her the second time?

>>85081157
I deleted her twice, but I only blew up on her once. Idk why she stopped replying it was all very confusing but I'm over it. I'd rather not go into it much since she still browses here and I don't want to look like some obsessed weirdo. Oh well.

How are you guys even finding these girls and getting them to contact you off board?

>>85081452
I swear I've answered this question like 4 times in the last few days. You just talk to them on the board a bit and ask them to contact you then post your discord or a throwaway email like protonmail. It's really that easy. There are some pretty desperate girls on this board who think they're unlovable, it's not that hard. I've added a little over a handful now and non of them have been larpers. I'm not talking to anyone right now though because the whole process is exhausting and has taught me I'm happier alone.

>>85081533
It's not fair that you are contact fagging all the fembots and ruining them.

>>85081603
lol They come pre-ruined, I assure you baby-boyo.

>>85078838
I stop the moment I don't get a text back and move on. I'll even delete their number out of my phone. If its been over 2 days I consider them a total write off.
Its hilarious because I'll often get a text 1-6 months later and they get really get their panties in a twist when I ask "Who is this? I don't recognize your number" lmfaooo

>>85081883
My fav thing to do then is "Oh, Jenny huh? Well, you missed your chance" Because obviously once that has happened they consider me to be second best and I don't deserve that. They usually respond with something insane like "FUCK YOU ASSHOLE!!!" Kek another bullet dodged.

You got a good point. I notice once they go down to one word answers or if it feels like I'm having to lead and direct the whole conversation its pretty much over.

>>85078838
I don't worry about this double triple texting nonsense if I'm already with a girl. My current egf and I always double, triple, quadruple, quintuple etc. text each other without thinking anything of it because that is just a retarded shit test/power dynamic thing that only matters the first few times you talk to a girl.
If a girl has orbiters, simps, 9000 guys in her dms, or otherwise behaves sus then you should just cut her off asap before you waste your time.
Also I've never had any success with adding girls. Waste of time. I just "bee myself (TM)" on various discord servers and if a girl comes into my DMs then I give her a chance. Trying to chase after girls at all is simp behavior

>>85081926
how many days could you go with your egf not replying to you and what would you do

Gonna go against thread consensus and say I double text and chase chicks and have gotten pussy pretty easily doing it. I wouldn't take advice from grown men who are virgins.

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>>85082069
The advice in the thread kinda goes both ways. If a woman is being distant towards you and doesn't bother to show interest in you then why bother with her? At the same time, women also crave attention and love knowing who is giving her the most. I've won over multiple girls just because I kept bothering to text them even when they never responded to me. Pick and choose your battles I guess

>>85082069
I was married for 5 years and had several LTR's. Not a lot of people on the forum like me.
You lose respect doing shit like that.

>>85082091
Because some women just have no fucking personality at all, like I don't get why anons think women are entertaining or good conversationalists. You talked to the foids on here? they are all boring.

>>85082102
I mean maybe it doesn't work for every chick but I've randomly just texted chicks after they stopped replying asking if they want to hook up and had them say yes.

>>85082162
If you want a long term relationship just be good at sex

I stop responding. I just use the mirror technique, only put in the exact same effort they do.

Everybody gets one (1) free conversation starter, afterwards I expect replies and if they want to talk again, they'll have to start it off after not replying.

Helped tremendously in not giving too much of a shit and what others do doesn't bother me any longer, got plenty to do on my own.

>>85082069
>I wouldn't take advice from grown men who are virgins.
Just don't take advice from anyone and just do what feels right. My friend has literally fucked hundreds of women and all his advice completely fucked me out of relationships because we're not the same people and we interacted with different types of women who expect different things. I told some girls what my friend told me to say and they said he was a fucking idiot. Best to just do what you want however you want, virgin or not.

>>85082202
How is that virgin? If you are good in bed women keep you around. Are you saying otherwise? It's a fact of life.

lukewarm response/maybes = not interested

if a girl was attracted to you she'd be inviting you to her bedroom almost immediately. it will be obvious

and no, giving her more attention won't make her love or appreciate you more so just give up if she's a ghosty flakey cunt and spend your energy on someone who might matter

>>85082218
Look at you seethe at a simple truth. Probably why you've had so many 'LTR's like you said. Can't make them work because you're shit in bed. I don't know how anyone can sit here and pretend being good at sex is a bad thing and isn't a huge trait women desire. It's not porn brained, it's a fact. Keep denying it, won't change reality.

>>85082264
Is that all you have left to say? I accept your concession.

>>85081609
This is the right way to do it. Match the energy, which tends to be low.
You could unadd and unfriend if you prefer your dignity. Additionally, get into things you can do alone; those will always be there, so its practically the best thing you can do in this life.

>>85078863
This. Don't waste your time on low interest women. Even if you're a virgin. She's just using you for attention. I lost my virginity at 29. IT IS NEVER OVER.

NEVER GIVE UP
NEVER SURRENDER

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I've given up, anons
I don't wanna be a dog anymore

>>85082321
how was your first time? isnt it weird as fuck to tell a girl that youre a virgin? how did she respond?

>>85078838
Why do guys care if we don't get back

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>>85078838
I stop reading the moment she replies
if she's willing to give me a chance then she must clearly have some kind of severe mental illness and I am not dealing with all that

>>85082059
>how many days could you go with your egf not replying to you
indefinitely
she's more attached to me than i am to her
>and what would you do
probably assume she died or got injured and went to the hospital

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>>85078838
I messaged girls just the same way I messaged online guy friends. I usually just don't give a fuck. Clearly I want to talk, so I respond when I'm free to, which is usually pretty fast. People I talk to usually do the same unless they just ghost the conversation, after which I don't write to them. I try to cut off a conversation with a notice every time though, I'm going to go do stuff or I'm off to sleep so see you later. If someone responds really fucking slow, has nothing to say and can't be reasoned with it pisses me off and I unadd them. I don't like playing those games, nigger, you either want to talk or you don't and I'll know that.

>only communicating with women through the most vapid low effort medium that facilitates women to be as spoiled and needy as possible
Why the fuck would you do that to yourself?

>>85084668
>Why the fuck would you do that to yourself?
Its the only option

>>85079402
>You will forget after some time and fall for other people
foid lyfe

>>85084755
>>85079402
I'm never forgetting her and my mind will not stop drifting to thoughts of her. There are times when I'm having dreams of her. Meanwhile she's probably not even thought of me at all.

>>85084785
>Meanwhile she's probably not even thought of me at all.
I doubt it

>>85084855
>I doubt it
Why do you doubt that? If she thought of me then she'd probably say something to me right?

>>85078838
Neither, I don't talk to girls

>>85085130
>If she thought of me then she'd probably say something to me right?
Not that simple

>>85085277
>Not that simple
https://youtu.be/5ZpokN1PlRY

https://youtu.be/3cunKaj7ZxA

>>85078949
> the worthwhile ones will add you back and try harder
They will actually be icked out, think you are a manchild and reply out of pitty
>>85084667
That's it

You gotta be pretty brainwashed to think that if a woman doesn't reply you is because she is fucking someone else, could actually be the case , but there is an infinitude of other things she could be doing.

When I talked to girls I would usually just leave it there until she repplied, but if I wanted to add something to the conversation that come up later I would just send another message, she would reply eventually and I would reply when I also had time. Except for one or other cases where the girl was just leading me up so I actually called her out, one started putting effort, the other one tried guilttrip so I ragebaited and blocked

The best scenario is for you to be texting multiple girls, while one is taking her time to reply you message another one. Having a job woould also be good, that way you have something else to think besides pussy

>>85085588
>There are women irl
Not for me.

>>85078838
>do you keep texting and hope she starts texting quicker?
Nothing gives women the ick more than doing that

>>85085440
Lmao ok little man.
Reply? To what? You didn't understand the post at all, buddy. 95iq moment

If you actually love someone you never give up on them. Keep reaching out until you hear directly from them.

>>85085775
I can't do that because I unadded and they're mad now and won't accept my fr.

>>85085828
You dumbass you weren't supposed to add back.
Will you please be a man?

>>85085872
I can't I miss her

>>85085891
Yeah now you made it that it's not ever happening you little dummy

>>85085992
These rules are stupid why do I have to play these games where I act like I don't care. i don't want to ignore her to do some kind of pick up artist tricks to her her to like me back.

I just want to be myself and talk with her while she's herself and neither of us are playing little cat and mouse games

>>85086060
You're not cut out for biological life and competition. Better luck next Manvantara

>>85086110
You may be right apparently. It's funny that being real is what loses.

Lmao this thread is still alive. I love when my threads survive a day+

>>85085684
reply, as in replying a text message, as in as synonym to respond or answer
Wtf do you mean bro, does that means something else and I am tripping?

>>85086389
Yeah, you understood nothing lol

>>85086397
he is literally talking about responding in a text on the OP, you gotta be ragebaiting lol

>>85086412
He responded to my point about unfriending them when they show diminished enthusiasm, you mongoloid.

>>85078838
It's harder for girls to text back.

>>85078838
It is my job to create the bang eventhough the girl seems to be doing everything to not make it happen.

Meet her and stab her alot

https://youtube.com/shorts/l-1A9wES03o

I message twice as hard if you ignore me.

>>85078838
former, you'll learn that if she's interested she'll respond back. It's a method of self filtering, in a way.

>>85086060
With you on that boat. I hate these stupid games and everytime I try to connect with someone, see me being the initiator and even if they just 'forget', I get visceral disgust at the whole scenario and go back to doing my own thing. Rinse and repeat.

>>85078949
>same with starting out sexual early on.
i'm too autistic for this. like i don't even know what this means or entails