Do any anons have any stories related to bullying? Were you bullied, or were you the bully? Do you agree that bullying is generally good for society?
>>85089695I bullied a girl accidentally in 9th grade. >sitting in class >being class clown retard >poor dirty girl next to me has to go up in front of class to give report >do a cough insult and call her smelly >whole class laughs >instantly feel like real piece of shit and can her crying >teacher tears into me but i don't care can't stop watching her cry and feeling like hell >go home and message her on social media and apologize to her >she actually thanks me for saying sorry and forgives me >never bully anyone again or say mean stuff to people I just wasn't built to be mean to people, shit hurts to see people hurt and I couldn't live with it. Still think about her crying in front of the class and feel so bad and I'm 35 now.
>>85089715>Anon learns how to be niceAww
>>85089695Bullying makes no sense.It's consciously doing something that doesn't have a net positive.But I'll sure as hell gatekeep
>>85090152>It's consciously doing something that doesn't have a net positive.It's enforcing a sort of unspoken social Darwinism. It helps boost the self esteem of exceptional individuals, and humble the expectations of the unexceptional masses.It's like the whole point of the movie The Incredibles. When everyone is special, nobody is.
>>85089695We are all very disappointed that your dad bullied your mom and you ended up popping out faggot OP
>>85090165>be me>in elementary school>play around like a retard kid with others during free time>group of girls playing in the corner>while running i almost run over one of them, but stop in time>she probably got scared and fall on her knees to avoid the already averted impact>she start to cry because she got hurt>all the other girls saw it, and made up that i run into her and pushed her down (while i was saying sorry and trying to hel her up)>they shove me away, and call the teacher>i get cewed up cause nobody believed me, by they believed the littel whoresYeaaah if bullying is a darwinian shit of sort, then all the femminism and girl bosses are the natural evolution of humans>>85089715Also, good that you realized that so soon anon. In middle school i was trying my best to bully a couple of kids, just so the others wouldn't bully me instead. Felt bad tho
>>85089695I never bullied anyone because I'm a nice person. I was kinda bullied because I was the kid that other kids were scared of because of my rage fueled violent responses. The most bully guy, who was a definite picture of a chad was picking on me but also kinda treating me like a friend sometimes. He even greeted me every time he saw me way after school and asked me to repeat a joke I once made in 6th grade every time. When it was teen years I kinda bullied people who were trying to bully me. But I wasn't capable of getting back into violence. Once I went with my friend behind a guy trying to talk to his crush and called him names and insults until he flipped out and pushed me so I fell and hit my head on the ice. He got on me and was screaming something, when I came to my senses I just pushed him off and stood up. I remember even when I was fucking with him and he tried to fight me I just held him off but immediately girls run into the classroom and started telling everyone I was beating him. That guy now sells his ass on cam for a dose, lol.
>>85090206Well, where are they now and where are you?
>>85090219Dunno what thet are up to. Lost all contact after middle school with them. One i think is an engineer. The other i don't knowI am working a factory dead end job, hoping this shithole doesn't close up in the next 5 years since i have a mortgage to pay for my home
>>85089761yeah, bullying isn't fun. It just makes somebody feel bad about themselves. >>85090206>Also, good that you realized that so soon anon.It was like instant. The moment I saw how sad she was and embarrassed, fuck man, made my soul hurt. Never wanted to make someone feel that way ever again. Can still see her face.
>>85089695No, I've been so detached from everyone that nearly all kids in my school life just left me alone for most of the time. The only time something was when I was slapped by a crossed-eye fag, which I replied by hitting in the back of the head with dictionary and some peasant twat and his denisovan looking friend, which after cornering on my way of school I threaten them with a rod and they left me in peace too.I got home schooled half way through middle school and into college. I got remote classes for college so I could get away from people, now I work from home.No regrets, I've always to play alone, have no interest in people or being around anyone.
>>85090236>I am working a factory dead end jobWell, there you go.
>>85090165>Exceptional individuals needing a self-esteem boost
I bullied a boy I had a crush on in kindergarten because I didn't know how to express my emotions about it. They locked me and him in a room together to get me to apologize. I saw him crying and I apologized. They sent me to a behavioral school for a few years afterwards.
>>85090265Yeah? Exceptional people should be encouraged to be exceptional. That makes sense.
>>85090237>Never wanted to make someone feel that way ever again.Yeah i feel that. Happened the same to me after i beated the bullied kid in middle school, just so i would not be the one to be tied by his ankles and dragged around the classroom again. (Yeah that happened)>>85090258Wdym? I am working a shitty job and they are (probably) better of then me
>>85090269That was me anon, still hate you bitch
>>85090277>I am working a shitty job and they are (probably) better of then me...Yeah? I thought you were arguing against that.
>>85089695urgh.i just hate bullies, deeply so. these cunts have no idea what being bullied does to a person.i wish them all long and deeply miserable lives, locked here by sheer quantum immortality. let them suffer.fuckers.
>>85090209I do also like that episode with insulting the pos because of how it turned out. All three of us had a crush on this girl. In the end one guy is humiliated and laughed at while multiple people watch, one guy is a pushy aggressive retard who can't get a clue (me) and the third guy is my friend who acted more gentlemanly and didn't participate that much. Despite him groping several girls all the time he still had the best reputation of being a jestermaxxing chill guy. He ended up dating that girl but dropped her, got the shy nerdy girl he reconnected with after college and he's been with her for 6 years now.
>>85089695>were you the bully?Were? I still am the bully and I bully humanity as a whole, I am a very terrifying entity.
>>85090269Damn, that sucks.>>85090287So you are saying that a bunch of lying bitches falsely accusing someone is being "exeptional" and they should be rewarded? By that then you should think that every billionare fascist or retard lefty girl is the result of evolution, and they are in the right?
>>85089695On /r9k/ there are 2 kinds of bully victims:>people who were actually bullied, as in their peers actually went out of their way to fuck with them>people who were simply forced to exist in the same area as better people who didn't actually do anything beyond existing while superior to the """bullied""" faggot.Guess which type tends to be the loudest on this shitheap of a board?
>>85090320>>people who were simply forced to exist in the same area as better people who didn't actually do anything beyond existing while superior to the """bullied""" faggot.What's an example of this? This doesn't feel like a real thing.
>>85090332nta but I'd assume not being invited for events, being rejected politely, being weird around others, being a nuisance to the group and eventually being ostracized, or people simply not being interested in you or having nothing to value to add would be examples of the second group of "bullying victims." These guys never faced any adversity but feel bad about themselves for being inferior, and then come on /r9k/ to complain. I would say I'm one of those types, I only got "bullied" when I was younger, and was only given weird stares and had rumors spread about me as I grew up.
>>85090350Ooh, that actually makes a lot of sense. I faced both growing up, and I guess in my mind I always internalized them as being the same thing. I just figured if people were rejecting me politely, that was intertwined with people being deliberately cruel. It's just not the same thing, and that's something you gotta realize sooner or later.
>>85090285I know you're not him, because I saw him in 7th grade again and I made a move on him. I rubbed his thigh closely to his crotch when we were alone at his house and he was trying to impress me by showing me tricks on San Andreas, and he had an real happy grin on his face. My mom interrupted us when she knocked on his front door to tell me to come home. I never got the confidence to try again though.
>>85089695i was bullied and was a bully. bullied within my friend group, and i bullied a handful of people outside of my friend group.my view on friendships were warped because of my own friends. i think i thought people were just supposed to be assholes to each other. i stopped bullying before i graduated hs and also stopped hanging out with those friends before that.i think bullies are little shits. i wish any of the kids that i bulllied would have just hit me in the face, i was never a big dude and probably would have stopped, but they were better people than that.
>>85089695Do any anons have any stories related to bullying? I cant remember the details but I will try. I was bullied by girls a lot and the one that comes to mind is>be 9>have autism/adhd but undiagnosed >like this girl but she is always around her friends >cant help but wanting to be around her>she is really mean >takes my stuff and throws it away from me along with saying mean things>tell mom she says oh she must like you>I double down and plan to tell her I like her>I tell her at recess where she hangs with her friends>she loses it and pushes me hard into the wall and I hit my head >I fall down and touch my head and see blood>she keeps hitting me as I am in shock>next thing I know she runs off and teacher sees>mom is furious and takes me to the hospital where I need staples>we move pretty soon after>Were you bullied, or were you the bully?I am the only boy and baby of a family of five girls. You tell me. They all treated me terribly but some kept at it when others slowly stopped. My family was my first bullies and it didnt help I went to school with them and I got bullied more. >Do you agree that bullying is generally good for society?It can be for some and detrimental for others. Idk it really depends.
i was bullied in 8th grade and tried to "roll with the punches" and make myself likeable and passive and it just made it worse. in 9th grade at a new school i decided i needed a new strategy and the first time someone gave me shit i summoned all my courage and the most threatening voice my geek self could and said "shut the fuck up or i'll kick your ass" and somehow this toothless cringe threat worked and i was never bullied or messed with again. tv and dad lore worked still had a shit time in hs tho
>>85089695i was beaten the shit out of in grade school. no dont really support it, just really hurts self confidence and gives you a bunch of garbage you need to deal with when you get older. makes the school enviorment also just like permanently traumatic.
>>85090310>So you are saying that a bunch of lying bitches falsely accusing someone is being "exeptional" and they should be rewarded? By that then you should think that every billionare fascist or retard lefty girl is the result of evolution, and they are in the right?Well no, anon. You don't understand. Those were girls. They have a womb now, so it's fundamentally different and you should feel guilt and shame abd justice for you getting what you deserve with the factory job you got while they got the good job.See! Now do you get why!? They're women anon. You should have learned your lesson by now, but you didn't so you're in a factory. You need to have done the thing you didn't do depending on what you're being accused of. You should have just been guilty in this sentence, but that makes you guilty, so it's just at a wonan's discression. You just gotta listen okay?
>>85090165absolutely retarded take, this is why they call you goyim
>>85091033So you are saying that i should have doubled down and acutally hurt them? What good would have done to me other then get into more truoubles?
>>85089695I was bullied and I think bullies should be executed for the public good. The myth that they do good for society is a lie made up by bullies. Everyone secretly hates them and they always pick on the weak or outsiders who do no harm while letting actual harmful people, often themselves, go free. I'll never forget when one of the local bullies go sick and wasn't in class for a month and everyone calmed down, made friends and actually acted like kids having fun and our teacher was so happy. Then he came back and it was like being sent to the trenches of WW1 again. Horrible people who are either psychopaths or have trouble at home and make it everybody else's problem. If your society needs bullies to fix it then it is already rotten to the core and should be destroyed.
>Was fat anime nerd>Lived in a semi ghetto Latino area>Really it was a large amount of bullies cause it's just Latino culture to tear into ppl. >My parents wouldn't bully me but they'd roast me lmfao>Neighborhood bully bullies me for most of middle school, girls would call me ugly and fat within earshot and laugh>Girls would bait me with attention just to see me get flustered>This one dude was a really antagonistic piece of shit who'd frequently try to get me to fight him and would run up to me and flip and dip my man tits>Despite all of this, I just kept being me, which only made them bully me even more>Fast forward highschool, I became chad lite after I started doing sports and grew into my body and appearance. No longer bullied, now just frequently told I was a "cool nerd">8th grade bully dropped out started gang banging got into a life altering car accident>Neighborhood bully developed literal fucking brain cancerHonestly, for leukemia guy, I felt indifferent, but kind bad, but mostly indifferent, cause it was tough to see everyone acting like he was a saint when he made my life hell for a good 3 years. He never apologized, is in a better place now, and we just let bygones be bygones. Bullying never really had the effect that OP describes on me, because the only person that can really bully me into changing, is myself, which is a whole different arc.
>>85089695don't really blame the other kids, but the teachers who ignored and sometimes enabled my suffering over years while my mental health was clearly deteriorating have no excuses.
>>85090350that's a fucking evil way to think about children. you're talking about first graders here, you really believe some kids are just so inferior noone should want anything to do with them, and being ostracized is just something they should accept as natural without being dramatic about it? you think only the "better people" deserve to have a small friend group and activities they are invited to?the second usually leads to the first. once you're the weird outsider, people don't want to associate with you.then it becomes normal to make fun of the weird kid to show you're not like them, and slowly spirals into a game of making the weird kid do something weird again.you're probably just coping about your own issues by telling yourself that you're valuable so it could never happen to you.
>>85089695in elementary school there were two kids hitting me almost everyday, the teachers weren't doing anything, and the one time i fought back and beat the living shit out of the both of them, i was the one that got put into detention for months on end. safe to say after that i realized justice isn't real.
>>85089695I kinda turned a seemingly nice girl into a bully. We were friends for years, I developed a crush on her but thought she was so much better than me so never tried anything. In 6th grade, we had our first school dance, she asked a boy out to it and got rejected, and was pretty upset about it. I tried to comfort her, told her how amazing she was, etc., got too into it and she was like "dude it sounds like YOU like me". I apologized profusely, made it clear that yes I liked her but I had zero expectations of anything happening, really appreciated our friendship, was happy she was looking for someone and wished her the best in finding someone... she got really excited, told me to stfu because she only asked the other guy out because I didn't ask her out, and she always had a crush on me tooBut she was better than me, I didn't want to be anything more than friends. She thought that was stupid and spent a couple months trying to boost my confidence and convince me I was good enough for her but my mind was set and I never had any desire to be confident anyway. She got more and more frustrated, and eventually she snapped. She was never mean to anyone before, but suddenly started being really cruel to me and saying all sorts of awful shit about me, calling me a weak pathetic loser, talking shit about me to other people. And she started picking on other kids too, the unpopular, nonconformist, losers, and such, anyone she saw as weak or insufficiently brave. By refusing to embrace confidence, I triggered her into basically adopting an entire different worldview and turned her into a bully
>>85089695>Be me, UK anon.>I start primary school, I make friends, it's good for a few years.>end up getting diagnosed with dyslexia, I get sent to a specialist school that has a dyslexic unit in it.>My parents never tell me they're sending me to a different primary school, I just wake up one day and I start going there, lose all my friends, struggle to make new ones at this new school.>After a few years of making only one friend and struggling with the occasional bully, I start secondary school.>As the months pass at this secondary school, the bullying that I face becomes more and more frequent to the point where it's almost every day.>Whenever I tell a teacher that I'm getting bullied, I either get one of two responses, either that I'm lying because that student would never bully anyone, or that it's my fault because I started it.>I get no escape from the bullying, either when at home, my two older brothers are constantly bullying me, stealing money from me, and stealing my PlayStation 2 and PlayStation 3 games from me. And occasionally, once a week to maybe once a fortnight, I have to listen to my mum being beaten by my dad. I feel very isolated and my mental health declines severely.
>>85092033>Back at secondary school, by the time I get to year 8, the bullying has gotten so bad that I've normally got at least one or two bruises on me from being punched or pushed around.>One day, at school, one of my bullies run up behind me at the end of the day and pulls a knife on me as a joke. His friends laugh at me, and they just walk away.>I don't bother telling anyone because, well, in my mind, no one would believe me because of all the past experiences that I've had.>So I decide that I'm just going to stop going to school. I can't not go to school in the morning because it would cause trouble at home and I don't want to get in trouble. But no one can force me to stay in school, so whenever I would get bullied, I would just immediately walk home.>When I first started doing this, the teachers used to try to stop me, but eventually they just gave up and would just let me leave.>After a few months of this, I just stopped going to school entirely. My parents give up on me.>Eventually, I start to develop serious agoraphobia and just stop going outside altogether. Agoraphobia has lasted up into my 30s, where now I'm 33 and I'm sometimes able to go outside but still struggle with it.
>>85089695I got bullied for having good grades but the teachers hated me for some reasons despite never acting out so they ignored it and told me I was making it up, this event caused me to neglect my studies for the rest of my educational career.I'd brush my old elementary school teacher's teeth with concrete for setting me up to fail, all that fat bitch had to do was put in the smallest amount of effort and DO THE FUCKING JOB SHE SIGNED UP FOR.
