Being a messy girl is honestly way fucking worse than being a messy guy.Like I've known for a bit that Ive been passing more and more in public as a girl but the haircut I got recently kinda threw me over that edge.And now suddenly everyone I can tell is judging me for WAY more shit, like I can tell that people stare at things like how long and unkempt my nails are, judge my body language more, are offput by when Im loud WAY more, and shit like today when I went to the store without a bra and everyone fucking stared at me, when like, just a month ago if I went without one they wouldnt. All my friends and coworkers have started talking over me and ordering me around more, and so on.Guys who are messy get it on easy mode, and guys get to be loud and take up space. Its not fucking fair. This is stupid, and you people think its fucking easier because I occasionally get a door held for me, or could get sex tommorow with some loser that doesnt wash his cock.
>>85091107No they don't, you were probably a tall and attractive guy who fucked up his body and brain with neurotoxins and hormones. You basically nerfed yourself and are now complaining about it. If I went out in public and was messy I would get weird stares, be avoided and people would try not to engage with me. Oh wait a minute they already do. Fuck off.
>>85091121No I was a really ratty and gross guy. I kinda have a weird story. Ive trooned for 5 years, at first I passed, then I got anorexia and lost that, and I recently gained it back after a hell of a fight to get the weight back on and keep it.So Im pretty familiar with both roles and can say pretty definitively that its coming specifically from the change in perception.Im not even the type to come out or say anything.Idk its funny to me, at my work wearing my small chunky boot heels as a guy is fine, but getting a haircut is enough to get people(coworkers) to start being a dick to me.Idk people are weird.
wow you sound insufferable
>>85091107They look at you because they see a man in a wig. Not cause they judge women lmfao.
>>85091290I dont wear wigs? Or womens clothes for the most part. I usually dress like a low fem gay guy.Pants, sweaters etc. I keep my hair fairly short too. Doesnt even reach my shoulders, and when I do wear something explicitly girl I dont show a single inch of skin and usually have multiple layers of wool on
>>85091107boo hoo people look at me weird :(((( boo hoo people talk over me and i cant tell them to stop :(((( weeoo weeoo weee people are dehumanizing me because my finger nails are slightly too long wahhh wahhhh :((((((
>>85091107>just a month ago if I went without one they wouldnt.why month ago?
>>85091345bcuz thats when my facial fat started noticably coming back and I made my first mental note of oh I passed to a couple people for the first time in like a year I gotta get my act together and cant act like a slob anymore,My body is only worth taking care of if it passes desu,
