self improvement is a meme. horrible criminals not only get laid more than nerds, they get laid more than the average guy. if you have the "goal" of getting pussy, it's already over. all you need to do is not be socially awkward and not be deformed
>>85091769I think it deformed man can get pussy as well if he is not socially awkward and has a rizzing personality yes most men do not get approached but that does not mean most men cannot get pussy if they approach
What I hate is how people will act like I'm broadly making no effort in life and am some fucking loser who has zero ambitions, just because I make no effort specifically in regards to the shallow stuff that makes men more attractive for dating. I have various things I slowly and steadily work towards in life, for my own sake, but those are not things that make me more attractive to women, so they act like I'm not self improving at all and am a stagnant pathetic loser with no goals
>>85091788>mean most men cannot get pussy if they approachNo they cannot.Also noone cares about your personality or your wicked sense of humor if you're ugly
>>85091769>criminals get gf so its okay for me to jerk off eat goyslop constantly and never aspire to anything ever'The raped' as the kids say
>>85091807No autism is the major factor in holding you back when you can't properly socialize or communicate with 99% of the population yeah you do need to look like a supermodel to get by I will admit but if you're like an alien everywhere of course woman won't want to have sex with that of course they wouldn't want those autism genes why would they subject their kid to what you suffer from and other men who have autism
>>85091814>>85091803 what most people call self improvement is just working on your image for dating. not like i care if some guy LDARs but most people i know still have ambitions even if they don't put all their effort into chasing women
>>85091769>self improvement is a memedon't care, still gonna do it
>>85091825>what most people call self improvement is just working on your image for dating.I'm not saying this to be mean but you think everything is a vector for pussy because you personally can't imaging doing anything for it's own sake. Normal people do not think this way, they are not tabulating what women think about XYZ or if it might get them laid.
>self-improvement is done for others>not for yourSELFSelf-improvement done to appeal to others is equally as good as behaving in a good way to appeal to others. It's merely performative.
>>85091825Talking around my point. /r9k/ is overrun with with anons who use 'harsh truths' and le epic blackpill to vindicate generally poor life choices and meme-inflicted retardation on their part.
>>85091855i am specifically saying that when people say self-improvement they most likely mean "stuff that will get you laid" and this is at most an exaggeration. the average normalfaggot 100% has getting laid/women as a motivation for getting fit or getting cash. if you think some people don't, i imagine they exist, but just because they do doesn't change the average.>>85091871yes i'm talking around your point because it's not really relevant in the first place. people really do do that but that's not what i care about.
