Femcels don't exist because none of them would ever date incels like me, "femcels" have options and just refuse to take them. The fact that no femcels ever ask me out means they don't exist.

>>85093074
I didn't ask you faggot, preaching to the choir over here.

>>85093062
I don't use any social media but i know i have to change that because otherwise no one knows or cares about you.

>>85093062
I live rural and don't use social platforms

>>85093087
Do you use /soc/ or other boards or sites? Or any messaging platforms? Or are you just a lurker? Can you answer the other two questions as well?

>>85093098
Do you have any form of socialization at all? Do you try to make friends or meet people? If so, how?

I'm from a third world country, so I don't want to get raped by a guy from fucking venezuela

>>85093121
Nah not really, I mostly keep to myself on my farm here. It's mostly all boomers around me anyway

>>85093106
>Do you use /soc/ or other boards or sites?
Yeah but i don't have a profile on most of them. I mostly just post here and watch youtube videos. I've been thinking about creating an instagram since everyone seems to have one but i'm also insecure about putting myself out there.
>Or any messaging platforms?
Yeah but mostly because of work.
>Or are you just a lurker?
Not a lurker

>>85093062
>To the "femcels" of the board:
>What social platforms do you use? Do you genuinely expect a man to cold approach you and ask you on a date in 2026?
They are so desirable a man will break into the house and have their way with her, then kidnap her and take her to his mansion

>>85093138
Not sure how that answers the OP questions, can you elaborate?

>>85093176
A lot of women have gone missing since the begining of this year. I don't feel safe posting about me or aproaching men on the street...

>>85093062
not really a female, but a girl on this boar.d
>What social platforms do you use?
ocassionally scroll tik tok, mostly X iif at all, but only really post on here, cause its anonymous
> Do you genuinely expect a man to cold approach you and ask you on a date in 2026?
not necessarily cold approach as in, i have no clue who that guy is and he comes up to me randomly at a supermarket, but asking for a date if we already know each other in person, sure.
> Why don't you guys ever approach men you like?
because there is a chance they will only say yes out of convenience, because they want a girl and i just happened to ask, but they dont actually fw that much. if they approach first, they already had to go out of their way toapproach me specifically, which makes it more likely that they are actually interested in me and like me

>>85093223
*femcel
mistyped

>>85093223
>I know this isn't about me but is this about meeeeee? :)
That's at least one part of being female you got down.

>>85093223
>because there is a chance they will only say yes out of convenience, because they want a girl and i just happened to ask, but they dont actually fw that much.
This is so true. It actually happened to an anon i met from there. He'd say he was a loner but he'd ignore me because he just wasn't into me at all. He only wanted a girl to talk to while he was at work. I'll never put myself in that situation again.

>>85093247
lol finally you got to experience the lonely disposable orbiter situation

>>85093206
Fair. How do you think a man should approach a woman he's interested in without creeping her out? Or how would you vet a man?
>>85093223
>because there is a chance they will only say yes out of convenience, because they want a girl and i just happened to ask, but they dont actually fw that much
Women don't do the same thing?

>>85093259
And why is this supposed to be a good thing? I was genuine with him and truly liked him and i wasn't talking to any other guy.

>>85093271
gives you some perspective what it's like to be one of the guys that your vision doesn't register whatsoever

>>85093247
Typical female mindset - experience one bad thing with the non typical sort of guy and never go for that sort or do anything non typical again.

If females won't ask men out, and keep doing it even if it doesn't always work out, then y'all just don't really care about equality and people should just tell y'all to stfu whenever you complain about your own issues

>>85093281
>your vision doesn't register
I wasn't talking to any other guys. I'm not a bpdemon or a discord kitten. I feel like we could have been something if he had just tried a bit more.

>>85093265
yeah but it's fine when women do it because uuuuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh patriarchy or something

>>85093240
you people always get pissed when we call ourselves femcels, because you dont think they exist, then when we clarify thats probably not totally the right term, you also get upset? make up your mind
>>85093247
i knew i wasnt just paranoid !!
>>85093265
> Women don't do the same thing?
not really. girls are much more likely to just say no when we are not interested. so when we say yes, chances are high we really do like you, or we would decline. men will often say yes because they have no other options, and you just easily presented yourself. it doesnt mean they like u

>>85093302
>it doesnt mean they like u
And they'll treat you badly for not being into you too lol like it's your fault somehow.

>>85093302
>so when we say yes, chances are high we really do like you, or we would decline.
I'm gonna be honest with you nona this is a lie. Not saying men can't be slippery bht pretending as if women don't lead men on is disingenuous af

>>85093302
>not really. girls are much more likely to just say no when we are not interested. so when we say yes, chances are high we really do like you, or we would decline. men will often say yes because they have no other options, and you just easily presented yourself. it doesnt mean they like u
What kind of parallel bizarro opposite world do you come from?

>>85093317
I'm a fembot, and i completely agree with her. It happened to me with a guy from there too so you can't just say he was some abusive chad.

>>85093315
i mean they probably will not date you if they are not into you. sure, i bet theres some women with like rosters in their phone or whatever, but they dont date these guys, they just entertain them. a man who doesnt like you but doesnt have options will fuck you, date you, marry you, have kids with you, and still hate you for some reason. this happens all the time. thats why, if you make it too easy, you are very likely to end up with a guy who doenst like you as much as you like him, you were just convenient
>>85093313
u said it best !!

>>85093334
Of course you completely agree with her, you're a woman so reality is too mindbreaking for you as well.

>>85093334
You could always ask incels like me out and you wouldn't have that problem. But you can have one bad non Chad experience and let that be justification for only going for chads. Which is bullshit.

>>85093346
>make a thread asking fembots for their opinions
>get opinions and experiences from said fembots
>don't believe them
So why make this thread?

>>85093363
I didn't make this thread though. I'm just here to be an asshole.

>>85093374
>I'm just here to be an asshole.
Well good job

Do you autists ever get tired of the same thread being post 10 times a day

>>85093335
>thats why, if you make it too easy, you are very likely to end up with a guy who doenst like you as much as you like him, you were just convenient
Why do many women allow themselves to be with a man who doesn't like them? I understand your reasoning for not approaching men but I don't think its fair when it's your own personal lack of judgement choosing bad men (a man who doesn't like you could still approach you).

>>85093383
Are you scowling like that movie girl people seem to be currently obsessed with?

>>85093387
>makes a post about something I genuinely like
>zero (You)s
>makes a post complaining about dating or gender relations
>hits bump limit
And you replying doesn't help. Be the change you want to see

>>85093395
>(a man who doesn't like you could still approach you).
Less likely. He could just go for a girl he actually likes instead.

>>85093414
Disagree, abusechads will fuck many foids and steal them from loser men to inflate their ego. And many bird women fall for it too, explain why men like andrew tate and clav have dozens of callgirls

>>85093062
>>85093223
>because there is a chance they will only say yes out of convenience, because they want a girl and i just happened to ask, but they dont actually fw that much.
This is true, men are not able to say no to a woman and take whatever they can get. Additionally men are less likely to leave relationships so they just start realising they don't actually like you as much and wait for you to leave them.

>What social platforms do you use?
Doesn't matter

>Do you genuinely expect a man to cold approach you and ask you on a date in 2026?
No. Do not approach me.

>Why don't you guys ever approach men you like?
If I see an attractive man outside, chances are high he is either
-emotionally immature
-boring
-A NORMIE
-low IQ

I'd approach guys in third spaces like gaming events, hackathons, metal festivals but only IF they're part of my extended friend group, meaning someone I know is friends with them.
This way I can ensure he isn't a weirdo and has some shared interests.
But even after all of this, there is still a chance to run into the first mentioned problem: men will get with you out of convenience.

>>85093395
> Why do many women allow themselves to be with a man who doesn't like them?
idk. i dont. but i know many people who do. i guess a lot of the times they either dont realize it till much later, like those moms in loveless marriages who dont divorce their alcoholic husband for the kids or something. or maybe admitting that their bf hates them would lead to total ego death. not sure, but it happens all the time, and i dont want it happening to me, ever.
> choosing bad men
again, they usually dont seem bad at first. if they do, idk. many people are bad at judging characters
> a man who doesnt like you could still approach you
absolutely, and they do all the time. its just that if they go out of their way to approach specifically you, chances are marginally higher they at the very least think you are somewhat interesting or attractive, than if you approach them and they gave you zero hints prior. men will say yes to women they think are totally unattractive, if given the option. but they usually wont go out of their way to approach them, unless its like that sick practice gf shit, which is a whole other thing i dont wanna get into. you just never really know with people. that goes for both genders tho

>>85093445
yeah you definitely sound like you should be alone lol

>>85093445
>But even after all of this, there is still a chance to run into the first mentioned problem: men will get with you out of convenience.
Is ths actually a bad thing? Like being real. I'm not convinced this is bad at all. Like if a half decent woman showed some interest in me, is it bad for me to date her even though I personally don't consider her a 10? I feel like this is a dounle standard imposed on men. Want a Stacy? Misogynist. Would settle for a butterface? You don't actually love her enough. Miss me with that gaslighting bullshit

>>85093062
They want Chad and only Chad

/thread

>>85093457
>yeah you definitely sound like you should be alone lol
Ah no, I'm actually happy with a man I met off this board.
But otherwise, yes. Being alone is better than bring in a fuckass situationship with a moid that's only keeping you around because he cannot find better.

>>85093471
Giving someone a chance is not wrong. The issue is when you have decided this isn't for you but stay anyway because you'd rather make someone believe you love them than be alone.
The issue is not you finding love in a "butterfaced" girl, it is you staying even though you do not love her.

You guys would rather eat shit and lie to its face than eat nothing.

>>85093471
>Like if a half decent woman showed some interest in me, is it bad for me to date her even though I personally don't consider her a 10?
Yeah because you're not actually going to be interested in her and you'll end up treating her badly because of it. You're also just wasting her time.

>>85093529
>The issue is when you have decided this isn't for you but stay anyway because you'd rather make someone believe you love them than be alone.
Fair criticism I'll actually consider. Also only based nona in the thread for actually trying to approach dudes.
>>85093534
Bullshit. What if I still actually like that girl? Should I just chase the stacy who clearly doesn't want me? I think its unfair to a girl that isn't my oneitis to reject her because she's not my ideal partner.
>you'll end up treating her badly because of it
Assumptions because of insecurity and past trauma.

>>85093563
>What if I still actually like that girl?
So you actually like her and aren't just stringing her along lol.
>What it totally different situation

>>85093563
its not purely about looks. its about whether you like her or not. if you dont think shes a supermodel thats fine. most women arent. but if you also dont like her personality and still stay with her because you think shes the easiest available option (which men do all the time) then that is awful for both her and you. and yes, many men do end up eventually resenting the woman for that, and treating her worse

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>>85093603
I can partially understand this because I was almost in this situation as a man. Talked to a cute girl, completely rotted my brain trying to court her. Had to let her go once I realized she was not the one. Putting effort into relationships that don't work is so draining, I just couldn't pretend to care about her anymore unless it was about sex. How do men unironically cope with this? I wouldn't know... I guess a part of us lie to women because we still desire feminine companionship, but being completely honest I genuinely don't feel women put in as much effort and try hard as men when it comes to the opposite sex which is why a part of these relations fall apart. Which is why we can be possessive over female relationships we don't even particularly like because it's all we have and known. Not a justification but hopefully can explain from our POV

>>85093660
> I genuinely don't feel women put in as much effort and try hard as men when it comes to the opposite sex
How out of touch do you have to be to actually think that? Men only have to make the first move. After that, it feels like everything else falls on the woman.

>>85093689
Ah yes, making the first move in 2026 when most nonas said to not cold call them and most women say not to cold call them. Without understanding that gender politics have completely changed. "Making the first move" does not work for men nowadays. Or at the very least the vast majorty of men here

>>85093689
>After that, it feels like everything else falls on the woman.
What, to be interesting?

>>85093726
making the relationship work? pregnancy, or being the one responsible for not getting pregnant? dealing with him? planning dates, or else he'll just stay at your house? meeting his family? planning romantic things? dealing with his mess? trying to keep him from cheating? trying to deal with his porn addiction? dealing with him when he's stressed after work? having sex when you don't feel like it because his sex drive is different? waxing? staying pretty and fit for him?

>>85093660
the thing is, i dont even think men do this out of malicious intend at all. i think a lot of them just geniuenly believe having any girl at all, even one they barely like, is better than being all alone. its pretty sad when you think of it like that, and how men are pretty much led to believe that being alone is the worst that could happen to them.
that said, it sucks just as much (if not more) to be on the other end of this, and slowly having to realize that the person you are with is only really putting up with you because its practical and easy. that hurts like a bitch, so yeah, obviously you will try everything to make sure that doesnt happen to you

>>85093062
i dont think men like it when you approach you seem desperate

>>85093762
I mean in terms of casual dating. Marriage and caring for a family is equal parts responsibility.
>>85093788
Honestly society have failed in socializing both men and women to deal with modern gender relations. The modern understanding and expectations gender relations and roles is very different from the actual reality. Sorry if I was a bitter chud, it's easy to be bitter on this site, but ultimately both men and women are lacking in meaningful opposite sex relations. The same shit that is affecting me is affecting you

>>85093819
> Honestly society have failed in socializing both men and women to deal with modern gender relations
agreed. i think the problem is that women and women are being conditioned to want things that fundamentally contradict each other, which is screwing all of us.
assigning blame to one gender is pointless when the system is the problem. dating market currently sucks ass for both sides. but oh well, idk how to fix it either and i doubt 4chan of all places will come up with solutions lmao

>>85094035
I know a solution that would definitely work and improve the lives of virtually everyone but I don't want to get banned again for being le 'anti-semitic'.

>>85093138
what countries would be acceptable to get raped from

>>85093813
The hypermasculine chads that you females want to get with don't like it when women approach, and look down on desperation. There's plenty of incels who would love it if females asked us out, and would like it if women were more "desperate" rather than cold and aloof. It actually feels nice to be desired. But women want men to perform gender roles, and men who want to be desired in that way aren't performing our gender roles.

>>85094089
It's a lot worse than that though. Women want men to perform gender roles while completely and utterly eschewing their own because those are like totally oppressive and patriarchal or something. So men are expected to perform to the whims of the gender that feels like they can just do whatever they want at any moment anything else is a fascist misogyny or whatever bullshit buzzword excuse they can dream up.

>>85093062
>Do you genuinely expect a man to cold approach you and ask you on a date in 2026?
I don't want to be cold approached
>Why don't you guys ever approach men you like?
I don't like random men either why would I do that

>>85094111
Yeah it's terrible
I just genuinely care about equality and liberation from gender roles, don't care if that's cringe or corny or evil or whatever. I just wish things could equally go both ways with this stuff

>>85094151
Yeah I'm also extremely weary of the judeo-corporate subversion that plagues our society.

>>85093062
femcels dont exist just girls that fantasize about being a larpychan copy and obsessed over by actual incels

as a girl on the board I will answer from my perspective
discord mostly, twitter, most of my friends use Instagram though I dont, Snapchat is for whores or people with normal friends, I use forums a lot but mostly eating disorder ones, tiktok occasionally to send stuff about games i play with the discord friends

I actually really hate being cold approached, I think its different if youre talking about a shared activity but if im just walking down the street do not talk to me

I have approached guys I like, and it usually works out well, but since its easier to get a boyfriend as a girl its like a 6 month commitment unless you want to be a roster whore. I stopped bothering when I realized most of the guys I liked irl were too normal for me to feel like I could talk about the weird shit I like, and they always expect sex from me which feels stupid, I dont want to have sex with you if I cant see myself marrying you. I don't think thats crazy to say, if you want sex that bad just have sex with someone else I really dont care.

Im currently dating someone who I do want to marry, together for 3 ish years, known eachother for 4, hes into a lot of the stuff I like so it was just being lucky fetish wise. One of our mutual friends on discord said he thought we would be a good couple so thats how we met, I dont think its realistic to expect that to happen to everyone but thats what happened with me and him and we're moving in together later this year

>>85094505
I didnt even realize I said this much do not get on me for being a paragraph poster Im doing my best

>>85093762
Most of these sound like they would apply to both sides of a relationship. If they didn't in your relationship(s), it sounds like it's an issue with your partner(s) specifically, rather than universal to all men.

>>85093813
And? Do normie men actually consider desperation to be unattractive? It does seem like normies talk about desperation negatively sometimes but that seems hard to believe.

>>85093247
I'm genuinely sorry for what it's worth. I did like you, I just don't get close to people quickly. I have been burned before. Would you have been happier if I just spammed you with dick pics after a couple messages?
>He only wanted a girl to talk to while he was at work
Maybe you're right about one thing: I really don't have the bandwidth for anything but work, it's all I do, even at home, and I'm not likely to break out of that. I hope I haven't turned you against all men though.

they probably don't use social media because they are a retard with no friends

>>85093335
They wont date longterm but they will use you for free dinners and stay on their phone the whole time to block you out