Do incels really get approached by women?
>>85097165I had a group of women laugh at me tripping over. Beyond that no women literally never talk to me
>>85097165i do not know if i ever talked to a woman about anything outside an npc script.
>>85097165>Hey, nice jacket.this scenario has never happened, not once in the history of human civilization
>>85097165>posting pictures you found from twitterkys faggot
No, of course not. If a woman has ever approached you or expressed any desire of you, then you can't be an incel by definition.
>>85097165no never, getting approached by anyone is hard if you're not an impulsive retard. one step at a time though. i have hope itll get better if i keep being upfront and putting myself out there.
>>85097205>WE MUST GATEKEEP BEING A LOSER VIRGIN!
>>85097165>girl is shorter than himThis scenario has never happened to me.
>>85097205This but unironically.By definition if you're attractive enough that women approach and talk to you, you can't be an incel.
>>85097210You do realize that you can't be a loser and won't be a virgin for much longer if women show interest in you, right? At best you are a volcel who avoids women or doesn't know the meta. Just an hour ago an anon posted about getting 4,000 matches in a dating app after browsing this board for years. No one's gatekeeping, we're just letting volcels know they don't need to pretend to suffer with us.
the cashier from the grocery store I always go to told me I have a cute smile and i just stared at her, why can't I be normal?
>>85097210Yeah, of course. You need to gatekeep terms like these when you have people who falsely self-identify with said terms. Most self-identified "incels" have never ever gotten rejected by a woman. >>85097220I am being unironic. The only counter would also apply to "femcels", i.e. some sort of a brain disease like severe dementia that makes communication almost impossible.
>>85097226why am I a friendless loser and virgin at 27 if that is true?
>>85097165Ive never approached a guy in my life not even the goodlooking guys. They always approach me anyway
>>85097247If you somehow have no friends and are a virgin when women approach you or express desire in you, then you are doing something horribly wrong and that's on you. You could reciprocate their desire and easily have a blossoming relationship or friendship, you are attractive enough to be free from inceldom. Volcel at best.If you aren't someone who gets approach by women, don't make posts claiming people are being gatekept when we point out:>If a woman has ever approached you or expressed any desire of you, then you can't be an incel by definition.
>>85097204no, i will continue to get easy (You)s
>>85097299I don't think I'm doing anything terribly wrong like I go along well enough with my coworkers and I don't have much problems interacting with them. But still I can't build real relationships and be comfortable getting close with people
Its so tiresome listening to normalfaggots projecting their own lives and bullshit onto us while vehemently denying our reality and lived experiences. This is the essence of where all this shitty 'just get urself out there and bee urself and love will find you!!!' advice comes from. Though calling it advice is a stretch. It is an accusation dressed as advice.
They do, but only by Stacies.
>>85097165Short answer; no.Long answer to get around the /r9k/ bot; no.
>>85097210Do you know what incel means>>85097165I have had women say I have nice shoes but thats it
>>85097165Last weekend I went to the mall, and the only woman who talked to me thought I worked in one of the storesI had like $5000 worth of drip on me and she thought I was working in a sporting goods store. Im 6ft tall and not ugly, so I dont know why Im invisible to women
>>85097205One from here did, but I was too dense to act on it. I'm always wary of rushing into things because I've been burned before, so I want to do the opposite and don't invest much time or effort until I'm sure beyond any doubt I see a future with someone, but that in turn prevents me from getting that far, because no one wants to waste time. >>85097500>Do you know what incel meansIf it's due to legitimate poor social skills why shouldn't it count? That's most people here to be desu.
>>85097520The minimum is 6'2" now, welcome to the invisibility club.
>>85097210Bro those are literal GCHQ bots meant to divide the incel community, stop wasting your time valuing this illogical noise.
>>85097537I'm not a bot for the bongs retard. You are well-accepted in the incel community, but at least make it clear you are a volcel instead of lying about being able to relate with us, it's only hurting us more. We get on the internet as a form of escapism and you are FUCKING IT UP. Why don't you have empathy?
>>85097520i kicked a women i dont now in public yesterday and im not proud of it, feel quite bad. 100% tru story. legit. no lie.
>>85097526>If it's due to legitimate poor social skills why shouldn't it count? That's most people here to be desu.Then its not involuntary because you can develop social skillsYou can't change your face or genetic
>>85097165an old lady behind me complimented the appearance of the strawberries I was buying as I was checking out the other day. She must have secretly wanted to have sex with me!
>>85097165>ugly man gets approached by a womanDoesnt happen>>85097205>>85097220>>85097226>>85097233>>85097299Trvkes
the only times I get approached is by some south east asian woman who looks and sounds like a troon. or some woman asking me for spare change.
>>85097165>le women actually chase men. they're normal people like you!Can you fucking not
>>85097337and then what? what will you do with your (You)s?
>>85097165Never had a girl come up and compliment my clothing, not sure where the author gets that idea from. Usually, when unknown woman approach me for conversation it's because they need my help with something.
>>85097165I had tons of girls throw themselves at me in highschool but not much after that
>>85098261this is a cross-gender problem. both sides are social media/internet addicted and poorly socialized.
>>85098340i haven't got that far yet
>>85097165I actually get approached pretty regularly but I've been burned by women so much I show no interest and push them away. "A real man pays no attention to women" is what I tell myself.Volcel for life I suppose
>>85097165>This doesn't happen in the real world About 4 years ago when i was 16 I had a solid 8/10 white woman in her 20 and come up to me like this, complimenting a playstation hoodie i was wearing in a shopping mall.She had to purposely tap my shoulder because i was wearing noise cancelling headphones, so yes this can happen to everyone, assuming she wasn't trying to groom me.
the title of op's comic is How James Met Mary
>>85097165i know how to talk to women and they are some blood thirsty vipers
>>85099093I wish but ive never ever seen a woman talk to a man first nor have i seen anyone muh approach anyone in public
>Yeah bro, I'm a loser just like you guys! I just get constant attention from women unprompted, lol!
even the south east asian woman who approached me in the nightclub, it turns out she is an escort who mass approaches men every night.
>>85097520I was in the store some days ago to pick up some dental stuff and made eye contact with a woman down an isle. She looked at me like I was some goblin and walked away, kek.
>>85097165Yeah:>women begging for money>women trying to sell me something>women wanting me to donate to their nonprofit>women hoping to convert me to their religion>my mom's friends calling me handsome (women in their 70s)
>>85097165Yeah sometimes, but they're usually intoxicated and ask some irrelevant time-wasting questions instead of complimenting.
>>85097165Isn't it obvious that they aren't incels if they get approached by women, the scenario in picrel has also never happened and is something you'd dream up of in the shower
>>85097165never happenseveryou barely register as existing to them
>had roughly 4 / 5 women express desire in me throughout my teenage years>still ended up a mentally fucked lonely freak virgin as a adultit really doesn't matter either way.your mind will convince you they're not really interested / are playing a prank on you / you're to ugly to date them.all it does is allow you to cope that maybe you aren't stone-dead ugly but just to broken socially to ever be happy.
>>85097165If you get talked to let alone approached by women you cannot be incel. Incels are looked at by women with disgust before they even have a chance to say anything at all. >>85097205/thread
>>85098261ngl I'd probably fall for it if the girl was that cute
>>85097165I had a cute cashier girl tell me my hair was nice, i was so taken aback from lack of compliments i didnt even know how to react. All that i could say is that i think it looks like shit
>>85097165No, you can tell the person who made this comic is a delusional normgroid or foid.
>>85100944The original comic was made by a male feminist but the version that gets reposted everywhere was a redrawn version done by a woman.
>>85097178/threadwhy do n*rmies act as though ~10% of the male population aren't completely socially ostracized when they gladly participate in ostracizing them every day, is it some form of gaslighting99.5% of women and 90% of men are evil n*rmy pieces of shit
>>85097165These comics were drawing by a literal autistic virgin on the inceltears reddit. I think he was in his late 20s at the time too.
>>85097165Not gonna lie some woman have approached me in the past but I never tried to date them. It doesnt mean they wanna fuck though. Now Im in my 30s I havent been approached by a woman in like 10 years even though some woman have smiled at me and looked at me at hiking trails, grocery stores and family gatherings.
>>85098452>this is a cross-gender problemhahahaha lol
>>85099224>women hoping to convert me to their religionHey if the mormons started sending cute girls in sundresses over to my house I'd join instantly. I'm a simple man
>>85102092I think thats what theyre going for right now desu
Foids sometimes act all innocent and cutsey and nice even though you know they got a train ran on them and they wanna sort of "hire" you to be their orbiter by pulling off that act, I've seen it happen before and experienced it myself, just keep a safe distance and do the minimal you're required to not end up in social trouble and nothing more
>>85097165>nice jacketmeans>hey you're hotunless the woman thinks your gay in which case the compliment is to be taken at face value.saw 6'3" chad on campus be complimented for his plain, generic, tattered blue sweater the other day out of nowhere.
>>85097165Depends on what you mean by approaching.Never has one come up to me and randomly started complimenting me. I have been complimented on my hair by a classmate and by some food stall worker but that might just be a nice gesture.
>>85097165Define "incel". I've never been approached because I'm ugly as sin, but I've paid for sex so I'm not celibate. Meanwhile, there's a lot of good looking virgin spergs ITT admitting they attracted at least some women.
>>85102305you can have multiple wives too, but you have to be one of those dorks and preach for them to prove your loyalty, you also have to be smart and earn a lot of money to make donations and contributions
>>85104394I think the mormussy might be worth it though..
