I think the worse thing about getting rejected by a girl isn't the rejection itself, its the blow to your social status. The more upset she is about you hitting on her, the more people adopt her version of events and view you as a creep.
>>85097540>social status People who worry about shit like that don't even have social status to destroy, it's kind of ironic
>>85097545Its not so much that you're popular and being demoted, you go from being a nobody/mystery to a creep, which is like going from 0 to the negatives.
>>85097540>.pngThat dude has been free for years now, and we're still suffering.
One of the weirdest modern trends has been young men being worried about what girls or other people think, and on the flip side the trend of women being absolute cunts to men instead of a polite rejection. I would say rejection is irrelevant. If anything she did you a favor because if she had said yes and didn't really mean it then you could've wasted your time and gotten hurt worse than a simple no. One final thing: other people don't actually give a shit. What seems like a big deal now will be a faint whisper of a memory in the future. Everyone is really just worried about themselves. And that's okay. But it also means this social status bullshit is total nonsense.
>>85098655None of this applies to normal people obviously. But the ones this does apply to are not normal and cannot be helped by your superficial analysis of modern culture.
>>85098682>None of this applies to normal people obviously. But the ones this does apply to are not normal What are we applying here ?
>>85098688You wouldn't understand. Don't speak to me, I know you are acting in bad faith.
>>85097563Being a creep is actually better than being invisible, not much better but at least you're on the radar now.
>>85097540And even if that doesn't happen you have to live with the tension
>>85098702I was bullied so hard in high school I dissociated and stopped hearing what the bullies were saying for a moment. I'm letting you know that as bad as teasing or this "social status" feels it's temporary and ultimately not nearly as important as you think.
>>85098729Did your ears ever start ringing, face feel hot and the world start to turn to a blur?