>only good time of my day is when BPD gf is sleeping>have to pretend to go to sleep with her so I can be in peace for as long as possible>luckily she's sleeps for like 10 hours straightWhy am I doing this for myself, bros... I'm so fucking tired of her bullshit, but I can't let her go away...
>>85099106If you have to pretend to let her sleep she's eventually going to lose respect for you
>>85099106do you and her a huge fucking favour and just end it. stop being a lying, manipulative little bitch. my bf is currently lying to me, calls me other womens names while we f and insults me. i've had enough and am leaving. go be with what you like since you obviously dont like her.
>>85099106nta but I love my BPD gf even though it can be difficult to deal with her sometimes. I think it's the good old avoidant-anxious pairing that causes the most tension because avoidant people want alone time and anxious people want to always have social connection. I don't think BPD people understand that others want time to themselves, especially avoidant people. I have been trying to get my gf to make a few girlfriends so that she isn't so dependent on me to be in a good mood but it isn't really working. But if you want breakup advice OP I would advise that BPD people usually have a mental image of someone that does not hold up without constant upkeep from that person and if you fail to meet whatever standard that is she might just break up with you on your own. Also if you tell her she is insecure or don't validate her immature behavior she will often times get really really mad. I think BPD people are kind of like emotional babies and u kind of just have to accept that they aren't going to do much growth in that area and deal with it if you're going to date them.
>>85100006>i've had enough and am leaving>my bf>not my exLmao sure nona. And I bet you'll quit drinking too, and maybe lose some weight.
