The whole "just be nice to men" advice is about as bad as telling men to "just be yourself" with women. People, in general, aren't attracted to niceness alone.As a woman, you're probably better off looking your best when you're with him and playing to the visual side of attraction, like sending him cute pictures. Don't assume that planning dates or doing nice things will automatically make him like you more.
>>85101494Guys will literally remember women who merely compliment them for decades.
>>85101675And they will ignore the ones who genuinely made an effort to be with them, for whatever reason.
>>85101494The only real advice to get and keep men is to know what they want and enjoy. It's purely personal and individual. The bad but working advice would be to develop BPD and prey on men who can't say no.
>>85101494I'm attracted to niceness alone in women tbqh, I always develop feelings for female coworkers who are nice to me
>>85101675Chad wont because he's the one consuming the entire supply of female compliments.
>>85101494I think people say that with the understanding that looking good goes without saying; being nice is probably the difference between being viewed as a pump and dump and being viewed as gf material
