Forgiveness is a fundamentally cucked concept.>Just forget when people mistreat you, bro. Who cares if, all the way until the heat death of the universe, history will record you as the loser who was fucked over and then ran away from battle?Hold grudges forever. Humiliate and destroy your enemies. Ensure that at the end of time, you will be known as the person that always won. The person that destroyed the lives of everyone who made yours worse. Forgiveness is something only the weak and brainwashed believe in. They "forgive" because they'd rather exit battles they believe they cannot win.
>>85103571You do it for yourself mate. Making forgiveness into an act for others makes it submissive. Making forgiveness into an act of self actualization that lets you move forward with your life, even in the face of a world that tells you doing this is the pussy thing to do, well that takes an immense amount of character and fortitude that only real men have.
I don't enact revenge but I don't forgive either.
>>85103601That's pretty fucking>Ghey
>>85103571The wrath you hold onto will burn you alive meanwhile the people who did you wrong live their lives peacefully not thinking about you at all.
>>85103571You aren't obliged to deal with the person after forgiving her tho
>>85103571Forgiveness is for when the consequences are already delivered. But also I try to do it for myself because I can't really do shit about some things, well, rather when the consequences aren't enough because you can still bitch about it and it will make them feel guilt and shame.
Really just depends on what's being forgiven imo, and how many times
>>85103855Self respect ensures forgiveness for a specific behavior or action only happens once
>>85103868Depends on context, but generally, yeah.
>>85103868>Friend accidentally bumps into me once>I forgive him>Friend accidentally bumps into me again 18 years later>Never forgive, cut all ties forever
>>85103868Yeah I pretty much agree, while some things like being cheated on for example I couldn't forgive even once
>>85103927Your friend should have thought twice before bumping into you
>>85103927if the "friend" bumped into me a second time, he was never my friend to begin with
>>85103601yeah, forgiveness is the way you stick it to them actually. being unbothered is not common.
>>85103571Absolutely correct and true.
