To have appeal, you need to be somewhat of a stereotype.
>>85105084It's called an archetype, and yeah, it's a cheat code to charisma
It's a very sad thing that I'm basically an anti stereotype. Women will only like me specifically for me, not because they are getting some kind of archetypical experience. Sad times
>>85105124Why is that sad? Lol. Adopting an archetype as your personality robs you of your sense of self. Developing your own sense of self is a far better long term investment to natural charisma. You just have to actually enjoy yourself to begin with, which you clearly don't. The moment you start being okay with yourself, that's the moment you start developing real confidence and charisma
yeah, because normies are brainwashed and don't like new things, you have to appeal to something already swimming around in their brain to begin with, usually something they saw on TV, without making it too obvious of courset. socio
Good work Sherlock. Now get me a diagram of a girl's butthole and what each wrinkle does
>>85105139You don't have to actually be a stereotype, unlike what OP says, but you have to seem like one. And it's nothing to do with enjoyment or self-assurance or anything, for some types it's even better to seem insecure and self-hating.
>>85105180If you're sociopath guy, then yeah, you prob know firsthand, it's basically a game of reeling people in with an archetype. In social situations, charisma is really about knowing how to exaggerate certain parts of yourself to entertain others and draw them to you and being confident in who you are and where you stand in the room. The reason I think having a strong sense of self is important, is because is very easy to get the lines blurred between yourself and archetype. You become larger than life the more you start to embody that heightened version of yourself. If it gets too big without you having people to keep you grounded, you get swept away and eventually find that you're lost. I don't think that's really an issue for sociopaths but for people just trying to develop confidence and stuff, it's important to know who you are before trying to become something more
