>>85106522
>Wtf is the point of them?
it's like being in a relationship without having to do couple stuff. quite useful actually.

>>85106522
Normal people are engaged in a cultural demographic wise polygamous group, hence the importance of the bf or gf title, for us gen z'ers asking someone to be exclusive is the same as asking for a proposal. They pretend to hate polygamous people meanwhile they'll go on dates and fuck 4 different people in a single week. A situationship
Is simply fucking with no official label but wanting one

>>85106522
if you are down bad and haven't talked to someone of the opposite sex for a long time, and then one wants to fuck, then you find yourself in a situation where you have to decide to endure being alone for who knows how long, maybe forever, or you put up with the person who wants to fuck you being flaky and wishy washy on what exactly it is you're doing, and you tell yourself it's better than nothing, or you tell yourself the other person will come around, and you can spend a lot of time doing that because you're ultimately getting a drip feed of the accidents of a relationship.

>>85106522
IDK. My social circle shrank to nothing and I deleted all social media. This girl I used to fuck and I've been stringing along for years at this point is the only person who talks to me anymore.

Girls like me but I don't care enough to make an effort at girls on the street or girls from work. Don't waste your time talking to someone like me. I'm rich so been considering buying hookers there's a pornstar I like near me offering

Basically people wanting an available sex partner without putting in the work of relationships or having to fuck different people all the time.

>>85106522
>"Situationships" sound retarded and like actual wastes of time.
THEY ARE IF U GIVE A SHIT ABOUT ANY OF THIS
THIS IS THE SAME SHIT AS ALWAYS WITH A DIFFERENT LABEL
IT'S JUST NAUSEATING SEEING NORMGROIDS DEAL WITH THIS SHIT AND IT'S JUST A WASTE OF TIME LIKE OTHER THINGS MOST FUCKERS WHO DON'T HAVE SOULS DO

>>85106541
>quite useful
How is it useful? Why would I want to LARP a relationship with someone who doesn't even love me? If I wanted that I could go on Janitor AI and roleplay with a bot.

>>85106547
>for us gen z'ers asking someone to be exclusive is the same as asking for a proposal
zoomers really need to grow the fuck up the oldest zoomers are pushing 30 and you can only fuck around for so long before you get fertility issues and age-related issues that makes starting a relationship harder

>>85106564
girls are obsessed with hot guys and if a hot guy has some kind of dysfunction in his own life or simply doesn't like the girl enough to make things official but keeps giving them attention it spirals out into a weird relationship that can last years and years and years with nothing actually happening besides some sex here and there sometimes not even

>>85106564
You get to have sex and do couple stuff when it's convenient for you, and then you can neglect the other person's needs when you don't feel like dealing with them, and you give them just enough to keep them stuck on you.

>why would i want that?
you haven't found the one you really want yet or you're not in a place in your life where you're ready to settle down, and you see pictures and videos of couples on social media and think it's cute and fun and you want a little bit of that vibe in your life too, but like the easy and fun parts.

>>85106522
niggas are out here sending nudes to convince millenial redditors to date them i've seen it all

>>85106634
>>85106634
>niggas are out here sending nudes to convince millenial redditors to date them i've seen it all

I was randomly talking to some girl in scotland one time and once she saw my face she just started sending nudes asking if I had the money to fly her over or fly over to like in the first hour

>>85106598
But it's all fake, I can't enjoy it knowing it's fucking fake and not real. I'll never get it and maybe that's a good thing.

>>85106522
>Wtf is the point of them?
You get to pretend Chad is dating you. Situationship is made up word for women when the guy they wish was their boyfriend just want to pump and dump for longer than one night.

>>85106684
it's not fake, it just is what it is and people tolerate it. Nobody goes into a situationship thinking that's what it is, there's a real connection there, just one person wants to be serious and exclusive and make it work, and the other person just wants to enjoy life and isn't ready to get locked down by anyone. You might find yourself in one if you actually like the guy who is stringing you along, and because you like him you don't want to let him go, and you rationalize it and make excuses for him instead of listening to what he says and realizing you want different things and you're not compatible.

>>85106522
It's something women invented to justify fucking chad who isn't interested in her for anything but sex and has no intention of ever comitting.
You are right, it is a waste of time, and a delusion because they are tricking themselves into thinking they are anything more than booty calls.

>>85106721
to add, as life goes on people get more isolated and whatnot and its endearing to finally throw the girl a bone and impregnate her or something.

That's how you know she's a real ride or die day 1 if you've been fucking around and stringing her along for years

If you really want a guy or his babies never stop simping for him

>>85106758
Ignore the first part I'm half-asleep. My seriousness scares other zoomers.

>>85106721
>>85106752
After 4 dates I ask if they want to be my boyfriend and if they say no I just stop talking to them. Idk I'm very structural.
>That's how you know she's a real ride or die day 1 if you've been fucking around and stringing her along for years
I'm not gambling my fertility years on someone who wants to play mind games for validation.

>>85106772
body count?
love from kazakhstan

>>85106758
it may sound like i'm defending situationships but i'm just steel manning them. If you have self respect then you know that being alone and unattached is better than being with someone who is stringing you along. I think your playbook is the right idea. That said, other people think that's what they'll do and then they meet someone they really like and the 4th date comes along and you don't ask them because they make plans for a 5th date and you'd rather do that then dump them there and you second guess whether your rules are right or if you're being too rigid, and then all your standards are out the window.

>>85106779
0. I'm not white though so that may be a dealbreaker due to the high concentration of chuds on 4chan.

>>85106772
Its not really mind games though it really separates the wheat from the chaff.

Who would you rather impregnate, or marry and settle down with? Your ride or die who's always down to fuck and always responds to your shitty low effort replies or some weirdo cunt who wants to go through your phone and wants to go ring shopping 6 months in?

Yeah any women can bag any retard but if you want an alpha you have to be put to the test for him

We're going to see an influx of 30 year old ran through zoomers on dating apps in the next few years looking for someone to settle with after fucking half of the country's population and I'm not excited for it

>>85106797
pretty based, you want to make sure she's chasing and you don't want to give her the reins but at some point you have to turn the corner and give her loyalty and start taking care of her.

>>85106522
A situationship is when a woman enters into Chad's harem with the copium that she's the only one.

>>85106812
100% agree. I don't even understand how people start relationships or find love without having the upper hand first and making sure both parties know that

>>85106797
Only 15% of situationships end in a relationship. So 85% of those women just wasted their time and fertility window on men who didn't commit. There isn't a shortage of men that requires this risk.

>>85106837
well that means that 15% are good men doing their due diligence and 85% are just a pretty face.
Not really their problem if you feel entitled to a hot man you should be able to tell the difference

>>85106830
>I don't understand how people find love without playing mind games and stressing them out on purpose so you can feed off of their desperation
Normalfags are sociopaths

Why do people act like the only options for women are some dysgenic 5'0" bald men with small dick or 6ft tall 7 inch dick Chads who make you compete for him? Do normal men not exist?

>>85106564
ez sex, what else?

>>85106872
because women know within like 2 seconds if they want you to fuck their brains out or not. In that sense, your comparison is not too far from reality although there is a wide range of physical appearance

>>85106522
DON'T DO IT NONA
DO. NOT.
IT IS HELL

>>85106873
Oh I see the problem.

Sex to me is pointless if I don't love the person I'm having sex with. I'd rather watch porn at that point. So that's why I can't understand.

>>85106887
men feel the same. In fact porn is BETTER than putting up with a real woman once you can say I've been there and done all that and conquered all the women.

That's when you realize who your ride or die and love has been all along - that girl you've been casually talking to for years and blocked for 6 months when you had another GF and still came crawling back

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>>85106522
Probably just a foid problem, I had a "situationship" with my twink boyfriend for almost two years before we finally got our shit squared away to move in together. Niggers are always in such a rush.

>>85106522
situationships happen because most women are directionless retards who call strong men "controlling" so they get put into the recreational-use-only category

>>85106905
fags are always in a rush to spread the AIDS virus. Even if in the HIV drug commercials they have more fun life than me

>>85106862
It's not a mind game, if you're interested you'll chase, if you're not interested you won't chase. Women, unlike men, often get swamped by attention from multiple potential partners, so it's better for a man to find out if he's the one at the top of her list and not just the one jumping through the most hoops. You don't understand because you are inexperienced, but men have to deal with women playing these games. It's not a game to separate the ones who will let you be with them under a bunch of conditions, and the one who will never give you up no matter what.

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>>85106919
The faggot will inherit the earth and rein a mighty foidocaust

>>85106905
Fags don't have to worry about reproductive issues because they don't reproduce.

>>85106928
Normniggers do all this just to get divorced in 5 years because they prioritised the chase over the relationship.

>>85106989
I've literally had a woman on ice since 2019, maybe earlier. She's stuck around through so much shit and we literally don't have a single picture together

You bet she's going to be the one I knock up. The female dating strategy type people end up divorced because they realize locking down a beta is worthless in and of itself

>>85107013
You're on r9k so I'm inclined to believe you're writing fanfiction.

>>85106989
no normalniggers actually don't do this, they get themselves stuck in situationships and date the girl that cheats on him when he has to take 4 months of from work because he broke his leg.

>>85107071
normalniggers are huge beta cucks which is why: >>85106879
I said this about the 2 second rule which is true btw.

A real man bends reality to his will
>>85107066
K, dude