Why didnt you find your wife in college/university
Never went.
>>85106738Because I listened to my parents, who were themselves high school sweethearts>you're still in school, don't worry about finding a girl>you're still in college, don't worry about finding a girl>you're still starting out at your job, don't worry about finding a girlI'm almost 30 and I've never been on a date
>>85106755Normies truly adore giving advice they themselves never follow and would have never followed..Sorry anon, you've been castrated and told to not socialize with girls. Now you're old and you'll be told off as a creepy weirdo by every girl you approach.Don't worry, your parents won't take any accountability and will blame you for your every failing as they hit the wound they gave you.
>>85106738>College >Highest quality dating poolDepends on the school, I suppose. Regardless, everyone is a fucking moron these days, even in tertiary education. Also, go back to Twitter, faggot.
>>85106738>Why didnt you find your wife in college/universityBecause I went to trade school and there were literally zero women in any of my classes, even the electives.
>>85106755When your parents start getting worried that they aren't getting grandkids be sure to remind them that they did this.
>>85107011It's not entirely their faultYou're supposed to not listen to them, anonsThat's the unspoken rule of life, is that you're supposed to break the rulesWe never did, did we?
in my first year of uni all my TAs were giga chad geniusesit felt kind of fake...
>>85106738I went to school later in life, so I out-aged most women. Similarly, I was more mature about my tastes, so I couldn't talk to a zoomerina about anything interesting.
The gaslighting never stops, does it?
because i was born into absolute poverty?? i couldnt afford schooling and dropped out because i was bullied
long story....I'll post it again.....>first college is a tech school.>2/3 female to male ratio>in the countryside and everyone looks like shit>so bad that a girl fucked a dude and cuddled with another in the same night>the same girl actually mooned me and teased me, but I couldn't fuck her because she always had 3 dudes on her.>second college>art college>most girls are fat weebs>most are hung up on a dude from home, want fembois, or got shacked up with a dude the first week and stuck with him throughout college>I actually got a bj, but the girl didn't want to go all the way, because she legit thought I was autistic and it would be "immoral">another girl waned to hangout with me everyday, but wasn't attracted to me because I wasn't an anime femboi>supposedly she felt bad about it, and wanted my gay suitemate, but nothing came of that.>she is now a gender non-binary with a bad dyke haircut.>tried to get with another girl, she was always nice to me, but she basically kept me around to keep the simps awayAlso it was a really small school, my graduating class was only eight people.
>>85106755kek this is pretty much my family tooAlso I commuted from home and carpooled in a family car to college and back
>>85107586>>I actually got a bj, but the girl didn't want to go all the way, because she legit thought I was autistic and it would be "immoral"Women have always been the eugenic sex
Every girl in college had a fucking boyfriend and the one who rejected me got one shortly after.
i fell for the college is a meme memei was in high school from 2011 to 2015. at that time, every single educated twenty-something, both online and irl, was lamenting how college was/is such a waste of time, you'll be in debt forever, etc. i just kinda believed they were telling the truth. turns out they were just being histrionic millennial manbabies and i was a complete tool for internalizing any of it. getting into a trade thinking it was the wise, subversive path is immensely regrettable.
Because I was disgusting, because I lived pretty much exactly like picrel outside of class, and because I have tremendous personality flaws. What's insane is I did get laid, though.
>>85107911Sorry. Lived pretty much like picrel. Like a feral person.
>>85107274NTA, but I thought I was already breaking too many rules and being a bad boy for shutting myself in my room and playing video games. So when I started going to uni and got a job later and listened to my parents more, I believed I was on the right path.Now I'm 30 and I realized I was supposed to sneak out from home and get in fights and shit. Too late now. I turned into a functional adult, but a major pussy for sure. Don't listen to your parents, zoomies.
>>85106738because i went to a liberal college and every woman was convinced trump was going to send out right wing death squads and tattoo serial numbers on muslim's arms and women would be literally chained to the radiator after he won in 2016not to mention this was the diversity is our strength era and none were more committed and brainwashed than white women
>>85107968Incelized by chuddification, many such cases.
>>85106738i didn't go to classes for years and eventually dropped out
They're both right. Yes most college sluts would rather ride the chad cock carousel than settle down with your dorky ass. But on the other hand it is the largest face to face dating pool of peers you'll ever have in your life and if you're persistent and not completely autistic you can probably find a shy dorky girl in your class to like you and then date you and ideally marry you. A large portions of nerdy white boy virgins that were in the losers club for all of high school and most of college get a girl this way by junior/senior year. Like if you ask married beta dorks in their 30s when they met their wife that is the answer you will get.
>>85107011>Now you're old and you'll be told off as a creepy weirdo by every girl you approach.No you dont, the thing is that the guys who fear women dont approach women or are immediately scared by it. Women date much older men all the time, its simply extroverted chads who already were good with it in school not some shy guy.
>>85107274Except when I was a teenager, I thought doing the typical teenage rebellion crap was cliched. So I stayed indoors, did homework and only ever did what I was told to do and behaved like a well-mannered adult.I want to be myself, not like others.
>>85108159>But on the other hand it is the largest face to face dating pool of peers you'll ever have in your lifeIt is not.The first month you enter college everyone is already in their own little closed groups.
>>85106738I didn't go to college.
>>85107586>most girls are fat weebswhats wrong with this
>>85108159>ideally marry youwhat kind of retard would sign a marriage contract these days?lmao
>>85108359A beta that wants a human female sleeping next to him in his bed every night. Because it's the only way that's going to happen for him.
>>85107782College is a meme now, so don't worry too much about it. Some robots a day ago were complaining about how they had CS majors but were both stocking shelves for the past 2-3 years.
>>85108413That's pretty much why I never pursued anything after completing my generals. The fact that I could BS and get away with the most low effort shit told me to just get out first chance you'd get because I could not deal with how low that bar was. I did some retail and jannie/warehouse work but otherwise ended up a neet not very long after the covid lockdowns were lifted.Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
>>85106738CompSci, only dudes there, masters as well.
>was thrown into an apartment my first semester rather than a college dorm>never really got the "college experience"> was in aerospace engi and astronomy minor - so already there were no women>only women i ever interacted with later on were associated with roommates>was already socially awkward>nearly dropped out - closest i came to offing myself was then (other than now)>no women in jobs after college>never dated as saw myself as too awkward and inadequate to bother considering i'd never been given a chance>slowly isolate more and more out of a sense of shame>lose all high school/college "friends" after years of isolating and avoidance, thinking that'd any social interaction with me is just out of pity10 years after college and 3rd job out >develop crush on girl that i am on a crew with>get along with her well, work with her for years>we do stuff together off-shift quite a few times, sometimes one on one>eventually she moves off crew as she becomes a subsystem engineer>slowly she pulls away - she stops messaging me one on one or even in the group chats>she stops coming to find me at work>i realize me going to find her at work is entirely one-sided>realize it was just proximity and me disproportionately valuing the limited social interaction i had with her as i have none elsewhere>view the silence and ambiguity as her not wanting to keep touch at all >start isolating and avoiding her>mirroring the same deterioration of every social relationship i have had in my life>start earnestly looking for jobs elsewhere, as realize i'd wasted 4+ years thinking things would happen with her>know i shouldn't even bother - keep chasing greener grass but the grass is never greenfeel like a failure when every person i know is married with kids and i haven't held a woman's hand. getting too old now. no longer blinded by naivete of youth that things might just happen by chance. avoid more - it's a cycle and immutable. something is intrinsically wrong with me
>>85106738I am a schizoid with sexual perversions. I kept to myself
>>85106738>you can date within your HECKING ECONOMIC CLASS!!!leftoids are so ghoulish and buglike, under that faggoty faux-equity patina
>>85107586It doesn't matter what the ratio is, even when it's skewed 2/3 female there was this article from like 2008 or whatever where the women at some universities were whining about how hard they had it trying to find guys and that they would only even consider 1/4 of the men going to the school despite the skewed ratio with them outnumbering the men 2 to 1.
>>85106738In colleges with a greater number of men than women, all the women are taken. In colleges with a greater number of women, all the women are massive whores. Hardly "highest dating quality" material. Maybe "pump and dump" material at best.
>>85106738>find your wifeI don't want a wife. I want a perpetual gf, because I'm a high value man and don't want to lose my early retirement fund in divorce rape.>in college/universityI have an engineering degree. 90% of my classmates were dudes. The other 10% tended to be fat/ugly foids. The very few good looking foids already had bfs. And I am too high-inhib to approach or even know what to do when I'm given attention.>>85109192Also this. Masturbating to my fetish and regular softcore porn is enough for me. Never got desperate enough to trade my peace and money for a relationship.
>>85109224Trust me, what I am attracted to is worse.
>>85109229Mine is weird. Not gonna say what it is but to normies it's completely inoffensive, maybe slightly arousing content. To me, it makes me hornier than regular porn.It's sort of like feet but it's not feet.
>>85106738I dropped out. Before that, I fumbled the two who were into me. There was a third, but she was black and so am I, and that made me uncomfortable and I left her. :^)
>>85109240Weird, but people would get violent if they knew what I was attracted to
>>85106738Highest quality dating pool is low-IQ, low-education working-class women.
>>85109323I have a few coworkers married to women like that. They complain that their women make too little and they're broke all the time supporting the women and kids. The low-education, working-class women also view high-income men as ATMs and aren't actually cheaper to maintain than a higher-income woman. Good women are incredibly difficult to find and it's not a matter of income. Most of the women around you at any moment are opportunistic garbage you're better off staying away from.
>>85107170I mean you can easily weed out the dipshits on uni. Like just have the basic conversation everyone has when they first meet, discuss interests and then bring up major. If they're talking retarded courses or some made up liberal arts shit you know ro run
>>85109353They complain that their women make too little and they're broke all the time supporting the women and kids.>The low-education, working-class women also view high-income men as ATMsThat's the point, that's actually a good thing.
>>85109353Good grief, man. Have a cup of coffee and smile at a cat or something.
>>85109381How is it a good thing to be constantly broke with a nagging woman who makes little money? You got a degree and a good job and somehow you're still poor and paycheck-to-paycheck because you have an expensive bitch making 20% of your wage but eating 50% of it.It's worth it if she fucks you every day and is at least an 8/10 and cooks a lot. But most of these foids look like shit, aren't in good shape and don't cook because they work in shifts 8h a day.
>>85109398I think his argument is less about finding that trait attractive and virtuous. Instead, I wager he finds security in a woman interfacing with him as an instrument whose function, with respect to the other individual, is vital and narrow, meaning low expectations beyond the one function.
>>85108384>a human female sleeping next to him in his bed every nightfor what purpose?they are burdens. imagine being such a soft faggot that you need to fund another person's lifestyle just to have a warm body next to you
>>85109224You're not high value, you just have a bit of money.
>>85109240>cant even mention it on 4chan>normies find it acceptable???
>>85106738My school was 70% men and girls either had boyfriends from high school or were discovering themselves.
>>85109583>a bit of money.It depends on perspective. Compared to a billionaire, I'm nothing. Compared to most normies, I'm already rich, because 80% of the people in my country are dumb idiots who get into debt for all kinds of things they don't need and they end up living paycheck-to-paycheck even on a good wage. They have no investments and no savings. I could already afford to not work for 7yrs. I have nobody depending on me and will never have any debt unless I get seriously ill.
>>85109589It's such an odd thing that it would narrow down who I am too much.
>>85106738The ones I wanted didn't want me.
>>85109601>I could already afford to not work for 7yrsLet me guess: you have less than $500k net worth and think eating ramen and NEETing for a few years is a flex
>>85109606who gives a shit? spill it
>>85109625You don't need $500k to be comfortable, especially when you don't live in some expensive shithole like the US. I didn't even eat ramen when I was a broke student in university. Freedom is the most important thing for me. Money is nothing if you have no time to enjoy it because work and commuting take 10h of your day.
>>85106738I actually DID try pretty hard in uni. I was on basically every dating app back then and my uni was like a 70/30 gender ratio of women to men, so it was supposed to be in my favor. I had a friend group, a townhouse with roommates, hobbies, went to the gym, a part time job etc. All the shit that people online tell you that you need to have to get a gf.Needless to say I am an incel so my retarded and ugly subhuman ass didn't get anything in those 4 years. It just goes to show you can "do everything right" and still fail.
>>85106738because I found her in middle school and we got married out of high school.
Pic related is peak, everything else is shit. If you didn't get pic related then it's over.
>>85109657>claims to be a high value man>doesn't even have half a mil
I'm in university now, the only pretty girl in my class is a bpd egirl archetype who stirs drama among the beta males in my classesthe other good looking girls are all foreigners who only interact with their own peoplemost girls are average - ugly and very leftist, so i want nothing to do with them
>>85108529then get your bussy destroyed Anon
>>85109676When I was growing up, there was a girl who lived on my grandparents' cul de sac. She was my age and sort of a tomboy, when we were young we'd play whenever I visited my grandparents. We went to different elementary schools and grew apart as time went on, but wound up going to the same highschool and sharing some of the same friend groups. By this time she had matured from a short-haired tomboy into a very attractive girl, with the roundest ass I'd ever seen.We both ran track and cross-country, and one day during practice in our junior year we found ourselves alone near the bleachers. We were goofing around/flirting like teenagers do, and I just couldn't stop myself. I pulled her running shorts down to expose her pale, plump ass, I got her on all fours, and I started fucking her. She resisted me at first, but I started pulling on her ponytail and shoved my thumb in her mouth, and like a broken mare she calmed down and let me ride. Fifteen minutes later we were fucking missionary, she wrapped her legs around me and I came inside her harder than I'd ever cum before. We were so lucky she didn't end up pregnant.We graduated highschool 15 years ago, and we've been married for 12. I don't mean to suggest that any of you should ever rape a woman, I just mean to present a method that worked for me.
>>85106738Because I'm stupid and lazy, so I ended up dropping out. And I was too ugly and weird to enjoy the party aspect of it, so I didn't even had fun while I was there.Also, I made the stupid decision of doing soft engineering, where the few women that went there had (unironically) 3-6 dudes chasing them (and these were only the simps, who knows how many fuckboys were also trying).Idk, Uni was not a good period of my life. It was basically Highschool 2, fuck that.
>>85110075Yeah, right. At least you can add creative writing to your resume.
>>85106738because i got cursed socially because i got blessed financially by getting recruited straight out of high school into a fully remote high paying tech job that no one in their right mind would turn down so now i just watch my savings and investments climb while i sit alone in my room prodding claude for a couple of hours a day and spend the rest doing absolutely nothing
>>85107967story of my fucking life. I tried to be a good Christian boy in college, I was told that was the best way to meet good women, to stay away from partying, get a good job, etc. Take a wild guess how any of that turned out.
>>85106738>Why didnt you find your wife in college/universityI was socially inept and didn't speak to anyone. All I did was attend lectures and go home. Spent all of my free time getting stoned and playing video games or watching anime. Now as an adult I do pretty much the exact same stuff except I have like 2 additional hobbies and an above average STEM job.
>>85107274That's how it's always been but parents ruined this. They spent their youth sneaking out, lying about being at friends houses to go party, drinking, etc, and now they have cameras and trackers on all their own kids so they can't do the same.
>>85106738I did but we broke up. The best pair that you can get is the one that you were growing up with since your childhood.
>>85110363>>85109676>The best pair that you can get is the one that you were growing up with since your childhood.That was literally how people in the boomer generation met, and it did not prevent the divorce tsunami of the 1970s and 1980s.
I fucked like 50+ different girls in college and only actually dated 2 or 3. They'd ask me to date in order to hit it a 3rd, 4th time and I'd straight up say no and to kick rocks. Now I'm totally alone with zero social circle and no pussy since I don't have the will or want to pick up girls off the street or mess with girls from work
>>85110665>Waaah, I was a degenerate chad in college and now I'm reaping the consequences of my actions. And you guys are reaping the consequences too. I'm just like you anons!shut the fuck up faggot
>>85110680K, I was answering the OP question and offering a unique perspective
>>85106738Everyone made their own groups instantly. That, and whenever I tried approaching one I was on good terms with, they considered me pushy, but if I didn't, then they never approached or called me for anything. It's like russian roulette except all chambers are filled.
>>85110716I never got added to the freshman dorm group chat because the sportsballniggers who got there 2 weeks early were actually upset I showed up and started fucking all the girls
>>85110736I managed to enter one, but I quit it almost instantly since it turns out I don't really like normies constantly posting brainrot stuff and my phone buzzing over and over. Not only I give the ick naturally but I just don't like what others do.
>>85106738>Why didnt you find your wife in college/universityBecause women don't want me
Is this an American thing or why does everyone on this website act like all people go to college, even the dumbest, bottom of the barrel retards? I'm a subhuman autist living in Germany and I couldn't even imagine getting anywhere close to Uni, most of us do some shitty apprenticeship to wagecuck our entire lives away.
>>85111404yes, college is pushed on Americans very hard. They make it impossible to get good jobs and job mobility without an overpriced degree (doesn't matter what it is), then they import 3rd worlders with less qualified or fake degrees to take those jobs, leaving a bunch of aimless 20 year olds with impractical degrees and no jobs.t. American
>>85111404When the government was allowed to give out loans to kids for college in the late 60s/early 70s the propaganda went into overdrive on how important a college degree was to burger kids, they bascaily sold it as high school for adults at best to some magical get a job button at worse, in the end that 50+ years is so ingrained into people there that much like a diamond ring for marriage it's near impossible for the youth to shake off going there even if they are dumb as bricks for how steeped in the culture it is.
>>85111452>They make it impossible to get good jobs and job mobility without an overpriced degreeFunny enough it's more like that's just how they wall off applicants to hire their nepo choices. They out right pay the education for who they want to give the job to and most of the time that walls off any other applicants trying for the job because they lack that "4 year degree of [very specif skill set]"
>>85111452>>85111472Interesting, the way it works I assume is that White and upper class Americans are expected to go into corpo jobs that require a college education while all the lower class Browns and immigrants are made to scrub toilets and work on farms.
>>85111452Bait.>>85111472Because it was worth it back then. Now it's so inflated, overpriced, and with such terrible loans that it isn't worth it unless you already have conenctions.
>>85111515I can't tell if this is a bait or missing a joke but they targeted minorities there at a 4 to 1 ratio for the last 50 years because whites were bascaily lock in and they were needing to get the rest. It was a business and the goal was to get as many customers as possible so they offered grants and what not as a means to try and encourage everyone to try and get into one.
>>85106738I went to university and everyone who got married back is divorced except for one friend who actually does seem to have found a solid relationship.
>>85111494Also true. if not outright nepo, its a "who you know" thing.>>85111515Decades ago it was determined there weren't enough browns and immigrants with degrees, and that was "raysist". So they were given preferential placement in both school and work.
>>85111452You aren't even guaranteed a good job with a degree anymore, it's just the bare minimum for shit jobs too now. So many people I went to college with are working for 25 an hour and it's wild. I have a buddy who works at a Volks Wagon factory in Georgia make like 40 an hour since the unionized and he dropped out of high school. College degree is fucking worthless unless you become a doctor or some shit. Even this board is full of people with College degrees who are so worthless they can't even get retail jobs.
>>85111540To expand on your point the "worth" it brought was due to how hard it was to originally get. There was a time up until the 90s that just clearing the 12 base grades would get you job opportunities but for the last 30 years it became worthless as policies like "no child left behind" meant you could no longer tell who actually study and earned there schooling and who was just propped up. Unfortunately College is now suffering the same fate where many employers need more than just seeing you can throw 40k+ at a school as most now are not failing students because it would effect enrollment or worse situations like Yale where many there are not even graded, they just get the papers. So now most employers do like the one anon said where they just buy a persons degree that already works for them and need other evidence to take in outsiders such as internship work or some out of country education as a means to show they are serious and not some by product of this god awful system we created.
>>85106738I was a severely depressed chemistry major with terrible social skills.
>>85106738My community college was the most depressing fucking place ever and just reminded me how much of a fuck up I am.
>>85106738Also, nice try kike, im not going into debt based on a "if " ,especially when all the curriculum is just give you assholes more money and justify overspending on shitty professors.
>>85111540how is that bait? I agree with everything you said as well. But immigration is also a factor.>>85111662Yeah, I'm one of those with a useless degree (in GA too lol). The only way for me to get "value" out of it is... more school. what a shitshow.
>>85107782It's not a meme if you know how to use it. You gotta understand this site is filled with bottom of the barrel trash that instead of reflecting on themselves use any coping mechanism possible to not feel like bottom of the barrel trash. A lot of them barely made it through high school so they're obviously gonna say university is for idiots because they're unable to see themselves as idiots.
>there are men who fail to get into a relationship or even get laid in collegeHow can those men fail so hard? The most work you have to do is walk to a party, and say hi to a drunk girl, and you are having sex within a few minutes.
>>85110075I've ran into "how I lost my virginity" threads and for girls, a lot of them lost it due to some dude raping them and then they kick off a relationship with the same dude that last years. shit like this make you wonder why women have rights to decide the direction of society]in the first place if they submit so easily to whatever place they're in and enable people like you to do whatever and win.
>>85106738There were like 3 girls in my CompSci classes and one of them was surrounded by her orbiters. One was an ugly goblina jeeta and the other was normal, so pretty much guaranteed she was taken. Having desirable girls in your class is only true if you're studying a normie degree
>>85106738I wonder if this person is self aware enough to realize he's proving the other guy right.This is the mindset of someone who just wants mindless hook ups not a long term relationship.
i asked a girl sarah out she said no. a girl gen i told her no. i saw gen a few years later she told me she doesn't know me. i asked a girl stephanie but had a cockblocker. i had sex with her in the closet cockblocker.
>>85112959Half my CS class were girls and there were some cute girls. I fumbled it really fucking badly with two hapas that were interested. All the stars aligned for me multiple times in university but I'm so retarded I graduated a khv anyways. I doubt ill ever get to meet girls like them
>>85112814Got kicked out of the first one due to bad temper. Went to community college part time for five years. Got my bachelors at a commuter school.
>>85106738>In eng (dropped out because i became an alcoholic)>thought an asian woman who was clearly dtf was just friends>she consistently made contact with me>made sure i got home safe>always texted first>grabbed my armunironically probably could've said "let's have sex" and i wouldn't have got it. that said i was never rude to her, so foids can't complain because they would literally abuse a man who did this for them, meanwhile i didn't know what to think, bought all of my own stuff, and was just socially oblivious>fakecelhonestly if i were raised to talk to people i would be a proper ltn. but i can only talk to people 1 on 1. give me an interview and i'll convince them to pay me infinite money, ask me to talk to people in the office and i'll be fired for being "creepy." that said there's some fakecel on yt complete chad, i'm nothing like him. on a good day, 4.5
>>85106738OOP is pretty correct, lots of beautiful and intelligent women even if you have to wade through chaff to meet someone interesting. Unfortunately I'm in engineering and have no time to meet women between homework and projects.
>>85115638Based and sigma. Stick to the grind and never let anyone tell you otherwise. Money matters most.
